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Owning and supporting an enslaved human and guiding her growth is a big job that takes a lot of time, money, effort, attention, judgment, a mix of firm structure and understanding all focused on the goal of her growth. Molding & training happens in reasonable, progressive baby steps.
Real live-in, TPE control necessarily does include structure, strict-rules and clear well-defined expectations. Extreme clarity is an Owner’s gift to his possession. A politically correct "vanilla" boyfriend/husband is ashamed what he really need, so he hides them. so she has to guess. She of course, guesses wrong. Unsatisfied he looks elsewhere.
An Owner is honestly unashamed and blunt about his needs and requirements. his goal is to help her develop and mold her into his beloved dream-girl. Growth and development progress slowly via tolerable baby doable steps. For there to be a match - both have to fully; know, deeply desires, fully agrees to and commits to - the mutually determined growth goals.
The key lifestyle words each have as many definitions as there are people using those words. So to clarify meaning, I prefer a detailed conversation about principles .
I seriously develop my property into a skilled treasure of highly focused enjoyable femininity on all levels, not just advanced sex. Think: elegant, sensual, appreciative, positive, comforting, exciting, belly dancing harem slave, courtesan, Japanese geisha girl, an adorable and adoring companion pet. A beloved possession that is worth owning and taking care of.
I don't seek to change everyone in the world. I just seek to control my tiny part of it. Feel free to disagree and move on in peace. I wish you all the best whatever that is for you.
A Fundamental Truth…
All Growth is Change
All Change is Uncomfortable at first
Most people adamantly avoid Discomfort
Therefore, most people adamantly Avoid change
The result is that most people left to themselves, adamantly avoid growth!
Most serious growth has to be Forced onto nearly everyone.
The functional definition of ”Power” is "a force that overwhelms very real resistance." It is “Power” that moves/changes things that otherwise would not move/change -or- stops things already moving/changing. There are countless examples. All of them are similar in this way, without exception.
All of Nature’s and human “powers” are neither good nor bad by themselves, they just exist. For example, fire can either burn down the house –or- make it comfortably warm and cozy and cook a delicious meal. In both cases, fire changes something that would NOT change by itself. Fire-itself simply exists as a neutral. What really matters is how powerful fire is handled and used. Could you handle being challenged and pushed to reach mutual goals? Overpowering your natural stumbling blocks? I would enforce that, even in the face of resistance, requiring power and control.
Could you handle being challenged and pushed to reach your growth goals? Even if it meant overpowering your stumbling blocks? You deserve to know, I would enforce growth and development. Doing that requires me to have real power and control, to overwhelm your resistance
To me, TPE/CNC real enslavement means forcing growth in an environment of slavery where your "actions and experiences constrained" in a way that you cannot dictate. Just like as a child, when you were forced to go to elementary school. Few men are brave enough to stick to that - through strong adult female resistance - I am.
I am at peace with my need for "power" and I use it to create growth. Are we opposite sides of the same coin?
Be careful what you wish for. There is a big difference between a: "control-from-the-bottom, part-time and short-term "SUB" play-sessions, versus, the reality of a: live-in, full time, dependent, and supported BDSM slavegirl. The price of such total support is the loss of rights and choice and an obligation to be enjoyable in all ways (not just advanced sex.)
The ancient war captive harem-slavegirls were highly trained and very well behaved. They were the most admired and desirable of all women in all of history. Why? because as slaves they HAD TO BE. They had no other choice, certainly no safe-word. a good girl had little to fear and much for her to enjoy, as long as she was a very good, compliant, enjoyable, ultra-feminine, adoring and adorable possession worth a man's ownership.
Do you aspire to become such an awesome treasure through required and supported focus on such arts ,skills and attitude training?
Could you commit in writing to a set term in months or preferably years. By the way, at the end of the term all my legal protections ends making you once again too legally dangerous to hold at times against your will, forcing me to release you at the end of the term.
How real and historically awesome do you want to become?
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