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Hoping I never have to update this again. Sigh. 81219
Before we start, I am not a fetish dispenser, if you keep trying to push your fetish on me and especially when it is just not my thing, you will be blocked. I am not here for you to project trying to get some kink met. I do not want people who arent into what I am into messaging me to do things either. We have a Primal group here, push comes to shove always people to go on outdoor wilderness runs with. No I have not bothered to join since it is predominantly male doms. Point is options.
I am not a sub, never going to be a sub. Dominant messages go straight to spam, I eventually get to all messages, but only messages from folks that might mesh come to my inbox. Only US sub or switch come to inbox.
I am seeking for Primary partner(s) a sub leaning switch male or female(trans, NB, GF), for secondary submissive is fine, I am not bossy, I ask for things. I will not a) degrade, humiliate(on purpose, the line can be easier to cross with some people when trying to offer subtle criticism), dehumanization. B) I will not tolerate negative behavior(things listed in a) in my home, I believe in self-improvement and growth. I believe we are all evolving organisms and as such I understand that some folks have further to go to see their own value, but those who refuse to improve will not last long in my mini world.
I am Pansexual, Demisexual, Poly(andry or gamy), I have an Alpha (Independent, tend to end up in leadership roles) personality, but I am also Hippie chill, drama is toxic, jealousy is toxic, relationships take time and work and a ton of patience and learning.
I do want kids(I am a single mom, he is 16 (as of 82319) and almost done with high school). I would love to find a Primary Male willing to have kids and co-parent. I am looking for an FLR and just to be up front I like having my own space and want separate bedrooms. It is more common than I thought, and I am lucky and glad to have found so many people who also practice separate space.
I am open to children with 1 Primary partner, or with multiple partners in the home(or relationship) willing to co-parent. My children will take my name. I am not interested in toxic. It takes a lot more strength than I have to be submissive and I tend to have a short attention (purple) when people get demanding which is why I ask instead of tell. I will never demand something gets redone. I will find someone who wants to do it or do it myself.
Those who would mesh well are interested in FLR, submissive, sub-leaning, at least slightly independent(can spend a day on something that is for them, hobby, hike, whatever). I am DEMISEXUAL or DEMI-PRESENT, in my world there are BONDS. If there arent bonds blood or not still considered toxic and I will not tolerate toxic relationships. Pet types will be highly considered, admittedly I am looking into all the protocol of being a handler. Hoping capital letters will make this easier to find.
Very much seek people who can be independent. If you are dominant and message me, I will probably respond and I will probably get bored pretty fast, so that is out there, dont be disappointed it is you, not me.
If I dont get back to you.
Open to transgendered partners, currently not interested in Sissies. Also Diapers, toilet, and watersports are an auto block. I am not interested in anything to do with bathroom play, scat or piss.
I will try to respond to all respectful messages. Find yourself blocked you either didnt read my profile or your were just an ass.
Happy Hunting all. Wolves feel free to make yourselves known, always nice to meet more wolves. IF you made it this far there is a word, find it message.
P.S. messaging me with will you tell me to (fill in the blank) auto block, you were warned. It is not my job. I do not do online play, no meeting then no doming end of story. And like I said laid back domme. GFD Gentle FemDom. Not really into Discipline, you should be learning, if you are learning we are fine, I can deal with brat, beta challenges, etc. Just not trying, you can find a new Domme, Owner, etc.
I try to be nice and treat adults like adults, but have already found immature children on this site. You will be blocked. Act like an immature child, blocked. Come off as someone with an Alcohol or Drug issue, blocked. Code word turtle if you read this. Act like an adult we can chat. Get butt hurt because honesty is important, blocked.
If I viewed your profile, it may be interest it may be because you viewed me first. Age limits are important, under 21 or over 50 sub would be non-sexual. Also over 50, I am not really interested, generation gap there. If you are under 30, be mature.
Ask about my current Ds dynamics if you are interested. If you are not into Poly females, fine, dont message me. Keywords Demisexual (google), Gentle FemDom(non ageplay), Multiple submissive Male household. Only age play I would be interested in would be non sexual and NO DIAPERS, NO, NO, NO DIAPERS. Prefer Networking with Middles. Open to a submissive or sub leaning switch Mommy or Daddy. Again non sexual age play. Say Daddy and mention sex, you will be blocked. My relationship with my actual parents was complicated but fine as a child. 2 parent household. Close to family, except dads side for issues at 25 years old. Get the hint.
Not looking to replace my parents, looking to explore Middledom (Middle Space) open to non sexual Brother and Sister Middles. Asexual is fine.
Open to chatting and getting to know each other on line, eventually phone, etc. I am not interested in any on line play. I will not meet to play initially. First meet must be public and just to chat and see if there is a vibe. PlayDynamics come with trust. For those that didnt read, not a sub, but I have no interest in just Domming random folks. NO ONLINE PLAY! I do not rush meets. I am not looking for hook ups, play dates, blah, blah, blah. Do not waste your time, never going to happen.

