I am a fit handsome ox yearning to be yolked to a strong man’s will. To extend his words into reality and action. I'm very naturally devoted to my partners' pleasure, expression, and freedom.
Adoration and connection, I feel, are the basis of any sort of power exchange relationship for me (or any relationship, really) - so I firstly seek that "affinity of mind"... and heart. I'm an infinite well of kindness and adoration, and I appreciate receiving both kindness and cruelty as two sides of the the intimacy coin. I'm committed to my (future) partner to feel free to be both, at his discretion.
I'm very emotionally aware, and am an excellent communicator. I seek the same in a partner. I thrive on affirmation and verbal acknowledgment.
In my life, I've usually been the one to take the initiative and set the tone and tempo of relationships. I'm looking to hand that over to a capable man. I'm looking for the one who inspires me to do just that. Someone who has confidence in his vision about the sort of life she wants, the sort of play that he wants in it, and has lust for creatively concocting that vision.
I've been in kink for a while now, and have skills in S&M, rope bondage, and the psychological aspects of all of it. I'm voracious in my appetite to understand the human condition, and the minds and hearts of others. Kink has been a pathway for personal growth for me .. and I want it to evolve to become a pathway for intimacy as well.