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TenderDiscipline

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I'm back- with today being mid-september, due to the unfortunate end of a serious relationship. I gave it time and thought, and figured I'd at least try to mingle and chat some on here. Newer photos on the way. Basic Info: I've known about dominant preference since early teenage years, and most actively explored over long distance relationship with pet in Norway over video chat. I have also done a couple local/close ownerships, of course. A few have come and gone, so now I'm trying to find a new pet to settle in with, or at least something that's not just a one night fling. I'm always happy to be have critiques on how well I am doing as well as receive requests and suggestions on how to better my domination. In my eyes, a Dom should love to please the pet he owns. A mentor once told me "If you're their king in bed, treat them like your princess when they wish it." Black belt in martial arts, and capable of using knowledge of the body derived from the arts to my advantage as an owner/dom. I am not looking for a one night stand. If I message you, please treat me with the same respect that I treat you with. I don't like the idea of immediate domination, though have come to realize that on occasion this is the best way to explore and show passion to one another. However, I would much rather chat for a good while, get to know my partner first. Thank you for respecting this, or at least explaining your own views if you believe otherwise. Currently working full time as well as taking classes. Getting my communications AA degree and transfer next semester if all goes well! I like to think I am a strong psychological dom on top of the physical aspects. I find it fun spending an hour on foreplay, forcing both my pet and myself to wait until we can no longer hold back, then all but jumping on one another. Of course, the martial arts and training I have done make me physically strong as well, and that just adds to the fun~!
I am chat and message friendly! I will treat you with the same respect you treat me with :D
Are you a sub, or a dom with almost no experience? Please feel free to contact me just to ask a few questions! I can't claim to know every answer out there, but I will answer as best as I can! I have been mentored by multiple doms of many walks and ages, and will always be happy to help. I am currently looking for a pet, preferably female since the last male did not end well. This does not mean I'm closed to males, just that I am much more picky about them. The closer to my age the better, no older than 25 preferably (although I'm willing to go older if there is a good reason). I am not one to get straight to extreme sexual acts on a first meeting, just some light play and a lot of learning.

I would also be ok with finding a friend with benefits. However, I'd like it to be that- a friendship as well. I know how to draw the line, and the other party will need to as well, but I'd still like some closeness and a bond to be formed.

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9/16/2017 11:41:23 PM
Hoo boy. Y'know, I kinda forgot about CollarSpace, for a while. Had a couple years of a solid relationship before it suddenly blew up in my face; though I'll leave it at just that. 

So, I'm back. A couple more years of experience under my belt, and as I've come to realize, that's all the more important at my age. A year of a serious relationship with a strong Dom/Sub aspect. More time, not just as a dom, but as someone finding their way through life. Every day offers new experiences, new things to learn. I'm looking forward to offering some fun times and smiles of all kinds to those I reach to, and those who message me. I still do my best to reply to all messages, though it seems some of those who messaged me have since left the site/community honestly.

Another day, a fresher start. Let's give this game of life some more play time, shall we?

12/8/2015 3:40:47 PM
How to approach lesbians, when you're a guy? I recently stumbled across a young lesbian woman's account, and she seemed really cool in her profile. I admit that I think she's very beautiful, but here is my conundrum: How do I approach her, and make it clear that I'm not just there for an attempt at sex? I hear the stories constantly, about how guys on here have tried to 'straighten' girls. Freaking pathetic, in my opinion, though that's a rant for another time. How does one make the distinction that they aren't like that? Words are just that, words. I can say I'm not that kinda guy, but how seriously will that be taken, when that's probably a line a LOT of guys use for this kind of situation? Just a conundrum I've thought of suddenly, thought I'd just talk about it in my journal.

9/27/2015 9:19:54 PM
Man. Kinda weird to be back. 
Guess an explanation is very much in order. 

So, skipping the woe-is-me, I essentially lost my job, bounced around under the table gigs while keeping up essential bills, which of course do not include wi-fi and internet access. Recently got a new full-time job in a sales management position, and finally decided to grab some internet access again. Already re-contacted some of my old friends, working my way through things now. Not expecting to be in full swing of things, gotta be realistic about how quickly I can take things after being out of the loop of all my communities for almost six months. For now, just going to be correcting profile details accordingly. Nice to be back!

2/1/2015 7:22:21 PM
Apologies for lack of activity. I found a sub I have taken a great interest in, whom reciprocates to an extent my interest. I have chosen to make her my focus until otherwise noted: Meaning, I won't be actively seeking much until I say so. Thank you for your understanding.

1/15/2015 5:28:27 PM
It's actually really funny when I see someone say I don't belong here due to age, as I act leagues more mature than them... XD

1/15/2015 4:15:19 PM
I will ALWAYS reply to messages. I've been disheartened repeatedly by seeing one out of twenty messages replied to, and maybe five of those twenty even read. I've resolved to not be that person. IF I am not interested, I will cop to, and address such with you face to face (so to speak).

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submissivegirl19
 
 Age: 26
 Huntsville, Alabama