Picture sharing will be reserved for conversations that get that far...I
I had a stalker issue on another site and a far too familiar profile viewed me on here. I have blocked him again, but safety is important. If we chat and it is going somewhere with regular correspondence I will consider sharing a picture. If you have issues with safety I will just block you and make it easier on both of us.

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9/26/2022 4:22:46 PM

I am not looking for a solo sub, I have a sub. 

 

I am fine with people seeking to find a 1 on 1, I completely respect that. Please respect that I already have an established dynamic that I have invested years into. 

If you want a 1 on 1 and expect me to walk away from my dynamic, let me state clearly that is not happening. We have feelings and those feelings may not mean he is an only, but we went in eyes wide open. He isn't going to be thrown away for a maybe sub. 

 

Also I do not pretend to be monogamous or to be seeking a solo sub. I like my life very much the way it is. If you need a ton of attention, even one on one we are not compatible. I love my solo time and have no intention of throwing my alone time away. 

 

I wanted to add Why is this not a couples journal? He is my sub, he isn't my boyfriend. He dates I date, we have a dynamic.


7/5/2022 12:53:57 PM

I feel that making this note is important. 

1 I currently have a long distance pet dynamic, we have been in our dynamic for a few years. 

2 If I suddenly decided marriage was important, I would marry a woman. I want to make a note here so monogamy males can have some foresight. 

I am fine with people being monogamous, I am not mono, my pet is not mono. We are both free to date, have other dynamics, etc. 

If I were going to settle into a one on one, I would most definitely find myself a wife. I do not want a slave husband, I have no interest in marriage at this time, but I have been engaged to men in the past and the only thing Iearned is I don't have any interest in marrying a man. 

 

If you are seeking to be a slave husband and some government document is important to you, I promise we are not compatible. To be fair, I really do not feel the government needs to be involved in any of my relationships. 

I may be open to a spiritual marriage, but alas, a contractual one is not in my foreseeable future. 

 

P. S. My current pet is a cis male, he finds his own dynamics, any dynamics I am seeking would be one on one, not inclusive of him. If you two choose to enter some arrangement, that is between you. 

 

Yes I am Dominant, but I am not controlling. I need my freedom, and I do not believe in caging others, at least outside of dynamic arrangements.


6/14/2022 7:23:58 AM

Keep wanting to update my age, but it loves to threaten with that approval process, so I am 39, since this comes with a date, the math should be easy from here in 2023 I will be 40, etc. 

 

Hopefully we will be able to update something as simple as age without waiting for the approval process someday. 


2/26/2022 7:56:11 AM

I am Pan, I like girls and boys and everyone in between, or not. 

I actually prefer females, or feminine souls. I am very much a tom boy myself, I know nothing about make up or fashion, etc. I want a farm, neither helps to run a farm. 

So if you are a female seeking a female, or a male seeking a female, or Non Binary or Gender fluid, if you are open to a poly Domme, if you are seeking a Sensual or non-Disciplinary dynamic. I am seeking real life dynamics. I will chat online, but I cannot keep an online dynamic going, I need to be around people to know how to properly engage, manage, etc. 

If you are not willing to eventually relocate to Minnesota, if you are seeking something online, if you are seeking Monogamy, these are reasons to not message me. 

I do lean towards pets. Service subs are welcome as well. I am fairly open since I am poly, no one dynamic need encompass all of my interests. 


2/3/2022 12:27:42 PM

Just a few clarifications, I have little interest in pain, giving, receiving, watching, so if you are seeking pain probably not a match. 

Future partners might be into giving, receiving, but I still have no interest in spectating. 

 

As for sexuality, I am all for my partners having partners. it really does not bother me. I will probably not be watching or joining in on some regular basis. If I and they decide to have some group play it would be a one off until the next time I and they are interested in group play. 

I am not a voyuer and I get no pleasure or thrill from porn, watching people. I will very likely never participate as a watcher/viewer/voyeur. 

Any group play would be negotiated at that time for that specific activity. I do not do force, totally fine with role playing CNC, but there will be thorough discussins before hand. 


12/9/2021 10:58:45 AM

Please do not message me and then block me before I can respond. 

Good luck in your search, but that is really just silly behavior. 

 

Hi are you interested? 

Me try to respond.

Error message, message not sent, user has blocked you. 


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etaveras214
 
 Submissive, Age:  37
 Las Vegas, Nevada
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