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I will chat with people, but I'm not going to chat with you about cyber sex, etc. I take dynamics seriously and can be service orientated with my M-type. I'm only answering to real conversation that's worth while. I've been in the RT LS for about six years as both a submissive and slave within my dynamics. I am very much into the local? community. I love to?go to play parties. I have a lot to learn, guess it's good I love learning.I will fight back if I feel injustice. I love to meet new people and experience new things. I love constructive criticism, even though I may not act like it sometimes.?

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BDSM as explained by the Dalai Lama as noted on FL There are many different levels of violence and non-violence. On the basis of external action, it is difficult to distinguish whether an action is violent or non-violent. Basically, it depends on the motivation behind the action. If the motivation is negative, even though the external appearance may be smooth and gentle, in a deeper sense the action is very violent. On the contrary, harsh actions and words done with a sincere, positive motivation are essentially non-violent.

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7/15/2015 9:24:31 PM
It has been such a long time since I've been on here.wish I had a journal entry to put up for a scene but I don't. Maybe soon.

5/8/2014 9:50:50 PM
This job is in the bag and that business trip could've gone better have three more next month. However I am getting reimbursed over $500 and a heck of a lot quicker than I thought. Now new car and new place at the end of this month

4/14/2014 9:52:51 PM
It has definitely been a stressful couple of days. I went on my business trip today just to find out I'll be gping to six more this year. At least everything's paid. I finally get see that special someone tomorrow night, maybe. I'm starting my new job tomorrow amd i am so nervous. Everything is riding on keeping this job. Let's hope it's just me trying to sych myself out.

4/8/2014 9:45:08 PM
Finally have my phone and internet back.

4/3/2014 8:26:09 PM
I don't think ill like this marble game...hmph

3/29/2014 11:11:55 PM
No story to put me to sleep tonight. But I got a video. Now I can keep my hands busy then fall asleep. ^.^

3/22/2014 8:20:55 PM
I've decided that involuntary taking time away from the community until who knows when can be a good thing. Im needing yo save money for the few conventions coming up and money is tight. My life can be difficult at times as everyones life is but im loving what the end result looks like and cannot wait for this period of darkness to be over. Time to start working my ass off in the vanilla life.

3/19/2014 8:38:25 PM
Trying to fall asleep, its obviously not workin. Ivr had an interesting few days and tonight something amazing happened. :) whose a happy baby girl. Me!

1/18/2014 10:46:57 AM

haven't been on here in a while. Just can't find anyone that's interesting, knowledgeable, etc. So I'm back to just being here to keep my journal. 


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1/8/2014 6:16:41 PM

Written on FL subspaced Angel. Just kidding about the go fuck yourself part (but it gets the point across right?). Come on in! Get warm and cozy and prepare to feel validated if you have ever been accused of not being "submissive enough" (god, hate that). Yes. I am submissive. And I've heard that A LOT in my time. It gets old (especially from other submissives, shudder). Lately I was talking to someone who was confused because she felt so strong in other aspects of her life, yet her entire being gets wet and tingly when she experiences vulnerability during sex, play or service. She CRAVES to let go of the power of everyday bs (we all do!!!), but questions her submission as a result God I’m lucky. So lucky to have fell into a circle of beautiful, strong, independent submissive women at the beginning of my journey. They schooled me, and now I’m able to school you. Good news people so listen upGood news people so listen up Do 

you think because I don’t look at the ground when you talk to me, I’m not submissive? Do you think because I don’t look at my dom for guidance when someone asks me a question to answer, I’m not submissive? Do you think because I occasionally (cough) have an opinion of my own that differs from the mainstream, I’m not submissive? Do you think because I don’t butcher the English language and use lower case letters in my name, I’m not submissive? Well then I’m here to tell you, you don’t know the meaning of the word. I don’t need to bend to your expectations. I bend to one, and that is because I want to. And I'm still submissive! Yay 

