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Hello. I am a 54 year old Dominant male looking for a Submissive Female with the goal of a LTR. I was raised by older parents and have old fashioned values. I am not into belittling or abusing women so if you have to have that in a relationship you might as well move on. I was married for 30 years, have 2 grown children, and have had the same job for 35 years. I make very good money and am not looking for anyone to support me. I have 1 to 5 years left then I hope to retire and buy a house on a lake somewhere and enjoy life. I know that a relationship like this is built on 3 things. Trust, Respect, and honor. With that said I am very big on respecting my Sub's limits. If the submissive's limits are broken then so is the trust that she has in her Dom it the relationship may never be the same. WHAT I WANT OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP: For a relationship to work we have to have more things in common then just the BDSM lifestyle. I like to camp, fish, ride motorcycles, and 4 wheelers too. I also like weekend get aways or just spending a lazy Saturday afternoon snuggling laying on the couch watching TV. As for the BDSM side of the lifestyle I am looking for a Submissive that can make her Dom feel like a king. I am the type of guy that if my Sub is keeping my happy I like to spoil her a little my self. Take her to a little shipping, get her nails done, maybe out of town for the weekend. Even send her flowers for no reason. I also want to be able to send her a text at a moments notice and say " Pack a bag for the weekend, get dolled up, and then take you out of town for the weekend and use you as I please. It will be weekends like this that as long as I stay with in your limits you will have nothing to say about the way I use you. it is those weekends the you will feed the bad buy/ sadist side of me that pops out ever now and then. Don't get me wrong this will not only happen to you on weekends but is subject to happen at the house at anytime too. IN CLOSING: I have always thought of myself as a loving dom. To me a Submissive is a special kind of woman that gives a special gift. That gift is she gives all her herself to her man in ways that most women will not. it is a gift the is to shown honor and respected. With that said I am a big believer in limits and not going past them, but I also have a Bad Boy/ Sadist side in me.
knotsallaround86
 
 Age: 25
 Hopewell, Virginia