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TheLadyTJ1
Female Dominant, 67,   Bangor area, Maine

 

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 TheLadyTJ1

 Dominant Female

  Bangor area 

 Maine

 5' 8"

 220 lbs

 67

 Bisexual

 Caucasian

 11/21/14

 04/21/18

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Roommates

A Poly Household

 


Texting is good for quick answers to questions, NOT for conversations!  If that's what you consider to be a primary form of communication, then look elsewhere for a like-minded soul.


 


Nothing online and/or phone is Real, until someone Makes it Real!! If this is too long for you to bother with, then you are too wrong for me to bother with. 


 


While the below is what I have always sought, I'm finding that as I get older, I'd love to travel the country, perhaps in a nice, late model camper or motor home ... spending a month at Tahoe, Lake Louise in Canada, or Lake Lure, NC ... or even visiting Europe with it's wonderful cultural gifts to the world.  I've sold my small home, and have relocated to Maine. But there are so many beautiful places in the U.S. and in the world, that I'd like to visit, some anew, and others I've visited before.  It's good to have a home base, but I also have wings on my feet that yearn to fly!  My other goal is to live where I can watch a lake or the ocean, along the Outer Banks of North Carolina, or overlooking fishing boats in a bay on coastal Maine... perhaps doing some fishing and or throwing out some crab/lobster pots.


 


I've decided I can and will do both, travel and enjoy the ocean.... either by myself, or with that sub or slave, male or female, who can understand these important things about me, as well as knowing that their slavery/submission to me is 24/7, while fetish and play is not.  If I can find a traveling partner (slave) who can make this happen, great!  And I want to enjoy this life with a slave (or a partner who wants a FLR) who can Help make this happen. I want it All! 


 


Wanted: slave, male or female who is financially self sufficient, who can drive, clean, cook and do yard/garden things, once I settle back down with a property. If you are looking to become a real Full-Time Total Power Exchange relationship slave, if you deliver and surrender yourself to become my slave property there will never be release from being my property ever again.




Although I may choose to display you to others, you will never be allowed out in public alone again with out permission except for working at a job or other things I will, or that I may, approve for you to go to IF you don’t have some sort of pension or other income to contribute towards a share of household cost of living expenses.  If you expect to routinely go "out to play" then forget it, things like that will Only be at my pleasure.


 


The following is directed particularly to females ... If you are unable/unwilling to prove that you are who you say you are, then don't waste my time by reading further, or writing me. I want face and voice verification via Skype or YIM, or some other such program. I Don't want to see you naked or for you to "perform" in any way. This is a reasonable request, due to to stalkers out there who have seen fit to try to harass me. Mainly they are just males who can't "perform" or find a Woman any other way than to pose as one, claiming to be lesbians. What an insult to legit lesbians everywhere! And if you are not prepared and willing to meet within a month or two of contact, you can just move along. Don't even try the "I don't have a cam, or it doesn't work" routine ... if you can't manage what is extremely common now, then you can't afford to come to me as a slave!



I am sane, serious and stable. I am kind caring and cruel, strict and lenient, lovable and an S O B. I am honest , open-minded, opinionated, stern, and a total mix of emotions. I am not here for your fantasies, your pleasure, your wants or your needs. I'm not asking for tribute. I'm here to find what I'm looking for. Can you approach me with openness and honesty? 

I will make several promises upfront ... I will hurt you (if you're truly masochistic), but I will not Harm you. I will use you, but am not a User. I will not ask you to do anything illegal or unhealthy. I am intensely responsible as regards your health, safety and well-being. If I could go to a market and buy a slave, I would make those same promises. If you think about them, is anything else necessary? As a result, I will only consider those who come to trust me, and seek to place themselves into my hands without a laundry list of "conditions".


 


I personally could care less about your fetishes and kinks, I look for a slave. And IF you prove yourself to me, I further promise that I will treat you as the increasingly valued slave and possession.


 


I seek for my household, a service-oriented female or male slave who would like to assist me in creating a lifestyle home. This person will be chastity and orgasm controlled, among other measures. He/she must be self supporting (able to handle your own insurances, health insurance, and personal expenses), able to assist with household expenses, and able to handle many household responsibilities which which include cooking. Additional talents could include handling outdoor, construction, and maintenance activities, or other unique skills and abilities. The person accepted must be exceptionally service oriented, not afraid to develop skills further, and not afraid to use those skills.  I want a slave who wills him/herself to live to his/her fullest potential and beyond. 


 


I also seek a special person, a partner with whom I can share my life as my slave.  Who that person will be remains to be seen, but I am open to the possibilities and can be very flexible!

