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Kinky Fetishist, Masochistic Bottom, Switchable Submissive, Sadistic Service Top, Vanilla Affection Enthusiast.

Bright, friendly, playful, hedonistic, polyamorous, and GGG, from soft and light to edgy and dark. I was active in the local scene community for many years, most notably as a former organizer for the CSGM Munch in Cambridge.

Only available for local, real-time, in-person meetups and relationships, so no LDR, cam, sexting, virtual, or cyber roleplay. If we arent local to each other (or planning to visit), then we arent compatible for any kind of kinky activities. I do respect your time and I promise not to waste it, so please dont waste mine.

Nor am I a slave of any kind (except during play time), so I cannot be owned or collared or possessed. I have no filters for things like age (18+), size, shape, color, skill, or experience level, but I wont worship you and I will never be monogamous. All relationships are built on a foundation of equal partners.

For *real*, I practice Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK). For *fun*, we can play fantasies of every flavor, from consensually gentle to non-consensually intense. Fear and Force are among my favorites.

Can you render me helpless, abject, and terrified, under your inescapable power? Or simply take me as your adoring pet, to cuddle, soothe, and fill you with erotic joy?



FAVORITE FETISHES

* Bondage

* Fluid Intimacy

* Sensation Play

* CBT, including E-Stim (remote-control shock collars?)

* Fear (Psychodrama, Mindfuck, Taunting, Threats, Coercion)

* Anal Play (Toys, Strapon, Pegging) -- NEWBIE, NEED TRAINING

* CNC and Resistance Play (Wrestling, Grappling, Takedown, Force)

* Orgasm Control (Teasing, Denial, Edging, Ruined, Chastity, P.O.T.)

* Breath Play (Smothering, Suffocation, Asphyxiation, Scissor Holds)



SOFT LIMITS

* Needles

* Collaring

* Wax Play

* Foot Worship

* Nipple Torture

* Corporal Impact (Hands, Canes, Whips, Paddles)



HARD LIMITS

* Fire Play

* Smoking

* Forced Bi

* Dirt, Drudgery, Domestic Service

* Scat (but Analingus and Rimming are good)

* LDR, Cam, Skype, Sexting, Virtual, Online RP
12/25/2013 1:14:09 AM
Latest Update (12/23/2013) As of now, stingy corporal and heavy impact are OFF the Not-Into/Limit list. And anal/strapon Curious has become anal/strapon Into, moving from the soft limit list to the favorite list. but I'm still a newbie, so patience and training will be needed. That's it. Bring it on.
5/4/2011 11:11:49 PM

What About Breath Play And Force?


I keep wondering why there are no breath play fetishes on the list. Queening (aka facesitting, my personal favorite) is closest as a form of smothering or suffocation, but it could apply to several other distinct fetishes, like wrestling, trampling/crushing, forced oral, frottage, or even just symbolic female superiority. These are all among my greatest "Live For It" kinks, yet none are listed as separate BDSM Interests ("Wrestling" is listed under Sports, while "Female Supremacy" is listed under Lifestyles). 

 

Likewise, gags, hoods, gas masks, plastic wrap, and rubber are also close, but none are specific only to breath play. I prefer smothering and suffocation for the most part (much less pain and slightly less risk), but what about other forms, such as choking, strangling, HOM, oxygen deprivation, etc.? Too dangerous? Too edgy?

 

And, speaking of forced oral, what about "forced" anything? There are power and control fetishes listed, but nothing clearly in the realm of negotiated force (consensual, with safe signals, of course). No ravishment, overpowering, or take-downs? Each of these would be in my "Live For It" category, as well. Are they also too dangerous, or too close to real rape and criminal assault? These edgier forms of play were part of the reason for adopting RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) in addition to SSC (Safe, Sane, & Consensual).

 

Anyway, I hope I caught your attention. :)

samantha08
 
 Age: 25
 Barlen, United Kingdom