I can be strong. I can be opinionated. I can run a household, or a business, or a dungeon, or a gang bang, and guess what? It has not one thing to do with my submissive status. I can serve whom I want with a smile on my face, or scowl when someone rubs me the wrong way, or call out at the top of my lungs to STFU when someone is stealing my energy in a play space at a dungeon by disrespectfully talking too loudly, and guess what??? Yep. You guessed it. I am still submissive, I am just not your submissive 

That means I too can find my place while sitting and swooning at a chosen one’s beautiful boots while kissing them, and that means I get wet when I am broken and bloodied by that chosen one, and that means I whisper “yes daddy” when he calls me his slutty little whore and commands me to do dirty things for him, and that means I am HAPPY, oooooh so happy to belong to the ONE who I can trust, and let go of the self control that I have to have in this big, cruel world because I am an ADULT and have to wear my big girl panties most of the time. Whether it’s in the bedroom, or dungeon, or with our family while hiking and he gives me that little signal between just him and I to let me know I belong to HIM and to not fucking forget it… and I know it’s safe, and I feel the tingle in my heart and jump eagerly to his side and show him how I am submissive to him. J

ust know that you can blend and enjoy both parts of who you are, one doesn't blur the lines of the other. Please don't let anyone tell you differently and if they do, tell them they have a lot to learn on the subject and there is no twue way to be a sub. In fact there are MANY types of submissives/slaves/bottoms, each one as worthy as the other. My handler enjoys his little lion at the end of his leash, I'm lucky to have found him.

 

You can take that to the bank.


1/5/2014 8:41:02 PM

I feel like talking on kik with someone cause I'm bored. Not about sex just about the lifestyle in general or maybe just about life or hobbies, whatever as long as it's not sexual. 


1/5/2014 7:04:13 PM

 Written on FL NOT THE AUTHOR Every Female sub I know has an alpha personality.. Strong women who take no shit E

ach and every one could (and probably has) kicked ass in a bar fightT

hey take no shit.. period Th

ey are strong in force and strong in mindA

nd yet.. what they crave, long for really, is a Dom who allows them the opportunity to not have to be so strong all the time. Someone who allows us to be ourselves in the most simple of ways.. who encourages our "tough side" but allows us to be softer.Mo

st I know identify themselves as feminists.. and yet are perfectly content when not in control. Perhaps because we understand that by giving over control completely we have in fact made a choice for ourselves and our bodies. And in that decision, we actually took a proactive roll in allowing ourselves to be happy.

 

It is commonly known that we are owned, cherished and protected. And sometimes those titles make us appear to be weak. But just try getting between a girl and her Daddy or a sub and her Dom and it quickly becomes clear how very fierce she can be.W

 

e know how to trust on a level most will never understand. We trust literally with our lives and safety. Funny that we can trust someone twice our size holding rope, cuffs, and a whip.. yet we have the hardest time believing that they will not leave us.

 

We fantasize about punishment, and the brute force and control it entails. Yet, we would rather die than actually displease or disappoint Him. And when we do, we are much rougher on ourselves than He could ever beW

e long for the words "good girl", "I am proud of you" and " you are MINE"We

 (or at least I) love pain.. but are happily content snuggled up to Him as well.F

ull of contradictions.. we subbies are funny creatures.*

 

* This is written from the Female sub perspective, and regarding those subs I know. I understand there are many male subs, and female subs that may not have alpha personalities.written on FL

 


1/4/2014 10:18:34 PM

how is it that I come off as a person who takes being treated like the you so desire before you've even carried on a decent conversation with me and we've decided on our roles in a dynamic. Does this make me bratty, no it doesn't. I fight back when I feel injustice and I don't take being referred to as she,sub, slave or any denomination of those terms. Don't get me wrong im all for being a slave to your desires,a masochist to your sadistic ways, a baby girl on your lap, but only after you've led me to believe that you respect me as the person I am so I can feel the same for you. 

 

 


1/4/2014 3:31:11 PM

  so today is definitely one of those days where my mind is scattered. I can't even carry on a conversation that sounds...see what I mean just completely went blank. Sorry if I didn't respond to you today but I just keep  blanking out . Well there goes my journal entry I can't even finish this. Ughh good night all! 


