Good gawd!   If I have to read ONE more "Dom" profile stating  -  "Do not mistake my kindness for weakness.  Do not mistake my love for weakness .....". 

A REAL SUB - KNOWS to respect a REAL DOM. 

She knows her place, and her protocols - and its a good thing she can also recognize the real Dom's from the fakes!  smdh.

My inbox has been nothing short of interesting this past while (some of it 'shocking' actually).  But the one that really put a smile on my face, is the "BLACK" Dom that wrote me and sent me his pictures..and LOL... when I background check him off of CM - I find he is actually a WHITE man!!!  lmao.  hmmm.... at WHAT point did he think I would not notice??  He's in the same city as me, so surely he would have to tell me before we met  (I'm still smiling on this one).   But then it also raises the question - to WHAT EXTENT will someone go to, to try and meet another person??  kinda scary!

I am TIRED of people that get nowhere with you, so they contact you under different profiles. What?? You didn't get anywhere the first time?? 

IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PICTURE, OR HAVEN'T ATTACHED ONE - DO NOT "EXPECT" AN ANSWER!  Is there any wonder WHY I get bitchy!!  sheesh!!

I am TIRED of people that get nowhere with you, so they contact you under different profiles.  What??  You didn't get anywhere the first time??

IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PICTURE, OR HAVEN'T ATTACHED ONE - DO NOT "EXPECT" AN ANSWER!   Is there any wonder WHY I get bitchy!!  sheesh!!

HOW I VIEW SUBMISSION.... Submission is not about sex. Submission is NOT something one can learn. It is not sex. It is not dirty. Submission is beauty. It is a beauty that comes from the very SOUL of a submissive woman. It is a breaking down of the walls built up in her lifetime, allowing the beautiful, sensual woman to come through.

SUBMISSION is not about sex, it is about sensuality. It is about trust, communication, vulnerability, caring, and honesty. It is about being the graceful, sensual, beautiful woman that resides within.

SUBMISSION is about knowing who you are, and what you want. A submissive is NOT a weak person, but just the opposite. She is strong. She is strong in herself, and in the knowledge of who she is. She NEVER submits out of weakness or desperation. She submits out of strength,   love,   and trust.

SUBMISSION is freedom. It is a letting go of one's self, knowing that the dominant is there to catch you if you falter. It is about pushing to be the very best one can be, not only as a submissive, but as a woman, a person, a human being. It is about learning, growing, and giving.

Please don't get me wrong. Submission is not about donning rose colored glasses, and the world is fine. Nothing worthwhile will ever come that easy.

SUBMISSION is also about pain. There is no growth without pain, lest it be a temporary growth. There is no freedom without the inner struggle to let go. There is no sensuality without breaking down the barriers that took years to put into place.

WHO'S GOING TO CARIBANA???

Seems some people just don't understand what the word RESPECT means.  SMH!!!!   I mean, is there REALLY any reason to be rude and derogatory??  I really can't believe so many people are like this in real life, but only do it here because they are hiding behind a computer screen.  How sad.

SUBMISSIVE AM I:
i am a submissive woman.
i am NOT weak,
nor i am worthless.

i am a submissive woman.
i am intelligent,
and possess a strength
and perseverance that withstands
the trials of life.

This strength which i possess
And cherish
is my GIFT to You.

When life breaks You down
and makes You
question the man
you were intended to be...
allow me to allow You
to suck MY STRENGTH from me.
Make it Your OWN.

i do not
nor will i EVER
give my submission to a man
just because he claims dominance.

But to You,
i give all of me...
and Your ownership
completely
sets ME free.

i trust in You to CHERISH THE GIFT,
embrace my trust in You...
to PROTECT me.

i have opened up my heart
and my mind...
the very Core of my soul to You...
and invited You in.

i have
given You the book
entitled "ME"...
and invited You to read.

You know i have suffered
and
You know i am Scared
but You...
You have endeavoured
to erase the memories
and
replace the pain.

You are my Master.
i am not to be degraded
nor EVER dishonoured

i was created
to compliment You...

i was created to make You WHOLE...
for without the portion of Your heart
that contains my soul...
would not be complete...

I'm just back on CollarMe after being away for a few months.  Happy to say - this time around, I am meeting some really incredible people.  Thank you to all those that approach a Lady with RESPECT.  It sure goes a long way - doesn't it?? 

Have a FABULOUS DAY, everyone!!  :o))