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ShySatyr

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I have had a number of discussions lately with BDSM friends, and my take away from all of that has been this: I need to focus on what my ideal relationship is. It both does and does not need to be defined in detailed specifics. Yes, it needs to have a kink factor, and I know if there is love and a good connection and good communication where I can talk at times about my feelings, I think I would be happy. Both of us being happy is my ideal relationship. As soon as we start to talk about specifics in that dynamic, that power exchange, I think we lose sight of that core. Love and Affection and being genuine Soul Mates. That is what matters. Having strong submissive desires, and an attraction to powerful women since I was an adolescent, over the years it has been easy to look at the larger world of possibilities and get lost in them. Most of them are not in any way realistic. And I want a realistic relationship, and don’t want those fantasies to distract from that core bond between us in any way. Having explored my deeper submissive side for the last fourteen years or so, I have learned a lot about myself. Scenarios that made me very uncomfortable at the start, even a few hard limits, I am now very open too. I have learned a lot about myself. Putting that in perspective with that core desire to find a soul mate simply means I am open to a wide variety of power dynamics and to a wide variety of recreational fun. There is no one power exchange that is ideal, as long as my mate/Master/owner/parent is the Alpha and I am the beta, I am happy. Talking to my many friends, each has different ideals for a solid dynamic and they look to me to match those ideals. Well, with few exceptions, I do match, even though each of them is very different. That is because I am open to a lot of things. As long as we are true friends, and we have a bond, we have potential. And I love to talk and share. I am a very eclectic person, with a huge list of mundane interests and hobbies, with an emphasis on the creative arts, of which I have had a lifelong and successful career in. Also, when we start to talk, it is easy for me to send pictures from the internet showing what I call favored scenarios. Don’t let those cause us to lose sight of what is most important. Our personalities and shared interests need to connect. I do like to talk about favored scenarios, from both my perspective and from yours. So curious about yours. We need to bond, and that will start not with a shared BDSM interests, but with the bigger picture of who we are and the things we have in common. Kink fantasies, realistic and crazy unrealistic ones are just one of many conversation points that we should share. I am looking for the whole shebang, as I hope you are too. Even saying that though is too much, because there are some ideal dynamics that are not primary. Again, open to many things. I want to know more about you.

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8/6/2017 10:16:39 PM

Old Profile:

Okay, once again I am taking a different direction with this profile.  I am a complex person but one with a minimum of baggage.  I have quite a few friends here on CollarMe (now CollarSpace) and have had a couple of short term relationship manifest here.  But this is just a place to start.  My interests are diverse and not dogmatic at all.  What I am looking for is a cool chemistry and some nice matches in the shared interest categories.  

Here is the thing: If you want to get to know me, ask.  And if you want to get to know me from afar, ask to be a Facebook friend.  I am totally vanilla there.  A number of my friends there are pretty open about their kinkiness but there is no direct link between that and our friendship.  The diversity of my friends is well known there.  I think eclectic is my middle name. 

I am an artist, semi-retired, home-owner and self sufficient, creative and always learning new things.  I love strong assertive women and though such women bring out the submissive side in me, they also bring out the chivalrous Knight as well.  I think it is a cool combination. 

If none of that intrigues you, then we are probably not a good fit.  If it all does intrigue but perhaps my age is an issue, give me the benefit of the doubt and get to know me.  Facebook has proven very good for that.  My other hobbies and diverse artistic accomplishments abound there. 

You can write me here or via my kink website: www.shysatyr.com

 shy@shysatyr.com

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Sincerely; 

shy-  

on a challenge 

You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!...

 

 

 

    

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


12/25/2012 2:13:31 AM

To someone new taking a look at my profile, Hi!  If I recently perved your profile and clicked "favorite", please take that as I intend.  It doesn't mean I know you and it is not something I do to everyone.  It simply means that I saw some quality in your profile that I liked.  It is my way of subtly simply saying Hello and expressing a passive invitation to view my profile as well.  That's it.  If that offends, sorry.  If it does offend, that is a good indication we don't have a lot in common...


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 Age: 27
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