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ShyMaia

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Updated January 11, 2022

Hi, I am Maia. I am submissive, and I have all kinds of self-respect. A relationship I was in ended last summer and I was not in a place where I was open to another one, but I am finally feeling like if the right thing came along, I could be interested again. With that being said, this is likely the wrong place to be looking, for reasons that will likely become clear as you read further. One of the most common questions I get asked here is what I am into. I am into supportive, loving relationships where one partner leads and the other follows. While kink can be fun, I tend not to be the kiniest person around. I am open to exploring with someone once a substantial amount of trust has been built, for our mutual pleasure. As such, if your first question is what I am into, chances are that we are not into the same things and we are not on the same page. If you want to tell me all the ways you can use me, or you want to tell me how things will be with you, chances are I am not interested. I hate the idea of being used as if I am not an autonomous person at all, even if you insist that is not the way you meant it. If I were to find a relationship here, it would be a collaborative relationship where you are as interested in meeting my needs as in getting your needs met by me. It would be a relationship FIRST, and dominance and submission and kink after. That would require you NOT just dictating your fantasy relationship to me and expecting it will be my fantasy as well. Collaborative. Communicative. Supportive. Those are key words. If you have not already run away, feel free to message me. I will warn you that I log in very inconsistently. I am primarily interested in a local relationship, but I enjoy conversations with people all over. I am not likely to be persuaded into a long distance relationship, but it is not impossible. That would not stop us from chatting amiably, however.

I am polyamorous and have one beautiful partner currently. If I were to enter into another relationship, it would be in addition to my existing relationship, not instead of.

Be kind out there!

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10/29/2017 5:02:46 PM
PSA: If you change your background color to a dark color, you might also need to change your text color to something other than black so the rest of us can read it.  Thank you!

5/12/2015 10:21:59 AM
This is definitely going to be out of the norm....  As I browse this site, soooo many people have in their profiles or journal entries some reference to fakes and time wasters and how terrible this site is.  I will be completely honest, I tend to disagree....  Sure, there are people who just stop responding to conversations, or who get crazy weird or whatever, but my experience overall has been very positive.  I've come to know a lot of great people here, and of those who have stopped responding or turned into total jerks, I just brush it off and move on.  

I think (and this is not intended to be judgmental, although it will seem that way) that those who feel the need to make reference to it in their profiles/journals are taking it waaaay too personally, and I think they put it in their profiles/journals as a way to show that they are above the rest of us "common folk" on the site.  Personally, I don't find your "holier than thou" attitude attractive.  I get what you're trying to say, that you're NOT one of those people, and you are the real deal, but I'm turned off by your superior attitude before you have a chance to portray that.  There is a difference between confidence and arrogance.

4/27/2015 10:04:26 PM
Ladies and gentlemen, I feel the need to be slightly snobby.  We are all adults here.  I know this is the interwebs, but there is really no excuse for grammar and spelling as bad as I see it here.  There will be occasional mistakes.  I will make them, you will make them, that UBER DOMLY DOM over there will make them.  But if I can't find one coherent sentence in your entire two page profile, I think there is a problem.  At least attempting proper grammar and spelling is a sign of respect for each other as human beings, whether we identify as Dom(mes), subs, tops, bottoms, switches, or anything else.  For the love of humanity, please at least try!  Thank you!

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 Age: 29
 Ofallon, Missouri