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My desire and pleasure comes from being submissive slave to a Domme. Her wishes, desires, and fantasies, are whats most important. My desire is to please her. Make her life better.
Im intelligent in both book smart and worldly experience. Im well educated and fit in well in the finest 5 star restaurant as well as the local pub. Ive had a very successful career as a CEO, Ive traveled to almost every state in America as well as about 15+ other countries.
I believe I have a lot to offer the right Domme. Im looking for an eventual long term relationship in a Female Led relationship with TPE. To serve and obey without question or hesitation. To put my total trust in her knowing she will always lookout for me.
Im single, educated, submissive looking for that special dominat woman or couple to serve. Once that trust is established and I wear your collar Im all yours in every way.
Im skilled in domestic services of cleaning, laundry, and errands, bathing, hair brushing, massages and general pampering. Im a gentleman by nature as I was raised with manners. Ive also been told Im an excellent lover and very oral oriented. should those skills be desired.
Not a masochist but understand the use of discipline in training. Suffering pain or humiliation only strengthens the Ds bond
Im a follower of Ms Kays writings on tumblr under thefemdomdiary - excellent insights in to Domme sub slave training.
Servitude and my submissiveness comes from deep down within. Its who I am. Im an alpha male in public or work. I make decisions and a leader by day but desire to come home to submit to a dominant woman.
I have served before and understand the commitmement and effort it takes to be a good submissive slave. Its not about me its about you If you have any questions please let me know and Ill answer honestly
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Just an update now that journals seem to be working again.
I now reside in beautiful sunny Napes Florida. No matter how many times I update my profile it still say I.m 1100 miles away! |
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Aaaaarrrrg!!! This has been the worst winter! Since January 1st I’ve now lost power 7 times, sometimes for days, been flooded with 4 ft of water in basement 4 times, replaced washer / dryer twice, been mandatory evacuated twice and much more |
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I have to post this because it is so me: A Modern Gentleman's 30 Rules
1. Be gentle to the fairer sex, it's in the name.
2. Dress well no matter the occasion.
3. Pride is dangerous, be careful.
4. Be humble, be grateful
5. Opening the door or giving up a seat for a lady isn't up for discussion.
6. Work hard, that is if you want to own anything worth having
7. Starting / instigating a fight is for school boys, but men obtain the power to end one.
8. Ignorance isn't bliss, knowledge is power.
9. Suit up (make sure they're tailored to fit)
10. Confidence is a gentleman's trademark.
11. Comfort zones are for the weak, men aren't weak.
12. Foul language is for the less educated.
13. Make eye contact and mean business.
14. Lower your standards for no one.
15. Being romantic doesn't make you a woman.
16. Stay groomed.
17. Admit when you're wrong
18. Always make the first move, you're the MAN
19. Handwritten "Thank you" cards aren't outdated. Use them.
20. Chivalry is not dead, there are just too many boys.
21. It is said you can tell a lot about a man through his handshake, so make it strong and firm.
22. Leave her breathless
23. Judge no one, just improve yourself.
24. Speak your mind, don't hesitate.
25. Offer your arm to a lady while walking, they'll feel secure.
26. You're the man, you pay.
27. Women love compliments, gentlemen provide them.
28. Never wear your hat indoors, it's disrespectful.
29. Make sure everyone has their plate before you start eating.
30. We don't always have to be the center of attention, but we are always noticed. It is our signature as gentlemen to come, make a statement, leave, and be remembered. |
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Here is a good definition i found that speaks well of being a submissive. i hope You like it as well.
Submission is not about suffering.
Submission is about service.
Submission is not about humiliation.
Submission is about humility.
Submission is not about pain. .....
Submission is about being present.
Submission is not about being used.
Submission is about being of use.
Submission is not about control.
Submission is about letting go.
Submission is not about what is done to you.
Submission is about what you do for others.
Submission is not about abuse.
Submission is about acceptance.
Submission is not about proving anything.
Submission is about being real.
Submission is not about contempt.
Submission is about respect.
Submission is not about how you look.
Submission is about how much you care.
Submission is not about denying yourself.
Submission is about being open.
