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Like so many others before me PLEASE read the entire profile. It will save both of us a lot of time and energy.

I am an educated, SINGLE, non-smoking, 57 year old professional male who has been active in the lifestyle about 15 years. I have control of my life and have a successful career.

I am looking for a ltr with that special someone who will compliment my life not complicate it. Someone to spoil and cherish, making her feel that she is the most important thing in my life will be job one. Vanilla likes and dislikes are as important as those in the BDSM world. There is more to listyle. Playing a scene in the dungeon, snuggling on the couch watching a movie, or dancing the night away are equally appealing to this man. I can easily blend into any social enviroment whether it is the vanilla world or BDSM. To me nothing is more pleasing then to see a woman smile and be happy on the inside. It doesn't matter whether she is a submissive or dominate, she deserves to be spoiled and put first in life.

I enjoy lots of fetishes within the lifestyle and am always open to try new things. But first and foremost this is a power exchange.

Please be HWP(I do enjoy a women with curves), NON-SMOKER, and physically and emotionally available for a LTR. I want to share what I have in my life and I enjoy spending my time with someone. Going to festivals, movies etc are alo more fun then just going by yourself. Just changed my status to sub. Seems it will be the only way to find someone who wants to be pampered and spoiled. Someone who makes sure i stay in line and make things easier in her life. I still get weak in the knees when I am around leather, corsets and heels. I love helping Her shop and pick out Her shoes and making sure they fit properly.
4/24/2011 10:03:06 AM

Once again I have met a wonderful, honest person on here.  She is sincere and truly looking for that speical sub to care for her.  She is so lovely and hot and very intelligent.  And for me has a wonderful figure that makes it fun to go shopping for.  MisLadyElle, thank you for being my friend and making our time lots of fun.

11/2/2010 8:47:52 AM

Yessssss should be a great time this weekend.  A group of us have rooms overlooking the river walk.  We will be shopping, playing and partying the night away.

9/9/2010 2:43:22 PM
I want to say thanks to everyone that has been asking about my son, how's he doing and sending prayers.  Things are about the same but you know us Dads we always worry.
8/5/2010 9:47:07 AM
GREAT!, Just found out that I have to be in Dallas the last weekend of the month.  It is for a trade show but I still should have some free time.

Hopefully I will get to see some of my friends. 
8/5/2010 9:38:33 AM
Maybe my luck is getting better, while in Houston I was lucky enough to meet someone I have been talking to on CM.  Well folks, once again someone was being honest, truthful and was actually prettier then her pics.  Thank you Lady 10 for the fun time and all the great shopping.

Maybe I should move over there, lol.  No it cost too much to live there. Guess I will have to be happy with all the friends I have there and be thankful. TC, hope one day we can share that cup of coffee.
8/2/2010 7:07:39 PM
Had a lovely weekend, was over in Houston again.  But it is nice to get a break from SA.  Life keeps marching but the past still haunts my feelings.  Wish there was some way to put closure on things and salvage what was the prime of my life
7/26/2010 11:00:29 AM
I woke up today and the world seems so empty.  Makes me think of all the people on this site looking for that special someone and all the people on here who just want to spend their time yanking people's chain and making them feel like crap.

I am thankful that I have made so many good friends here that really care, not just for me but for others here who are looking to better their lives and make this a better world.
7/25/2010 4:14:02 PM
What a nice weekend it was.  I found out the true meaning of friend and how rare good ones are to find. It was fun shopping and more fun playing with everything afterwards.  It was so relaxing and wonderful to see how honest and upfront someone can be.  It is a step toward trusting again and not being afraid to open up. Being a Dom doesn't mean being an a**hole to get what you want.

It is a shame the weekend was messed up when I returned home and found out my sister had past away.  I am truly grateful that I have friends to help me through this.  Guys if you truly seek an honest sub with a loving heart let me know, she does exist. 
7/23/2010 11:15:32 AM
Well it has been about 7 or 8 weeks now and the heart is still very much broken.  There are days when it is filled with grief and days when it is happy that she has moved forward to fulfill her destiny and find the one.

