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I'm a 56 yo monogamous sub (NOT A SLAVE) new to BDSM seeking a single white monogamous experie
Female Submissive, 56,  Simpson County, Mississippi


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StraightMale Dominant
Age: 35, Height: 5ft 10in (178 cm)
Location: Mississippi
Last on 4/7/18 at 2:05 PM










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 Submissive Female

 Simpson County 


 5' 2"

 150 lbs





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Dominant Male

I'm a 56 yo monogamous sub (NOT A SLAVE) new to BDSM seeking a single white monogamous experienced Dom (50-60) for one on one only...won't share my partner or myself with anyone else. My rule is to not get involved in any relationship with anyone that's in my children' age group. My kids are 31-36-41 so if you're in this age group, don't contact me. I recently found out I have high risk HPV and being honest by letting you know upfront instead of keeping it a secret. Must live in/nearby my local county areas in Mississippi: Rankin, Simpson, Hinds, Madison or Copiah. If you don't live within these areas don't contact me.                                                                                                                                    Must have a full head of hair and have a large cock..not be bald,sorry but it's a major turn off. You must have time for me on a regular basis, not just when it's convenient for you. Not looking to move in together, just in case things don't work out then neither of us has to worry about moving out.                                                                                                                                                                         I'm a Virgo and am only compatible with Capricorn,Cancer,Scorpio and Taurus. I have many curiosities and fetishes but haven't tried all of them. NOT willing to relocate! I don't have Kik/Skype or other messenger and won't send nude photos to your email or other means so please don't ask.                                                                                                                                                                                      Been married twice and both were vanilla and hated it. I won't marry again or help raise any other children. Please read my profile to the end as I took the time to type it out. Please note upfront that I won't sign a contract. If you have any type of snoring problem, it won't work out for us...sorry! I must have quiet when trying to sleep or I won't be any good to you or myself. I refuse to call any M/D 'Daddy', only my real dad had that privilege and he's deceased.                                                                                                                                                                     If you're a druggie or alcoholic, then you can stop reading now. I'm dope/alcohol free and plan on keeping it that way! I'm a smoker but if that's a problem for you, sorry. Yes, I do have hard limits but are within reason and they must be respected. Some of them are due to health conditions and some aren't.                                                                                                                                                    NOT looking for:Couples,WOMEN,FWB,married men,phone sex,play partners,weekend encounters,one night stands,online/LDR or being a 3rd/4th wheel,pack/house,sugar daddy,NSA,sexting,swinging or being your side chick.                                                                                                                                      You'll have to earn your trust/respect with me before I'll be obedient and submit to you.Trust comes before obedience and submission is earned.Trust/respect is earned,not demanded or bought. I'm only interested in the B/D and D/S,not the S/M part of the lifestyle. Must be willing to go slow and take your time getting to know me. Yes I'm new to the lifestyle but do know a lot about it,and not a naive person about the BDSM culture and don't mind having some of my limits pushed. If I like it then those limits can be removed but some limits I'll never bend on.                                                                                                                                          My mommy dearest and both ex husbands put me through a lot of mental /physical & emotional abuse, it won't happen to me ever again! Born/raised in Jackson but moved to Rankin County in 2002 and love living the country life. I'm a very sensual,faithful,loyal,peaceful,honest and trusting person.Trust and honesty is very important to me in any relationship. Communication is the key in the relationship. I'm as real as they come and won't change just to get people to like me. If anyone doesn't like me for who I am,then that's their problem not mine. I'm not trying to change anyone and I expect the same courtesy. I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand or comprehend.                                                                                                                                                                 

Journal Entries:
1/11/2018 8:29:01 PM
FYI.....I'm straight and not a clit licker. I only wanna STRAIGHT MALE DOM relationship,so  all you women out there shouldn't even be viewing my profile to begin with! I'm not Bi, and won't ever be. Go find some Bi/switch female accounts and view their profiles....not mine. Ya barking up the wrong damn tree.

