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Total Commitment, Total Control with Total Surrender. That is the core relationship.

Honor, Truth, Integrity. In addition to being able to communicate verbally and in writing, these qualities are what I bring to the table and expect in return.

Emotional Nakedness ...Communicating without hidden agendas, secrets or any holding back. Both Master and slave need to do that from the first day.

Duties and responsibilites. The Master is responsible for the training, teaching, care and protection of his slave property.

Sadist I am not. However, having been active in this life since 1978, I learned a variety of ways to discipline, torment, and punish a slave. Punishment will be devious yet creative. Punishment does not have to always be painful.

I do love bondage. I am meticulous and detail oriented but don't micromanage. Additionally, I have no need for anyone that sees themselves as a doormat. I do have rules that govern the life of the slave.

I am Black, Christian, experienced, patient, and quite realistic. One thing that will not change regardless is that I am strictly monogamous and divorced. This is not a game, and being Dominant is who I am.

Most of all, being owned is a state of being unconditional. This DOES NOT mean that you're some personal urinal, punching bag, or whipping post. What it does mean that the parameters grow as the relationship grows.

6/6/2008 2:25:59 PM
I am sorry for not having answered letters that have been written to me.

In addition to illness my internet access, has been quite limited until now. Within the next two weeks I should  be back up and running.

Thanks for your patience. I should be back up two speed fairly quickly. 
4/14/2008 9:39:47 AM
I recently received a letter from someone who thinks I am some wannabe or player because I did not respond to a few letters she had written me.

Rather than take the time to inquire as to why, instead she jumps to the negative conclusion that I must be a player because I'd given her some daily rules to follow. The main reason I did not respond is that I'd been hospitalized. I only got out of the hospital two weeks ago following some overdue surgery.

Understand that when I am involved with a female hopeful of the relationship evolving into a RT LTR I will give minor rules. At the initial point you will have the choice to accept them at that point or wait. This female accepted them.

I have been involved actively in this life since 1978. If necessary I do have references as well. I do also humbly apologize to her and anyone else who believes that I am a player, wannabe, player or gamer.
4/11/2008 1:26:20 PM
I came across perhaps the best definition of a slave and it is written by a female.

"A slave is one that surrenders rights to herself."

That is really simple but says a lot. Nowadays nearly every other profile says something like,
"no limits" that last as long as the comfort zone isn't violated. Then you see, just how much of no limits the female truly is.

Just pause and think about what you say.
daddysblondie
 
 Age: 21
 Manchester, Canada