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SirhCBDuck

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Could you be my bondage Barbarella? Maybe Im seeking the impossible, or maybe this is the wrong place to be looking, as it seems sanity and honesty are pretty low on the list of people on here, I dont know, anyway prove me wrong Im generally an optimist. an ltr, with all that entails, someone to share my life in the vanilla world and the kinky side too, is it too much to ask?


Yes I am the guy in the photos l (dinghy pic is the latest, short hair and a bit lighter these days) and I do spend a fair amount of time on the water, however that doesnt mean I wont have time for the right person, but it does mean I have no interest in wasting time with wannabees and web idiots, so quite simply, if you dont have a reasonable length profile of who you are, no location and no picture, nilla or otherwise, (although Id prefer to see nilla pictures to see who you really are,) then theres no way Im going to contact you, Ive put a lot of myself here as Im serious and I would expect the same from you.

As I consider myself a gentleman and dont expect to be called sir or master after one or two messages, nice as it is to hear, but there is no need to call me Sir when you dont even know me, wait until you mean it. I believe submission is a gift and is bestowed upon the dom when the sub feels safe, secure and respects the man she chooses, so Im not interested in jumping straight into anything with online fantasists, to me bdsm is as much whats going on between your ears as the physical side, but anything in that vein is a physical pursuit between the two of us.


You need to know Im genuine, single, believe males are the dominants of the species and have traditional values, Im a firm believer in TiH type philosophy and consider myself a gentleman. But I can also be a cruel, possibly a sometime sadist for my pleasure and a measure of your commitment, but mostly its funishent, Ill admit the BDSM side of life goes against my upbringing to be respectful to the fairer sex, which I remain to be outside of the BDSM context and something that I have considered over many years, dont worry Ive come to terms with it, I enjoy it and you should too.

Im solvent and Im away sailing at events around the country Europe and other parts of the word for quite a few weekends or weeks a year, more in the summer so have limited time at weekends, unless you want to come along and thats totally fine by me and Im happy to make room in my life for the right girl.


So what does this all mean, you ask? Well it means I might appear selfish and distant at times so you need to be strong, secure and intelligent enough to understand that I do care for and treasure you even if I dont seem to have much time to spend with you.

I enjoy most things kinky and perverted, at home and out too (sometimes, so you should too) as well as experimenting and making things, to torment and test you. I currently have a penchant for steel restraints but whims change, for an idea of my style of kink see PDs work on hogtied, wired pussy, training of O, device bondage, bm, tg or gords work.

I used to work internationally, but mostly the city until a few years ago when I went full time with my side business in an effort to semi retire and spend more time enjoying life, unfortunately covid put a bit of a crimp in that plan, but things are easing up now and it's time for travle and fun. I live in Thorpe Bay alone and in my own house, happy to travel reasonable distances or accommodate and ultimately Im looking for a long term subbie for a relationship a special one who is happy to play our games and that I can love, nurture, tutor protect and care for.


What else do you need to know about me, Im a pretty normal guy otherwise, respected in my profession and have hobbies outside of bdsm, however I am also an experienced single hetro Dom who enjoys many of the varied aspects of BDSM, primarily the bondage and control areas (with a side order of discipline, maybe some humiliation and a smattering of sadism to top you off, depending on your viewpoint, however, these words are only labels and mean different things to different people, realistically its all about whats between our ears anyway, so feel free to ask on my perception of such definitions). Im honest to a fault and certainly not afraid to speak my mind, something I pride and look for in others. I have a strong, positive and off the wall witty personality.

Ive been active in the lifestyle and in and out of the community on and off since before I can remember (well, almost, question is do I have a short memory or a lot of experience? lol).

So, now you know a bit about me, heres looking at you, kid, or how I envisage you, which would be someone who cares for and looks after themselves, is my equal in all things (almost, none of that switchy stuff for me though thanks, I hurt myself enough during sports and training so I dont need any additional pain! And realistically sorry to offend, but the idea of a female dominant I find truly laughable), Someone with their own ideas and opinions and not necessarily aligned to mine (middle class, conservative (although not perhaps this current mob) etc).Youre a little miss naughty in need of guidace and correction from the right man once trust in the relationship is established, youll also enjoy going out and as well as being happy with a quiet night in on the sofa or the bedroom (well that one maybe not so quiet).

Youll also be intelligent, happy in your own skin and with your life and definitely adventurous and inquisitive towards all things not only in a BDSM context as my life isnt totally BDSM. (hint a love of the sea, winter sports (boards or skis and wind powered things (boats, kites, windsurfing) would be highly advantageous but not a hard limit)

It would be nice if you enjoyed dressing to please too, corsets, heels and generally enjoy looking and feeling sexy, youll find I can be very generous as I like to see my girl looking her best for me and willingly buy little presents I think shell look good in.


Ultimately, Im looking for a friend, a lover, a soul mate, even a wife down the road a bit if all goes well ( thats mine not someone elses, Im not interested in polygamy or anything non consensual), someone I can share my life with, someone who wants to have fun and not take life too seriously all the time, enjoys a laugh and well enjoy each others company, both in and out of BDSM life, I enjoy nice food, a drink, a movie as much as the next guy. So if youre totally yourself and pretty content with who you are (of course youre not totally happy or you wouldnt be here looking for someone or something).

What to do next, as youve read this far, youve shown both commitment an interest, so click on the send memo button and write something to me about yourself, I look forward to hearing from you soon.

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Necrosha
 
 Age: 32
  Maryland