11/11/2017 6:26:20 PM
Before you send me a message, read my profile to the end. If you live in my area and claim that you are looking for a SERIOUS relationship, then I take that as you want a serious relationship with ONE woman ONLY. A serious relationship in my opinion doesn't involve a third person with any other man or woman. I'm STRICTLY monogamous. NO I'm NOT willing to relocate and it's on my profile CLEAR AS DAY! If you can't read my profile without skimming through it, then don't contact me at all. I've already stated what zodiac signs I'm compatible with and the local areas I'm interested in. We'll never move in together even in a relationship. I say this for one main reason, in case things don't work out between us then we don't have to worry about moving out. We can be in a relationship without living together, we can spend time together at our home(s) like on weekends and other places of interest...etc. I'm just not in a position to keep having to move out if things don't work out. If you feel the need to bring in another woman to the relationship, that's cool with me. I'll leave and she can take my place. I'M NOT BI AND NOT INTO THREESOMES/FOURSOMES/ORGIES, ETC. I'm NOT a CLIT LICKER!! 


10/23/2017 10:11:46 AM
FYI to all members of CS: Think 100 times before you decide to send me a rude, degrading, sarcastic, or cocky message. I have no problem taking screenshots and posting them on my profile photos just so everyone can see your name/message and what type of person you really are! Hopefully they'll stay away from you and you won't ever find anyone to be your little play thing. You've been WARNED!! I don't play that crap, just saying. Have a great weekend....    

10/17/2017 8:44:58 AM
Ya know it really amazes me why men that live nowhere near me send degrading messages then block me cuz they can't handle the reply that I'll give them. This dude sent me this message & I went to send my sharp tongue reply and then saw that he had blocked me. So ladies you'll know what this dude is really like and decide for yourselves whether or not to stay away from this sorry ass low class motherfucker that uses a google image as his profile pic so no one can see what he really looks like then sends out low class degrading messages to other women. Yet he had the small balls to send me this message below then block me. Hell, he's probably a fat ugly slob troll that can't get a woman. Yea dude, I'm putting you on blast!! I ain't got time for stupid retard bullshit like this! 


10/21/17 1:24 PM                                   What a fat, classless, ugly, uneducated, uncouth twat. No wonder you can't find a man...





9/30/2017 1:26:23 PM

No sex since 2014, but I got a call from my doctor 6 days ago and looks like my sex life is over!

I went for my annual checkup to my GYN doctor on 9/20/17. A pap test was done even though I have just 1 tube and ovary left....I had a hysterectomy in 1993. I've had many pap tests done yearly and all were normal but was never checked for HPV. This GYN dr. tested for the pap smear and HPV...little did I know!! The nurse called me 9/29/17 to tell me that I tested positive for High Risk HPV! I haven't had any sex since 2014 and was married to my 2nd husband from 1992-2013 but there wasn't any sex between us since 2012. I had sex with 3 men separately in 2014. Now it looks like my sex is over for good after being told that I have High Risk HPV! I was told to follow up in 1 year for another pap test to see if it has gone away. They told me it can be spread through kissing/oral sex and any type of sex. Said I can have 'safe sex' by using a condoms, so I asked "how do I protect myself/partner from oral sex/kissing?" She told me "I can't kiss or receive/give oral, just intercourse." I then told her if intercourse is all I can do then that's not a sexual relationship...that's just fucking!

So I guess I won't be able to have a sexual relationship with any man. Cuz I'm not gonna just fuck... wham bam thank ya mam and spread HPV to another man. I fucking give up, my sex life has been inactive since 2014 and appears that it'll stay that way until I die. Fuck, that killed me to be told that shit along with making me panic throughout that phone call.

Looks like I'll never get a chance to experience the BDSM lifestyle. The question to myself now is: Do I leave my account open, or do I close it?

I refuse to pass this onto another man, now that I know I have HPV! I just as well pass over into the eternal life and be done with it all!!

**Note I did have genital warts (another form of HPV) at age 14 (1976) while pregnant with my 1st child, but the doctors got rid of them by freezing them off. They never came back. Bottom line is my son's daddy gave me the genital warts, cuz I was with him only. I think he was the one fooling around behind my back with other women and gave it to me. This was my 1st husband and got married in 1978 when my son was 2 and divorced 5 years later.

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