1/4/2014 10:06:09 AM

Mastering self written by Master Kael

When I think about the honorific of Master, I wonder how many others think of it in the same light as myself.It i

s very easy to claim the title of Master and profess mastery over a craft, a technique, or a play style. It is easy to be a Master of another person as long as the person is willing to be slave to that Master. HOWEVER........

In my humble opinion, one needs to be a Master of oneself before they can truly be beneficial as a master to another. What? Pardon me? Um.. WTF did he just say? I said you cannot truly master another if you do not have a handle on yourself and your own life.I 

have discovered over my time in the lifestyle that if my own life is in turmoil, if I dont have control over my life, then I cannot have any quality control over another person.

Holy hell, did he say quality control? Why yes I did. I am one that tries to learn from my own past. Part of that learning is full of introspection. It is easy for me to place blame on others for things. I have two ex-wives and a number of former girlfriends, submissive's, and even a couple of slaves along the way. I have had my share of drama over the years. I have had my share of good times and bad. Along the way I had to come to terms with the fact that perhaps I was not in control of my own life, and therefore pity those others I tried to control.I 

 am not saying that along the way I have never had control of my life. I am saying that in retrospect, if I had maintained some semblance of control over my own life, be it emotionally, financially, physically, mentally, etc..... then things may have been different on at least some of those occasions.A

s I look athings now, I see areas where Mastery over self could have lent a big helping hand in my Mastery over others. I always strive to keep my values in the forefront of all I do in my interactions with others. I tell others that honesty is a deal breaker with me, yet I have to dig deep to make sure I am being honest with myself. Am I doing everything I can to live up to the expectations of my mentors, my peers, and myself? Am I walking the walk and taking the path that I should be taking? Is my journey one that would make my mentors proud? I sure hope so.I

 take pride in the fact that today, I have got this. I can look myself in the mirror and truly see myself. I can look myself in the mirror and have pride in knowing that those I hold dear, both living and those who have gone on to another place, know my heart and what is in it. I find peace within knowing that I am learning what it takes to Master self.


1/3/2014 10:24:46 PM

I've gotten several great responses regarding my earlier journal on 1_1_14 and thank you to everyone who responded. I post these questions to get a feeling of the audience on this site and who actively participates. I love the wide range of replies and it really did let me know that my usual thought of reasoning behind why some people may not go out in the community of the lifestyle isnt always right. Have a good night everyone!


1/3/2014 10:11:45 PM

Question of the Night


what do you look for when searching for a submissive? Are there particular things on her profile your  looking for types of liked, dislikes, grammar, short about me's? 

Reply and if I don't get back to you I will tomorrow.

*Risk-Aware Consensual Kink*


1/1/2014 11:05:45 PM

 

Off to bed lovelies! Feel free to answer my earlier journal question and I'll get back to you in the mornings, your participation in the discussion is much appreciated!

*Risk-Aware Consensual Kink*

 

 


1/1/2014 9:16:44 PM

Question of the Night


if you don't go to events, munches, or dungeons what keeps you from getting out in the community? Do you feel that perhaps your not as informed as you would like to be, perhaps you are just shy, etc.inbox me with your answer! :-)

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1/1/2014 7:17:31 PM

Advice for Avoiding Rope Suspensio

There are many important technical considerations involved in performing safe suspensions, and the purpose of this essay is not to explain those; tops and bottoms should make sure they are familiar with issues such as avoiding nerve impingement, selecting safe hardpoints, planning for emergency release, etc, as well as fundamental safe tying techniques. None of that crucial information is covered here.

Rather, this advice is oriented towards the social and psychological mistakes which frequently lead beginners to disregard all the important safety information they have conscientiously gathered on the above topics.

We all take risks -- this is a risky business -- but when playing with an exciting new partner, or engaging in an exciting new activity, there is a natural tendency to mentally downplay the risks you are taking, in favor of immediate gratification. Try to learn to recognize when this is happening, and compensate for it by being extra careful to set reasonable boundaries, in particular:

BOTTOMS:

-- DON'T go way beyond the physical limits you are familiar with. If something hurts a lot more or in a different way than you are used to, BACK OFF, do something less intense, and wait to see how you feel in a couple of days. Build up a familiarity with how your body reacts to different levels of stress a little at a time. You CANNOT know how you will react to something after the fact if it is 5x more intense than anything you have done before.

