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SSBBWDomNSoCal

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Back from England and here is what I've found out about me. I don't know who I am or what I want. I like being taken but i also like controlling the situation. At times I want a man to abuse me and force himself on me and other times I want to play a dominate you'll do what I say role. I do know I like being controlled more then taking control. With that said I hope that I find someone to use me or let me use them at my will. Please note I'm not getting any warnings that i have messages here so if you do write understand I will try looking in on messages every couple days but I don't spend my life on this site. Thanks

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12/5/2013 8:55:38 AM

Question? (& my opinion)

Have you subs ever noticed it has taken awhile to find that domme you really were looking for and once you are considered or a dommes property how many dommes all of a sudden want you? A true sub would make it known on his profile he is owned. He might even delete it, but a true domme wouldn't go to another dommes property and try to entice it away. This isn't high school people. If the sub decides to pursue the domme thats trying to lure it away then obviously it will not be loyal to any domme and you yourself should question your own actions first because neither of you are true dommes or subs.


 

 


12/4/2013 7:08:48 AM

Don't assume someone is a fake or not real because of how long they been a member on this site. Life brings people into this lifestyle at different points in their own lives just like at some point you decided this lifestyle was for you. For me I raised a family was a loyal wife. It wasn't until my ex was removed from this country and we got divorced that I was introduced to the lifestyle. At that time I thought id be a sub because I was so use to doing for everyone else I always put me on hold. It wasn't until my dom bf decided he would tell me at some point he'd have me doing acts with my own children I knew I could never be a true sub. I remarried thinking I could never be happy without someone to take care of. That went fine for a few years but this lifestyle was always under the surface. It wasn't until recently I had a man befriend me and I became the dom he the sub. Although we both wanted the connection we knew it couldn't be. He wanted a 24/7 and I at the time could not offer that so he lead me to this site. Where now I feel free to be me. No restrictions but what I give myself. I have had haters come at me on here accusing me of being fake. So all I have to say is don't assume everyone is fake. Give them a chance, and to the ones who are fake or here for cash don't waste someones time because you get joy out of it. The people who are truely here for this lifestyle choose to be here. Im still learning... as it will always be a learning process to everyone especially if you are with someone new.


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MissFootDomme
 
 Age: 28
 Palm Springs, California