I'm drawn to a variety of different relationship dynamics O/p, D/lg, etc...

Some people seem to think flexibility means you don't know what you want yet. Bullshit; I know exactly what I need, and will not accept any compromise in attaining it, I just happen to realize that the paths to what I need are legion.

I'm not interested in a uniform, mass produced thing identical to a thousand others, I want a real human being to serve me, and those are pretty rare.