I know time is suppose to heal all I just wish I could push it forward.  I will always be grateful for the discoveries make while we were together and know that it has not only made me a better Dom but a better person as well.  Life has a hard way of teaching us at times but then again maybe it is those moments that we remember the most.  I hope that one day our paths will cross again and we will be able to recount the good days and forget the bad
7/21/2010 4:44:35 PM
Had a nice time at the GWNN party, it wasn't as crowded as I thought it would be.  Going to Houston this week and am really looking forward to that.  I do love to shop there and the food is great.  Oh well so much for a nice dinner 
7/6/2010 9:02:39 PM

Yes, finished getting things ready for the GWNN Bash.  It should be alot of fun  and hopefully meet some new people.

7/2/2010 6:58:24 PM
I thought I would share a few pictures of my toys.  One can not have enough toys.
6/30/2010 1:07:00 PM
I added a picture of a stainless steel collar and wrist bracelets.  If anyone has any idea where I can get a set of ankle bracelets to match I would appreciate it.

These bracelets lock using allen set screws.
6/21/2010 6:21:06 PM
Went to a wonderful party Sat nite.  Saw a great demo  knife play but the best part was seeing my ex and the lovely state of mind she was in.  It was nice to see that see was at peace and truly enjoying herself with the person she was with.

What a lifestyle we have
5/18/2010 4:07:23 PM
Where are all the sincere people at in this lifestyle?  It should not be so hard to find someone who wants to be with one person to enjoy life with.

 
5/17/2010 6:14:28 PM
Yes a party is finally happening on the 20th of June.  Should be alot of fun.  Looking forward to lots of play and excitement.
5/1/2010 9:35:55 PM
Wow what a great evening the George Strait concert was a blast and the crowd was great.  I hope everyone else is having a wonderful weekend
12/29/2009 12:18:49 AM
Well it looks like New Years in New Orleans.  My best New Years ever was there about 6 years ago. What a time we had and all the great eating and shopping.  I will never forget it.  I hope this year will be the same
12/17/2009 3:01:50 PM
All done with the Christmas shopping, no more crowds.  I should say that I am not looking forward to Christmas day this year.  This is the first one in many years that I will not be sharing it with a special someone.  No one to spoil or see smile.  I guess that is why it did not take very long to shop.

It would be more fun to do a little bondage under the tree, a little pain, a little pleasure and of course lots of flogging.

Good news is tha all the executives of our company gave all of their bonus money to the employees.  Not bad, now I will really have a nice time in Dallas.

Merry Christmas!
12/16/2009 6:37:03 PM
Well everything is set for South Plains Leather Fest in Dallas.  I missed it last year but I do hope it will be as good as the last time I went.  So far there looks like a lot of good seminars.
12/13/2009 8:41:11 AM
This month I closed the door on a chapter of my life.  It has been painful, emotional and physically hard.  It is hard for the mind to convince the heart that the time has come.  I now know it is time to move forward and see what fate and destiny has in store for me.

We never know what the future holds for us. Did we made the right choices, the correct turns, whether we are to travel alone or find that special one meant for a lifetime. But we have to live and  believe in the journey.  We only get one.

I know I will have to adjust and learn to trust again. But I will keep faith that what lies ahead is best for my life.
7/8/2009 7:38:51 PM
You know you would think it would be easy to find someone who loves to be pampered and pleased.  To travel and enjoy life.  So very very hard to find that wonderful woman that I know is out there waiting for to be found.
4/23/2009 2:09:11 AM
Hello everyone,
Still out there looking.  Had a nice weekend trip to Houston's Spring Iniquity event.  I got to do a little shopping which is always fun.  The classes were so so.  One very interesting one by Barton dealing with the building blocks of a BDSM relationship.
11/11/2008 6:04:42 PM
Sorry folks should have a recent picture up soon.
11/11/2008 4:45:42 PM
Well here I am starting my journey over again.  I am looking for someone for a ltr.  She must have a desire to mix the vanilla life with the BDSM.
Cuckquean2him
 
 Age: 38
  Florida