I am learning everyday as we all should. Some of the lessons I have learned have been "painful" and others have been right on time as I grown in this lifestyle that I have accepted.  I appreciate and completely respect the trust my sub has placed in my hands more now than ever. 

The real power of my role as a "dom" is limited to my subs power/ability to surrender himself/herself to me and allow me to nurture the ability he or she has relinquished.

Honesty is not the best policy it it is the only policy.  I  am an aggressive total dom.  I don't want to take control of a sub I want the sub to give themself to me.