Submission is not about bondage.
Submission is about freeing your spirit.
Submission is not about punishment.
Submission is about discipline.
Submission is not about being unable to escape.
Submission is about being committed.
Submission is not about submission.
Submission is about obedience.
Submission is not about fear.
Submission is about trust.
Submission is not about sex.
Submission is about love.
Submission is not about pleasure.
Submission is about happiness.
Obedient: Simply to obey without question. When love and trust are established, i am to put my life in the hands of my Mistress. I seek instructions and to be educated in the ways in which Mistress desires and pleases her. I don’t ask why, I simply do as instructed. I trust my Mistress will look out for my safety and wellbeing.
Domination: This can mean many things. As you mentioned as i submit and obey, You will obviously come to Dominate me. Here are some thoughts on what i feel is a good Mistress. You can see i like lists.
A Mistress that will cherish and care for me, trying my best to never take me for granted.
A Mistress that will encourage me in all things, and strengthen me when I feel weak.
A Mistress that will serve me by allowing me to serve Her, as this is what i crave to do.
A Mistress that will use me and enjoy me in every way You desire, but will not take advantage of me beyond my limits.
A Mistress that will explore with me in every way -- my body, my mind and my soul.
A Mistress that will me and protect me as best She can, even from myself when needed.
A Mistress that will respect me, my limits, my thoughts and my dreams.
A Mistress that will strive to make my dreams a reality and support me in every way that She can.
A Mistress that will discipline me when needed to help me become the better me that i want to be.
A Mistress that will inflict pain from time to time, but mainly for pleasure, and never to harm me.
A Mistress that will work to build me up, and never tear me down for no reason.
A Mistress that will be honest with me, even when the truth is ugly.
A Mistress that it is honor to be Your submissive
A Mistress whose primary responsibility with me is to help make me better than when I first met You.
A Mistress who chooses me because i’m not weak, but because i’m strong for You.
A Mistress who chooses me not because i am frail, but because i am beautiful to You, inside and out, and You want to increase my beauty. That You choose me not because i am broken, but because i am smart and intelligent, and You want to help expand my thoughts and my knowledge to Your desires.
A Mistress that will strive to make me all that i need to be, all that You want me to be, and all that i can be.
I will celebrate who you are with each step along the way.
Do i know the meaning of these words and are ready to submit to me totally with full obedience to You? The answer is yes once the trust and relationship are established, without hesitation.
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Update: my apologies if I don't respond to messages in a timely manner or if I do, sound incoherent, my cold has developed into the full blown flu - antibiotics and cough syrup with codeine and more. I hate being sick :-( |
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I want to wish all my friends, past, present, and future here on CS a Happy Holidays!!! |
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Ok at the suggestion of some Domme's (thank you) I put back up my interests. Please note they are not written in stone and are negotiable with the Domme. Hopefully none of these should preclude anyone from contacting me.
As always, if yoou have any questions or comments please let me know.
Sincerely
Roughgem |
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I hate it when things look promising and the lady just stops communication :-(
I would prefer a simple "no thank you" or "I've changed my mind" or "I don't believe this will work" are all far better than nothing. Let's all be adults here |
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I understand the realities of balancing vanilla and D/s lifestyles. Public vs private, and of course discretion. We all have careers, friends and family.
Im not looking to be a "wife" but to do all I can to make the life of whom I serve more pleasant and enjoyable |
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I think I jinxed myself as now nothing from her |
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I've been in contact with a Dominant Lady and I feel like a young kid who was meeting his first crush.
I've been on conference stages befor thousands of people without being nervous
Over the years I met high profile people like Presidents, Prime Ministers and Cabinet Members and not felt nervous
But I am nervous having had contact with this beautiful Domme Lady because I don't want to screw it up or have here reject me.
Very strange.... |
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added 2 photo from my last Mistress transformations for her pleasure. again the photos turn sideways!!!! |
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Sometimes I hate this site for the little things.