If you only want to pamper a prima donna, then look elsewhere. I'm not a Thoroughbred, but rather more like the purebred Arabian who who can run into the wind and will build her own heaven on earth.

I have recently moved to Maine from the Southeast, and Love it here, though I'm Sure I'll be complaining like everyone else during January, February and March ... unless someone can take/teach me ice fishing, or exploring more of the SE U.S. ! I'm into gardening, cooking, food preservation, hunting (I don't go out so much anymore, but can process a deer from field to freezer!), fishing, modern homesteading, boating, beaches, mountains, water, reading, sewing, antiques, auctions, and creating a gracious home environment. The person I seek will have to fit in with, and thrive in that environment, unless I'm given a proper incentive to relocate. I can envision a male or female in a "housewife" - type capacity in my House. That person will most likely never become anything like a "partner" for me, but may possibly be allowed to grow into some sort of personal service position to me if he/she becomes extremely valued by me.


 


I'm Not a "barbie" but I enjoy making my own pasta and raviolis, making sausage and jerky, creating things "home made" (ie, avoiding processed foods and steering towards organic and non-genetically modified ... non gmo's), making pizza crust from scratch as well as breads.  Though it's a lot of work, it feels good to know what is in my food.  It's a little tough sometimes, but well worth it.


 


I also have a little dog, so if "accessorizing" with occasional pet hair bothers you, just move along.  He lived here first, and while he loves cats, he is a little wary about bigger dogs until he knows they won't "eat" him or step on him.



I experience almost a "high" when my slave accomplishes things and projects that need doing, and intelligence in another is a definite high for me. Accomplishments and intelligence, combined with humility and respect only endear a slave to me more and more as time goes along. If you can't make my life easier and/or are high maintenance, go elsewhere. 

I am ONLY interested in LTR possibilities, part or full time; only real life, and will not do cyber, email/phone sex or webcam. I expect to meet in real life shortly after we chat on line and on the phone. 

I absolutely love to use restraints and to administer corporal punishment, and am not nor will be a "mommy" type. If you need focus and direction, trust me, I can provide that for you ... as it takes to accomplish the mission ... from very light and playful, to severe and "memorable". I enjoy being somewhat sadistic but I can let the sadistic side of me go when training a slave for a specific role, for other Dominants in areas in which I have particular skills, or just because that is the approach I choose to use. I am a disciplinarian and ask that you note that I specialize in control with care, safety and discipline, not dressing up in latex and telling you how naughty you are while you lick my feet. However, with that said, I particularly enjoy various types of "restraints"! A "fetishist" or kinkster may not care for this environment, because I consider myself more of a Matron in this life choice than a dominatrix of any sort. The key here is that I am much more oriented to the Dominance and submission aspects of BDSM. I have found that D/s represents part of the "life" of lifestyle, while BDSM is a compliment and the way I choose to enhance the D/s. Reward and/or BDSM play will come when/ how/ if I decide it's deserved, and punishment will be punishment, not play. Play will be what *I* want, but I will occasionally consider things you enjoy if I wish to particularly reward you. 

When in a BDSM frame of mind, I enjoy using singletails, crops, canes, chastity enforcement, spanking, floggers, anal play and creative forms of sensation. I am not into anything illegal, or unhealthy. I've made the mistake of being "nice" but only those who earn the privilege will please me personally. I'm loving and sensual, but too many seem to want to disrespect that quality and therefore I move slowly before showing that side of me.

I've been termed a Huntress /Goddess (because I am one), and a Warrior (because for many years I was one), but feel that the Earth Mother also lives within me, and now it is time for all aspects to come together. Outside of personal attention, how do you feel you would you best serve me?


 


And Forget the Fantasy Crap!


 


Reprinted with permission from closetsitter1


 


Yes, I said it.


 


The first thing to when deciding to approach a Domme is to forget all the wild porn s__t.


 


Are there fabulously beautiful, six foot, blonde, aristocratic, extremely wealthy women who live in castles with living furniture and keep a stable of human horses on the chateau grounds, who crap in human toilets mouths, and castrate wayward boys who dare to look them in the eye?


 


Maybe, but I kinda doubt it.


 


Are there snarling, man eating, evil bitches who would think nothing of ripping the hide off your back just for an afternoons amusement?


 


Definitely. But why in hell would any sane man want that?


 


Are there extremely high protocol Dommes who expect you to be in total and constant slave mode 24/7? Never, NEVER wanting you to have a single thought or opinion of your own? Expecting you to live as an automaton with 300 rules of protocol to remember even in your sleep?


