I'm a Dom with a very creative side - too much time spent in the button-down white bread work world leaves a need to escape with friends who are interested in the erotic side of macrame (Shibari), whizzing electrons (TENS, Violet Wand), pointy bits (piercing) and the creative mind.

An experienced Dom (born that way--came out my way on my own schedule and haven't changed a bit since), I get off leading the initiate from the first hesitant steps of BDSM into full-scale submission so she can fly on the waves of her own sensations. I will also assist a Dom who wishes training in the use of some edgy toys & techniques for the advancement of pleasure & training: TENs and the Violet Wand. I'm a pretty clever deviant who loves finding new uses for old toys as well as new toys for old uses. A little bit inventor and a tinkerer I make many of my own toys (from leather floggers to remote controlled vibrators, Sybians on steroids and FMP chairs). Of course I was a boy scout so knotwork is one of my specialties

I'm looking for a novice or experienced partner who is looking for assistance in exploring and expanding her limits. I am 43/WM/D&D free/professional/adventurous. You should be 25-50/F/D&D free/curious...perhaps a little naughty & deserving of appropriate punishments or simply looking for new & different experiences. You are looking for a Dom who is comfortable in his skills and can lead you to find and conquer new limits rather than wasting time trying to figure out how to get one gizmo or another to work. But you would like one who has a little more creativity than the typical DomsR-Us graduate.

You could also be a Dom or couple who is exploring electrical stimulation and just wants to be sure you've got everything right before you attach those electrodes }:-) Perhaps you've heard of the pleasures that can be acheived with TENs, Sybian or Violet Wand but don't want to invest in their purchase until after you've had a chance to play a bit to make sure they're for you. That's ok too. I've helped others in your situation and would be happy to help you too (let's face it there just isn't a Bob Villa of kinky 'lectrical stuff, so we need to get the help where we can find it --- someone helped me, I help you, my karma is balanced).

So drop me a note and let me know what you're thinking.

Jim