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I am here for one reason to find a DommeMistress Dominant Female for a Ds Relationship.There isnt any good reason to list any preference to my likes or dislikes. I have no health issues. I can handle projects around the home inside and out. I have full time Employment, couple year old nice vehicle, license, clean and not lazy. I know how to submit, from there not in my hands. If you are true Dominant I am what you want me to be. If I dont know it, it can be learned. Yes I have had experience
.So I want to become property and a slave or sub for life to an owner ?
That sounds good on the outside but most of time it is a test eventually the Dominant backs up when they start to believe the sub may be serious. A look at that statement a little closer.
First off all I cant blame someone for putting that on their profile or have that as a thought. Its smart and really ideal to find someone they can spend the rest of their life with. I have to say the same thing goes for the owner , she wants someone that is well trained, knows what she wants and needs before she has to ask, someone that depends on her for every breathe, in a way.
The reality is once someone moves to their owners or the owner moves in and takes control of your lifehouse , that is where the reality meets the fantasy. Ive found that many say they want a slave but once they get here they change their mind and what they want in a sub, reality of the real life compared to the back and forth many times over online becomes the process that can only be experienced in real time. They may not follow simple instructions or they dont want to, taxing the Dominants patience mostly from lack of experience getting to this point. There might be a lack of discipline either given resistance by new subslave either may anger due to lack of experienc . I can go on and on about different ways where things might not always work out. A good and strong slave will take all that and understand that discipline is needed in order to get things done right, it also helps them remember to do it right next time. However some get upset and are ready to clam up and hide when they see the Dominant coming . That is not a slave that is prepared and in the mindset to be long term. A true Dominant will see the difference in being willing and one not willing to accept anything coming thier way. It might be hes only looking for fun and games with someone, or has a certain fetish and is only concerned about that one or more things he wants done to himit.
In conclusion there are reasons why a slave and owner might not work out for a lifetime. However that is also the goal on both sides. It takes time to develope trust, it is the need that initially wills a subpotential slave to take the leap of faith. The Dominant it is confidence that a willing subject will in time follow her every command, her patience to train, her skills to mold the slave without breaking his will only his prior learned behavior unsuitable to her..
I dont believe most men are into extreme levels of pain as the lifestyle portraits in pictures and stories. However it is necessary to endure, it does have its benefits, tolerence comes with the willingness to accept from my own experience it becomes a of affection from the Dominant. Pain and discipline part of training. I have yet to experience Domme that looked me in the eye and said I own you! There has to be a difining moment when a Dominant takes a submissive to own. I have slept in a cage for 2 months waiting for the exchange of power willing to accept less even help the process. Several times have had semi lifestyle experiences with Dommes that never got off the ground.
I still wonder how I will react to one that knows what she wants and acts on it. Till then no have no advanced experience than most. I do know how to submit and follow with understanding of what would be next.
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The farther my journey in the takes me the more I learn. There is so much to learn. As in finding a LTR and FLR that is elusive, the realization here on this site that very few are serious at this time or they just enjoy the activity on line. I have met a number of dominant here. Once past the profile finding many to have real experience real time others soft and not as Dominant being somewhat submissive. I do find myself gravitated to my core desire more and more.
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| Age: 31 |
| Tacoma,
Washington |
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