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ReticentSub

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2019 Update Though it makes my username make absolutely no sense, Ive updated my profile to switch. I have a bit more experience now and have enjoyed both roles, though most of my experience is still as a sub. This whole profile really needs a rewrite which Ill hopefully get to some day soon.


I am a somewhat new and unfortunately still under-experienced sub. Despite that status, I do consider myself to be sincere and eager. I have been genuinely interested in BDSM since before I knew it had a name and have taken the time to gain a fair amount of knowledge on the subject. Id like to find a mentorteacher, a play partner to explore and learn with, or just some friends to chat with and learn from. Im still fairly new to the area so would be interested in meeting a few friends to hang out with in a non-BDSM context as well. Im a pretty huge geeknerd (depending on how you define those terms), so would definitely get along well with anyone of that bent.



At this point I am looking only for real-time interaction. I have spent a little time doing the online submission thing, and have found it completely lacking. For most of my life I had no other recourse as Ive lived in tiny, conservative areas up to this point. Now that Im near a major city I hope that I can truly explore BDSM.



As for interests, Im very interested and willing to try many aspects of BDSM. Rather than put a big laundry-list of interests here, Ill just say that Id be happy to chat about that or anything else if youre interested. Just send me a message! I do want to point out that I am not just looking to have some particular fetish fulfilled. I want you to do X, Y, and Z to me. And in that order! obviously isnt submission, though is somewhat prevalent in the world of online BDSM profiles. First and mpeople Im compatible with, and we can work on the fetishes later.Id be interested in exploring and learning many areas of BDSM and would be happy to provide compensation for the time and effort of teaching if it was desired.



I do occasionally have some dominant tendencies and some minimal experience as a Dominant, so I may one day decide Im a switch. If the dynamic were right I would be willing to try switching now, though Id prefer to begin exploring as a submissive. I think some of the best Dominants begin as submissives.



I have another profile on FL with some more ination. Just ask if youre interested.
10/5/2016 7:53:45 PM
Visiting the Los Angeles area at the moment.  I would be interested in opportunities to serve if available.
12/10/2015 5:10:20 PM
Since the entry is now so old I thought it would be a good idea to mention that I am still interested in finding opportunities to serve through domestic work.  See the entry below for more information.
4/23/2013 7:49:37 AM

I'm looking for opportunities in domestic work as a way to gain needed experience in servitude.  General cleaning and housework, yard work, repair work, etc would all be interesting to me.  I can clean, am a good cook, a decent gardener, and am happy to perform any other domestic or household labor tasks.   If you have a need for someone like this or know someone who does, I'd be grateful if you contacted me.  Thank you!

1/22/2013 2:14:12 PM

I'll be staying in the Bay Area for the next several weeks.

1/5/2013 12:50:21 AM
Since I've been asked a number of times, I'll say here that I do have a face picture available upon request. I don't have it attached to my profile for privacy reasons.
Bettiekute90
 
 Age: 19
 Cagayan De Oro, Philippines