Alright. So after numerous messages from people here on CM (which I thank very much for) I have decided to open up my Yahoo messenger for those that I wish to continue speaking with outside of CM. Google talk did not do what I had hoped it would do. However, I will only give out the name to those that I gain my interest. There are just too many messages a day; and I feel that if I give out my yahoo name I will receive just as many IM's there as I do messages here. Which would NOT do me or my memory justice. Thank you for understanding, all of your well wishes, and I truly hope that you all find what you are looking for here. I am so glad to have met so many wonderful people. 

I have thought long and hard about this. What is the appeal for messenger services such as yahoo? It seems to be the primary way to contact people off of CM. The program has never worked well with my system for some reason, so I am iffy on whether or not I should try to redownload it and give it another whirl. Is this really the way that it goes here? Jump on yahoo for a 'chat', and hopefully gain a webcam audience? THIS is my biggest issue with chat programs. All it takes is some lil subbie slut to press a webcam button and there they are, in living color, whether I want them to be or not. And that, in itself, pisses me right off. I ABHOR those that shove their wants and needs down my throat, and I'm getting it a lot more lately. So, I ask.. is this the main reason why people want to share their yahoo ID's, or am I reading more into this than I should?

I thought putting up a picture would be nice, instead of the blank spot there where one should be. Normally I would have placed one of my face; however, I have read numerous reports of users' photos being stolen from their profiles. I do not wish to have this happen to me...so you will get a photo of my favorite pair of boots :) Fits my username well, yes?

"What I am looking for in a submissive?"

This question has been asked of me so many times, I am simply going to paste what I have told to many that have written me. Perhaps this will save some time.

I am looking for one that wishes to be Mine in a variety of ways. Willingness to serve. Not a "yes Ma'am" all the time sort of submissive, yet the willingness and desire to make his Domme happy is evident. Some days I simply want to be able to enjoy their company. Other days, to push their boundaries, listen to their replies both text and vocal. Enthusiasm. Spunk. NO attitude. Someone that wishes to go above and beyond. Someone that wants to surprise me. Make me happy. Thrill me. And most of all, keep me inspired.

Thank you A/all for the well wishes, and warm welcomes to the site. I have to say, I have found it quite tedious, and enjoyable at the same time. Weeding out the fakes from those that are real; those that want to serve Me and not just a Domme; those that want to take the time to get to know who I am and not simply be used and abused; this is why it takes such a long time to answer many that take the time to write out an introductory message. I find it quite humorous that there are so many financial Dommes on here...Nothing against some of them, as I do appreciate the aspect that they are much more experienced than I am, and provide a service to those that do not wish to enter into a more committed relationship. I'm more pffft at the ones that think that their time to read a simple message from someone is worth a new pair of shoes on Amazon. I get it; financial domination is a fetish. Sure, whatever floats your boat...I certainly don't knock it :) Hell, if someone wishes to buy me something, go for it! Do I demand it? Certainly not. A gift is not a gift if it is demanded. That's just my two cents on that. Anyhoo...rant over :) Back to messages!

Wow...what a morning. As soon as I created my profile here, 10 messages came pouring in, all begging to be Mine. Is this normal?