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I am now married (As of 7/16/11) to a wonderful woman whom I moved to Philadelphia for. We are not vanilla by any means and she is amazing.
We talked about things at length she is willing to let me explore some of the more hardcore things she isn't willing to do at home.

I have been living here in Philly for nearly 2 and a half years and I still have not been able to find my place in this crazy ass city (you may XKCD that either way and still be right). I have this nasty habit of being shy outside of the computer and really need help getting out and meeting the right people and building a social circle outside of the wife. If the right situation comes along, I would love to be able to explore some of these things that I have been pondering for a while but I am not just in this for me. I LOVE to serve others and nothing gives me a bigger smile on my face then knowing that I have brightened up their day and solved one or more of their problems somehow. This situation is ideal for my job in customer service (Construction meets Complaint Department) and many other things in life. Any help, direction, or even a little pushing/pulling would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your reading time.
J

8/2/2010 5:27:26 PM
A Year and a day in Philly, what a quest this has been so far.  I still miss home quite a bit, but overall things are happy.  Still halfassed looking for something but not having any luck.  Maybe it will come along, maybe it won't.  If not, I still have an amazing relationship that there is no replacing.
7/11/2010 1:02:15 PM
Poking in randomly to see if anything is going on. 
July looks beautiful, Bring on the Heat and the Humidity!
6/29/2010 11:16:10 PM
June seems to be closing up nicely.
Another year older, a fine trip to NYC with the Lady and some of our mutual friends, and beautiful, sunny, humid summer weather.

Kinda putting this to the side for now, as I don't seem to be making any connections.  Maybe it is something I am doing wrong, or maybe not.  At the end of the day what is most important is that I am loved and love the one other in my life that matters most.  If I get some horizon expanding play, awesome, but at this point, it seems like I am really just wasting my time.
6/6/2010 4:58:09 PM
Sadly things never materialised from the connection, but no hard feelings, everyone has what they are looking for and this didn't pan out. 
It has been a very stressful spring all around so it would be nice to have a decently relaxing summer.  We will see what the future brings.  
3/20/2010 4:52:14 PM
Surprise first session last night... Nothing like I was expecting... Which is good and bad I guess... Lots to process and think about... It is going to be a very interesting next couple of weeks in thought.
3/14/2010 12:35:44 PM
After a few false starts and stops, I seem to be making a real connnection... It still may not go anywhere, but for now, it is nice to be taken seriously and treated with respect. It gives me hope for this lifestyle and even this website... I am pleasantly surprised :)

Also a Happy Pi Day To All!
2/9/2010 7:31:36 PM
Loving the winter weather, the snow is so beautiful, and gives a shine of purity to an otherwise dingy grey world.

Getting used to the new job and being back in the working world and getting up early. 

Overall, 2010 is a fantastic year so far and is such a drastic and wonderful change to the mostly crappy 2009.
8/10/2009 10:31:09 PM
Moved to Philly from Baltimore back on the 1st of August. 
Adjusting to new people, new terminology, and new ways of thinking is just going to take time.  Hopefully finding a job will help clams things down a little and help my find y stride here.
My Fiance' is an amazing woman and she has been a great help in making the adjustments so far and is here to support me o matter what comes.
7/22/2009 10:54:00 PM
Sometimes you just have to remember that things that seem too good to be true always are.

"Mistress Holly" you were one of those things, and I was stupid in the middle of the night and you got me for $40.  Enjoy that as you will not get any more.
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 Age: 31
 Nr Norwich, United Kingdom