Getting quite a few really good messages. Way, way more than I could respond to without losing house and home from neglecting all other duties. Not that losing house and home in the right way wouldn't be hot, but not like this!

If I don't respond, I may actually have liked your message, or suspected that things might go well. I'm really sorry that that just isn't enough with the amount of messages I'm working through and time it takes to have extended conversations. Something has to really stand out and compel a response. Just being reasonable, experienced. open to chatting, or somewhat similar in interests is too broad a catchment. 

I don't like responding like this! It doesn't feel right, and I hate judging and having to make everything so explicit. Seems like the only way to make it work. Sorry xx

More pictures coming in a few minutes. We've met a few people on collarme before, and we are real. If I don't get back to you, please don't be offended. It doesn't mean I don't respect you. It would just be a full-time job answering all the messages I've received on collarme. If you respond to our profile instead of sending a generic message I'll be much more likely to get back to you. xx