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yggi1
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| Are you looking for a young lady to teach? I am looking for men, women or couples who are preferably a bit older than me to introduce me to the world of BDSM.
I have remained a 'curiosity seeker' for a few years and feel it's time to try more than dabbling. I am open to a lot of new things and look forward to finding out what you would like to pursue.
A few things to know about me: I am currently attached in a non-BDSM relationship. I plan to keep that relationship as my primary relationship so I am available on a part-time basis only.
I have a preference for women and couples over men, so any replies from women and couples will be given much more priority.
I do not have a place to play, I would need you to make those arrangements.
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You must be this [6'] tall to ride.
Seriously. I know it shouldn't matter. And little in the way of physical attributes does with me. But I like a guy I can wear heels with and still be sorter than.
I am a tall girl, I'm not even a bit petite. I want a guy who can physically move me.
Just to continue the unfairness, while I do prefer women who are larger and taller than me, it's not a hard and fast need on my part for women. |
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Apparently I am not a pain slut. I do not get motivated by the threat of pain, I try to retaliate. This isn't to say that some pain in good measure would not elicit a response. I just think that all pain makes me more angry and resistant than a carrot and a stick approach. |
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Just in case this needs to be clearer and more consistent on my profile.
I live in Toronto.
Downtown Toronto to be specific.
I like the TTC, and I hate to drive.
If you are interested in meeting me you will need to be in Toronto.
If after that you are interested in playing you will need to provide a location in Toronto.
If we get on well and we have an established relationship I can be more flexible, but, at first I am the stereotypical Toronto-Centric girl. |
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I'm in one of those F'd up moods today. The kind where everything is a bit black. In these moods the submissive part of me (if she does indeed exist) is pushed to the bottom and I mainly just want hard angry exercise or exorcise it out of me sex. On the other hand it would be great if in the midst of that, there was someone willing to absorb that anger, to shape it, redirect it, focus it. It would be even better if that person was a woman. Although, I suppose more men will be up for the offering. These moods are not frequent with me, but I'd love to get over them sexually rather than sleep them off as I'm about to do. |
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I'm not really interested in hearing from men who do not live in the Toronto area.
If you're a woman, or couple who just wants to chat and I do mean JUST chat, or let me ask you questions then I don't care where you are.
But, if you're a man, and you don't live in Toronto I'm probably just deleting your messages, unless they say "btw, I'm in Toronto regularly". |
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I continue to be surprised at how men (and I do mean men, as no woman has ever done this with me) continue to take the most polite 'no thank you's' as an offense against them personally.
I've responded politely to three men that I'm not interested and received nothing but really crass remarks back. So, to the men who are wondering why women are not responding, in my case it's because I'm not interested and don't feel like being told off again for telling someone so politely. |
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I do not believe BDSM is a biological pre-determination. In fact I'm proof that it's not. Submission is not natural to me, it's a challenge, and adventure, a role that I take on and put away when play time is over. Naturally I'm a very dominant personality. If you are looking for a woman who believes submission comes naturally, I'm not it. |
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I like sex. I didn't think that would be something I'd need to put in a profile, but the more I speak to people the more I find out that there is a divide between those who practice a non-intercourse BDSM and those who think sex is part o the package. I'm the later. No sex. No fun. Well that's my logic anyways. |
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I keep thinking of little things that may be useful as general information, so I figure I'll update them here.
What am I looking for?
I find it hard to describe being new to this whole thing. I do know that the 'drill sergeant' bit as I call it is generally a turn off for me. It seems so redundant and boring to have someone bark orders and to mindlessly follow them.
Then there are the 'sensual dom's' who promise no pain, no humiliation, deep psychology. That turns me on more, however, in my browsing of BDSM on non-BDSM sites I found that these men could be more vanilla than what I was looking for. I do want to get to play with the toys and some bondage, but I'm not looking to go home with marks I can't explain either.
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| Age: 19 |
| Prague,
Czech Republic |
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