-- DO get adult supervision if you are being suspended by someone who isn't very experienced. How do you know if they're very experienced? ASK AROUND. Not everybody who happens to be carrying around 300' of hemp knows what they're doing. If you're not sure about someone you're going to play with at a party, set up ground rules IN ADVANCE with a trusted observer on under what circumstances you want them to intervene.

-- DO communicate clearly and firmly when there's a problem. If they can't quickly fix it in the air, say firmly "I want to come down right now". Safeword if necessary. DO NOT waffle around and try to power through 'cause they spent so long getting you up, or because you don't want the scene to end. While they are trying to figure out what went wrong, your arm is falling off for good. GET DOWN, talk the problem over, go back up later.

-- PLEASE DO let someone know that they injured you, if you discover that to be the case, be it as soon as you come down or 3 days later. It may be an awkward conversation, but if they never know something went wrong, they will keep making the same mistake again until someone is seriously hurt. (this doesn't mean you can't find a way to communicate that critical information gracefully, politely, and privately)

TOPS:

- If you're doing something new, do it with a bottom you know well. If you're playing with a new bottom, use techniques you know well. Don't try new tricks on new bottoms, you are asking for trouble! Especially if they are brand new to suspension.

- If a bottom asks to come down, bring them down promptly with a big smile, a thank you, and a hug, then do some more really hot scening with them! Nothing is more dangerous to bottoms than the perception that if they stick up for their safety, people won't want to play with them. Make sure in everything that you do not to be perpetuating this belief!!

Above all, be honest with yourself, be honest with your partners, and watch out for one another! Most injuries result from bad judgment, not bad luck. Take it easy, and live to play another day.

Advice for Avoiding Injuries During Rope Suspension (as written on FL, topologist


1/1/2014 7:52:34 AM

Sometimes I seriously wonder why I'm on this site still. I even remade this profile after a year or so. The men primarily on here are just fucking morons. Some people are just trolls, I get it you have nothing better to do. What ever happened to the people who are actually involved in the lifestyle, dynamics that mean something, kinksters going to the dungeon, events being held and discussed about. Yeah I know this is the wrong site for all of that discussion about RT LS. We all know what site is much better, only because collarme makes it so easy to hide. Suppose I'll just do what I usually do, pop in here once a day take a quick peek then run like hell before any neurotic idiots move in. 

 

 

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1/1/2014 12:59:11 AM

had an 

absolutely great time being fully suspended tonight on the ring. He made it painful as always. :-) he had a chest harness on me my hands tied being crossed in front of me, my right leg tied so my leg was bent with my foot touching my upper thigh, my left leg was tied to the same bondage ring by my ankle and my hair tied to the ring to keep my head up.

 

 

 Ties: futomomo shibari, chest harness, middle tie, etc

 

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12/31/2013 5:03:46 PM

Was about to go out with some vanilla friends but then  got invited to do a scene at the dungeon for the new years eve party. Mmm being tied up and caned, biten, pressure points, etc while in jute rope yes please.

 

 

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12/31/2013 10:36:02 AM

Who got a job?? This  girl! So happy and excited to start getting paid. 

 

 

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12/31/2013 7:56:41 AM

Up early cooking something to eat. I only have about thirty minutes left till I have to leave for my interview. I can't help but be nervous, but I'm going to hit it out of the park. I also had someone remind me of a more well known acronym that is more closely followed, thank you sender! 

 

 

 

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12/30/2013 11:03:33 PM

Goodnight lovelies! I have a really important interview tomorrow that I'm very nervous about and hopefully I won't be dropping tomorrow. Man needles put me into a different sub space that I haven't felt in a while. Either way I had a great time at the dungeon. 

 

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 Age: 32
 Baltimore, Maryland