I am a WM professional in Houston, 54 years old. I am 5’11”, most of my hair, glasses, heavyset. I am divorced, and have decided it is time to get on with things, to start over better than before. I recently got a new job, one I like very much. Weight has always been something of a problem, and that is another of the things that need to be better than before.
I first realized I was “Dom” 10 or 12 years ago. It was like a light went off in my head. So many things that had never meant sense now fell into place. Suddenly, the roles that were meant for men and women were clear, the responsibilities to each other were so logical, and fit so well. A MAN is responsible for the home and for his family, financially, physically, emotionally. To love them deeply, hug them hard and often, guide them as necessary. It was all so clear.
To be clear, I think a good physical, sexual relationship is critical to a marriage. If at 6 in the evening I say, “baby, come help me in the bedroom for a minute”, I expect her to smile, say “yes Sir”, turn off the stove, take off her apron and take My hand for a 15 minute “stress relief” session. Dinner can wait. If (for whatever reason) she has gotten a bit smart mouthed, I will (without anger) tangle My fingers in her hair, firmly guide her to the bedroom, turn her over my knee, pull up her skirt and turn her behind a bright pink. Her tears would be followed by a long loving kiss and a “stress relief” session to show that all is forgiven. It is hard to stay mad at someone you just made hot, sweaty love with. So sex, regularly and often should be something she should want and expect…and initiate if SHE is in the mood and My mind is on something else. I would do my manly duty and bend her over the arm of the sofa. As you can see, I give and I give. I think a sense of humor and whimsy is critical also.
I am looking for a woman who understands what I am saying and is looking for something similar. To please her Man, available and anxious to love, please and serve as He desires. I do believe a woman should look up to her husband and feel that He is smart and wise and strong. I have no kids, but do like kids, and would be open to kids, if she has them. I am not looking for a supermodel, as I am certainly not, myself. I do expect her to be pretty in her own way. She does not have to be super slender, actually I like curves. Padding in the right places is fine. But she needs to be attractive to Me, and eager to please her new Man.