 


Probably. See snarling evil bitches for the answer.


 


Are there Dommes who NEVER take those six inch spikes off, wear perfect evil slut make-up 24/7, is ALWAYS ready for playtime, prefer tight laced corsets and thigh high boots to faded jeans and a t-shirt, and never says those dreaded words.."Honey, we need to talk?"


 


If you find her my number is 555-go for it.


 


Are there women who pay bills, work at K-mart, clean the poop up when Fido decides he doesn't want to go in the yard, raises children, babysits grand kids three days a week, gets as dirty as a pig when she mows the lawn and weeds the flower bed, puts her hair up when she is cleaning house, crys when she wonders how in hell she is going to deal with whatever calamity befalls her, but who has a deep need to find a man who will worship her, serve her, be her friend and confidante, and be ready when she finally has time to indulge her wicked, kinky side and allow her to live out her wildest fantasies?


 


BINGO.....THAT is what most Dommes are, gentlemen. Get over the stupid fantasies and embrace reality. You will find that these very normal women can become of their own desire, the Dominatrix of your dreams. But they are just like you. They live very normal, even mundane lives at times. Your honest, heart felt desire to make their lives better and allow them to be the Domme THEY wish to be, will see more of your own desires realized than you ever could have imagined.


 

Journal Entries:
2/2/2018 7:43:45 AM
Many things are happening in my life, and I am preparing to take steps to make them happen.  I've been more fortunate than many, and I seek to share that with a few select others!  I have not been very communicative lately, but it's because of the ones I am holding most important to me, and the time I'm giving them. More to follow. :)


1/21/2018 6:26:19 AM
This was sent to me out of the clear blue sky and unsolicited by me. I have no idea who this coward is, but I sincerely hope he/she gets the mental health help he/she desperately needs! I feel only pity for this grossly misled loser who is so full of misplaced hatred and delusions.

From: submizzive2view
1/24/18 11:47 PM
"This user does not have an active profile"

"There's nothing dominant about enlisted scum. Pure filth who need to answer for their war crimes. I'd love to put my boot up your worthtless ex-military ass. You're not a domme."


1/12/2018 3:02:24 AM
Yes, it IS possible to be the lowest member of the hierarchy, and yet be the #1 slave of a Mistress.  Think about it, and if you can't figure it out, message me and I'll explain it to you!

1/9/2018 6:25:21 AM

The first thing to when deciding to approach a Domme is to forget all the wild porn s__t.
Are there fabulously beautiful, six foot, blonde, aristocratic, extremely wealthy women who live in castles with living furniture and keep a stable of human horses on the chateau grounds, who crap in human toilets mouths, and castrate wayward boys who dare to look them in the eye?

Maybe, but I kinda doubt it.

 Are there snarling, man eating, evil bitches who would think nothing of ripping the hide off your back just for an afternoons amusement?

Definitely. But why in hell would any sane man want that?

Are there extremely high protocol Dommes who expect you to be in total and constant slave mode 24/7? Never, NEVER wanting you to have a single thought or opinion of your own? Expecting you to live as an automaton with 300 rules of protocol to remember even in your sleep?

Probably. See snarling evil bitches for the answer.

Are there Dommes who NEVER take those six inch spikes off, wear perfect evil slut make-up 24/7, is ALWAYS ready for playtime, prefer tight laced corsets and thigh high boots to faded jeans and a t-shirt, and never says those dreaded words.."Honey, we need to talk?"

If you find her my number is 555-go for it.

Are there women who pay bills, work at K-mart, clean the poop up when Fido decides he doesn't want to go in the yard, raises children, babysits grand kids three days a week, gets as dirty as a pig when she mows the lawn and weeds the flower bed, puts her hair up when she is cleaning house, crys when she wonders how in hell she is going to deal with whatever calamity befalls her, but who has a deep need to find a man who will worship her, serve her, be her friend and confidante, and be ready when she finally has time to indulge her wicked, kinky side and allow her to live out her wildest fantasies?

BINGO.....THAT is what most Dommes are, gentlemen. Get over the stupid fantasies and embrace reality. You will find that these very normal women can become of their own desire, the Dominatrix of your dreams. But they are just like you. They live very normal, even mundane lives at times. Your honest, heart felt desire to make their lives better and allow them to be the Domme THEY wish to be, will see more of your own desires realized than you ever could have imagined.


1/9/2018 6:20:34 AM
Just keep in mind, the toes you step on today, just might be attached to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow!


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