Again and again, "How long have you been in the lifestyle?" To which I have to say, what lifestyle? I'm not part of some subculture lifestyle, I live. I like what I like. I like it enough, it's important enough to me to be something I need to have in any relationship, from the casual to the fullest. That's not a lifestyle choice. I like kink, perhaps that's a lifestyle thing, but the D/s, the power exchange, that's real life.

Why can't I use the interests here to adequately describe my interests and needs for a relationship? Even plain jane Daddy/daughter isn't available, come on everybody loves Daddy/daughter. Other similar roles fail to appear and yet gorean lifestyle ... seriously who lives that in real life? It's a fantasy, and a limited and poorly written one at that.