Turning my pictures sideways
Not letting me send my pictures
Turning my message page and paragraph breaks in to one run on sentence or add all kinds of symbols in those spots |
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FYI, I broke my hand in June and grew some whiskers for the summer. I uploaded a photo from today. For the life of me I can't understand how CS tilts the photo when its not that way in my phone or computer and there's no way to edit it here! cast is off and PT almost done so whiskers will be gone shortly |
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I need to update my profile and delete this long laundry list of likes and dislikes of play and fetishes. Bottom line is I desire to serve a woman and any training or activities are solely at her wishes not mine |
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A special day of remembrance on the anniversary of 9/11. My condolences to all who lost loved ones and thanks to the first responders who rush in when all others are rushing out |
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The relationship that I seek has all the aspect of a vanilla relationship with the love, caring, passion and romance, but with that wonderful twist of the power role reverse that comes from the bdsm relationship especially in private
I am an executive type during the day and your groveling bitch at night. I'm also a true alpha male in the vanilla world. I truly crave this type of lifestyle and I'm realistic in what I want out of it
Taken from some other profile but couldn't be more true in my case |
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I've been away for awhile and now back again. It's been hit or miss on CS but despite all the bs I have met some wonderful people here.
So I'm looking for that wonderful Mistress or couple to serve. I know I have a lot to offer in the right situation. Take care and be well |
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Happy Mothers Day to all the lady parents out there! |
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Friday night and I'm staying in doing my laundry - what's wrong with this picture???
I should be doing someone else's laundry - preferable naked except for the chastity device! |
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My thoughts on serving. I compiled from the internet and edited to my own feelings...
50 Reasons how and why I want to serve my Mistress
1. To please Her
2. To service all her sexual desires
3. To make Mistress proud
4. To provide Mistress with emotional support
5. To learn how to relinquish all control to Her
6. To understand what she wants and to provide it for her
7. To share completely in her life.
8. To thank her for choosing me.
9. To show her that she is the most important thing in my life
10. To show my gratitude for her love.
11. To show my gratitude for her kindness.
12. To show my gratitude to her for knowing what is best for me.
13. To show how much I trust her.
14. To learn patience.
15. To learn to trust and move past my insecurities.
16. To show how proud I am to belong to such a wonderful Mistress.
17. To learn to anticipate her needs and provide them without being asked.
18. To show her the extent of my desires for her.
19. To show my appreciation for her willingness to take care of me.
20. To show my appreciation for how hard she works to take care of us.
21. To show her that I recognize the sacrifices she has made for us.
22. To help relieve her stress
23. To show that I can give her a clean organized house to come home to after her long day at work.
24. To show her that I respect her as my Mistress, Wife, (if it so be) and Friend.
25. To give her peace of mind when things around her are chaotic.
26. To provide her with comfort and understanding.
27. To provide her with humor when she is sad.
28. To share in her dreams.
29. To grow our relationship beyond sex and duty
30. To experience total submission when my need to be in control is not in her best interest.
31. To learn to love more deeply.
32. To understand that I can be a strong, independent person without being in control.
33. To take responsibility for the day-to-day chores so that she can concentrate on her job.
34. To learn to be graceful and respectful to her at all times.
35. To learn how to put my wants aside to fulfill hers first.
36. To ignite her passion
37. To bring her to sexual heights she has only dreamed about.
38. To show how completely devoted I am to her only.
39. To prove that I am worthy of her love
40. To prove that I am willing to try to fill all her need and desires.
41. To bring her laughter
42. To give her my heart, mind, body and soul with complete confidence and trust knowing that she will never hurt me. (Discipline aside)
43. To give her support for all the decision she must make in order to provide for us.
44. To relieve the burdens she carries by taking care of me as well as our entire family.
45. To offer my opinions, suggestions, and help when she is faced with a dilemma.
46. To help create a life-long relationship built on trust, respect, and a deep knowledge of her needs and desires.
47. To fulfill her fantasies.
48. To become more than just her Submissive, slave, or husband, but to become her only desire.
49. To earn the right to be – first in her heart, mind, body and soul.
50. To show that I am the one person she has been waiting for. The one person she wants to share her life with. The one person she knows she can trust to always put her first and to never disrespect, dishonor or disobey her. |
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What happened to the lists of activities "loved; like....etc"? That were on profiles |
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Over the last month CS has had several issues with the site. I apologize to anyone whom I seemed to have dropped communication with here |
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I read this and liked it...
