I am looking for an adventurous open minded female that is lifestyle friendly...
what I am not looking for is someone that needs to be micro managed nor am I looking for someone that wants or needs to be beaten or otherwise abused on a daily basis...
I have no interest in doing that...I am not looking to hurt anyone either physically or emotionally...
I have been involved in the lifestyle in some or another in various capacities for a number of years...it can be a lot of fun...I am looking for someone to enjoy it with while at the same time not living that lifestyle on a daily basis...after all - most of us have vanilla lives we have to live as well...
and just to be clear--Ds is not all about sex but rather an attitude and an acceptance of an alternative way to live...of course when it comes time for intimacy Ds may very well be a part of that but it will not take up all of our thought and time...and FYI - limits will be respected
I am single...never married...no kids ...
although I am older than I care to be I am open to the possibilities with women of all ages...I am still young at heart and I like going out and doing fun things like shows, concerts, events...etc...but my party everyday days are over...I have learned to enjoy the benefits of quite times as well...
I have relocated back to upstate NY after spending some time in Fla and everywhere else...it would be nice to get know someone that has common interests...
I would also like to add that I enjoy the company of women that enjoy, or at least willing to try tight-lacing...
I am also willing to be friends first with the option for more ...
I list myself as a switch to increase the possibilities here ....I try to keep an open mind ...I hope you do as well ...
2/9/2014 10:26:21 PM
'Deleted Unread' = I am a game playing pretender... those are exactly the people I especially don't want to hear from ...
3/14/2012 1:16:01 AM
When the hell are people going to learn the difference between the words Dominant and Dominate?
