Collarspace.com

I realize there are a ton of scammers on here and that its even worse for the men than women. Im not one of them. I am however very suspicious and particular about who I give my time to. I Prefer a man in my age range (50-60) Im absolutely not interested in much younger men. Ive been in the local community since 616. Im a safe player and easily vetted. Im new but not without experience. I have an abundance of kinky friends and mentors and just completed the Atlanta Mentors program. Ive taken every opportunity to learn and experience kink in a safe environment. If youre experience is limited to your bedroom and you also have no intention of getting out and learning, Im not interested in playing with you. Its not safe and its not fun.

Not looking for an online fling. Or any kind of fling. Nor do I want a fwb. Looking for a Ds relationship. Friends are always welcome, but I honestly do not have the time or desire to sit online chatting when a relationship isnt going to be a possibility. I prefer my friends to be real life.

I take good care of myself. I workout and try to eat healthy. Looking for the same in a dominant although I actually prefer a few extra pounds on my man over super skinny. I just dont want someone who is not obese and Inactive. I quit smoking recently, but I do still vape with a little nicotine, but I will soon cut out the nicotine completely.

I rarely message men first. I need to know that youre really interested enough to send me a message. Along the same line, if were talking and you dont respond for a longish period of time, I wont either. Ill assume youve lost interest. Nobody has ever accused me of being clingy. I will try to answer a new persons message, but if Im not interested, I have a hard time telling a lot of men that. Its very difficult for me since I feel like Im being mean even if thats not the case. I know a lot of you guys think thats rude but if Im uninterested I just cant do it, and I shouldnt have to.

As to a profile pic, Ive tried uploading one but this site seems to be messing up. Ill try again later.
1/7/2018 6:08:53 PM
I am not interested in a long distance or online relationship. I need a real life relationship, and I am looking for a relationship not a fwb. If you aren’t interested in actually meeting, don’t waste your or my time. If you randomly ghost on me or are constantly needing to cancel a meeting with me, I’ll assume you are married And cheating. 
12/27/2017 1:41:35 PM
As to your profile pic..These are observation and not meant to be bitchy. Please take this advice in the spirit it was given. First let me say that I completely understand the need to protect you vanilla identity, so you don’t post a face pic. Plus this site obviously doesn’t always work since I cannot post a profile pic. However...If you have 10 or 20 year old pics, we’re left wondering what you really look like. Pretty sure you wouldn’t appreciate my profile pic being one of me younger than I am. I’m also confused as to why anyone would post a bunch of pics of women who you may or may not be topping in the pic. And lastly the dick...I expect you have one. I’m even quite glad you have one, but if that is ALL you are then its not enough for me.
All this from someone with zero profile pics...I know it’s crazy! 😂 I meant for this to be helpful rather than a rant. 
DaddysGirl1980
 
 Age: 27
 London, United Kingdom