False Assumptions & Beliefs about Kink
People, and tumblr and porn make assumptions about Kink, Femdom, and BDSM all the time. Here are the ones that drive me nuts. ( if you don’t agree.. rant on your own blog)
1. It’s not about sex, It’s all about sex.. .. It’s about service, it is about anticipating your dominants needs before they express it, its about sex, however, actually having it is solely at the Dominants discretion. It is about adoration, protection, and honoring your partner for what they give, and what you take..
2, We all wear fetish clothes! We do not need to be dressed in Latex and leather to dominant someone, nor are we typically. Those outfits are typically uncomfortable, and not conducive to play, and reserved for parties and such. Being dominant and having a fetish for certain types of clothing are two different things and are mutually exclusive, and often don’t go together.
3. We all look like supermodels.. Hmph.. Really, have you been to a kinky party, club? Most of us are average looking folks with every body type under the sun. In fact the model images you see on Tumblr are rare to see in reality.
4. Everyone in Chasity, has a small dick, and never ever gets to fuck... BULLSHIT! They are at the beck and call of their owner to do whatever they want… and many get out to be fucked a hell of a lot.
5. You have to deny your submissive sex and have a side lover. C'mon folks.. many people are content with their primary partner, and many aren’t.. Who cares. This originates in the notion that being submissive is unmanly and undesirable, and it total rubbish. Submissive men make excellent lovers, because they take direction. If your not wanting to advocate and speak out for your own pleasure and enjoyment to them ladies, perhaps you are not that dominant. Men can’t read minds, tell them how you like it, if you don’t know.. experiment until you do! this leads to……
6. That Mistresses should never be vulnerable or let their subs make love to them of fuck them. I do not understand why people chose to deny themselves pleasure and happiness. It is ok to be vulnerable, you are human, having/expressing emotions does not make you a submissive, anymore than fucking makes you dominant.
7. That all dominant women are male hating female supremacists, who need to micromanage all the little wanking men.. Fuck that!.. I love men….. and most are good guys. If you feel that you have to micromanage and monitor someones activities of daily living.. I’m sorry, but they are not submissive. Female Superiority can be part of Domination but not the same
8. That men who cross-dress are gay, fags, and really want to be dominated by men, crave BBC and real women don’t consider them desirable, because they are not man enough…. BULLSHIT! Many women I know have husbands and lovers that cross-dress for the humiliation aspect of it, at the direction of their wives.. or for simply the fetishistic enjoyment of the clothes, or to be our lesbian lovers for the evening. They still have times when the are in boy mode, and/or girl mode.. it depends on the dominants mood.
9. That being a sadist means you have to leave a person looking like hamburger meat.. Please.. you can torment a consenting individual with just a thought, and a few well chosen words. One of my biggest gripes is the unsafe and unhealthy sadistic scenes I see depicted in images. This scares off the newbies, and make people question exploring kink.
10. That everyone can be kinky.. you can’t make someone kinky, Kink isn’t easy, in fact it is harder than most vanilla relationships, because it order for it to be good and work, you have to be able to compatible outside of the kink and within the kink. If you really want your needs to be met you have to focus on the other persons needs above your own.. at the same time you must be completely free to honestly express & communicate your own needs and desires.. If both people are doing so, and one take the leads and the other follows, you have a symbiotic relationship that is healthy. You should be able to laugh together, drink a cuppa tea, and cuddle,go out the dinner with friends, come home and fuck, peg, be locked up in chastity, teased and tormented, worshiped and adored. .. Is it easy? NO!.. It is hard enough to find compatibility outside of kink, let alone within in. and many of us do what we can to get what we need, and for some that is Tumblr or porn |
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Wow! Some really crazy and pardon me, stupid people on this site. No I won't be your husband for those in Ghana, India, and China who contacted me. I'm submissive. Please read the profile. I'm real and will prove it but men seem to get the fakes, trolls and losers just like the woman. Just probably not nearly as many |
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| Age: 40 |
| Brooksville,
Florida |
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