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OriginalWench

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This profile is probably going to offend some folks, but such is life. I'm here only to find likeminded folks to talk to, not because I'm searching for my One Twoo Master/Slave/Soulmate. If you are looking for anything more than someone to talk to as a friend, then this is the wrong profile to be reading.

In other words, I'm not looking for sex, casual play, a top, a bottom, another group to join, or anything more than just friends.

I'm not going to Dominate you. You are not my sub. If you're looking for a strong woman to humiliate/beat/abuse/otherwise top you, then just scroll right on by. I'll say it again, with emphasis. I'm not going to Dominate you. You are not my sub. I have to have some kind of connection with somebody before I'm willing to delve into any kind of controlling them. This does not happen in the space of an email or three, and a bit of IMing.

I'm not going to submit to you. You are not my Dom. Let me repeat that, with some emphasis. I'm not going to submit to you. You are not my Dom. Is that clear enough? Good. So if you're looking for some hot sub action, keep moving.

That covers what I won't do, so I suppose I should tell you what I will do. I will exchange ideas, enjoy conversations, and and joke around, IF you are courteous. I'm not asking you to do anything ridiculous like pepper your writings with please's and ma'am's and such, just use basic manners.

I don't ask that you be a genius, or have an English major or anything silly like that, but I will tell you that I prefer conversing with folks who have a basic grasp of language, including grammar, spelling, and punctuation. I'm certainly not immune to typos (we all make them sometimes), but if you use leetspeak, netspeak, and bunches of LOL's, I'm probably not going to take you seriously and I may just mock you. To lots of people.

Okay, now either you've huffed off in a snit, or you're still reading. If you're still reading, you're either going to send me a nasty email, or decide you'd like to chat with me. Let me give you a few bits of information about me, so if you want to open up a dialogue with me, you have some kind of starting point.

As I've noted in my profile, I am a switch. I'm happily engaged to (and collared by) a man that I love very much, and we live with our critters and kids in
Pennsylvania. I'm not averse to meeting in person, so long as you realize I will bring The Mate, and it will be in public. I don't mind drinking coffee and chatting with folks. But that's about all that will ever happen, just so you know up front.

The Mate and I are fairly new to the 'scene' (some previous experience, but just over a year with each other), although we've been together nearly 5 years. He is my partner, my fiance, my owner, my love, and my best friend. I am his partner, attendant care giver, love, fiance, sub, and best friend. (I know, because he tells me so.) I wear my collar 24/7 to remind me of how special I am. We both get what we need the most from this. He gets the security of knowing that I'll give in to him if he wants it, that I'm here for the long haul, because I take my collar very seriously, that I am always thinking of what is best for him. I get the security of being so cherished that he gives me most anything I want, that he will take care of me, physically and emotionally, that he is always thinking of what is best for me. I happen to think that is about as ideal as we can get.

We are involved in the local scene, although we tend to keep our play at home between us. It's an intensely personal thing for us, and often is sexual as well, making it inappropriate for a public venue, even a play party that one could call "private public". We don't have a lot of rituals (I don't have to bow, or call him Sir, stay naked, or anything along those lines), we mostly are happy with what we do and keep to ourselves.

I suppose I could say a whole lot more, but if you want to find out more about me, I guess you'll need to get to know me. I love to meet interesting, entertaining, and diverse people from all walks of life. If you think you might just fit into one of those categories, feel free to contact me.

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Kingpinssuga
 
 Age: 37
 Warren, Michigan