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I tried to update my pics, but some are coming out sideways and I don't know how to correct it. I rotated it, but still won't work.
Let's get the "knots" out of the way ;)
I am not interested in long-distance relationships (unless you are willing to relocate) or married men. BTW, Portland, Oregon is not local. Reason? Because I do not want an internet relationship. I want to wrap my arms around you, and I cannot do that unless I can visit you outside of my work hours of course. Please respect this because I have been getting hits from people far away. I have now filtered my non-preferences to go to Bulk Mail. Also prefer age range between 50 to 60.
NOT LOOKING FOR ONLINE ONLY CHAT, IF YOU ARE WITHIN 25 MILES FROM ME THEN CONTACT ME.
Hello!
I am single with no children.
I value honesty, integrity, respect, slow to anger.
I love to smile and receive a lot of pleasure from making you smile.
I enjoy camping, walking, biking, dancing, swimming, movies, cuddling, BBQ, laughing, flirting, friendly banter and a whole lot more.
I am a human being first and so are you. Let's meet on those common grounds first, please.
I am seeking Someone that is not going to demand me to do certain things when we first meet. Yes, I am submissive, but giving up my control to you is my choice based on many levels of attraction and compatibility.
For now, I am seeking casual dating for us to get to know each other. Looking for someone who is hopefully in my home town. I wonder how many times I should repeat that. One of my fetishes is to actually read people's profiles.
You will be someone who values and respects my own passions and goals and is observant with good eye contact. With enough time and trust with a partner, just a certain look is all that is needed. Other times, I like to hear your voice, at times gentle and other times firm. In a nutshell, we are all human, and I like to experience all of the aspects of nature, of which we are a part of.
Whether a person talks with you, shares with you, laughs with you, confides in you, holds your hand walking down the street, helps you mess up the bed, showers with you, cries in your arms, supports you, they are giving a part of themselves to you. It's not a gift in the bad-Christmas-choice-that-you-return-to-Walmart-in-thirty-days sense. It's trust - earned, respected, reciprocated - which is given and cannot be demanded (at the very worst, coerced). Opening yourself physically is in no way as deep or profound as opening up mentally and emotionally, exposing the critical parts of yourself that make you, you, and me, me.
I do cherish and appreciate the ways I can please, but that's not the sum of me; it is the totality of me that I share with you, the exchange of trust and love that binds us together as partners - yes, that is a gift, as far as I'm concerned, one that has immeasurable value. Willingly given, happily received, and what I share in return isn't payment, it's a natural response from me, to Him.
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I know this guy. His "Sunday girl" is his real life girlfriend and they are madly in love. I'm looking for my Sunday Guy.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/zackevans/the-7-types-of-girls-you-date#.qwrRyw4Va
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DISCIPLINE:
I like to be disciplined in a gentle but firm way. I do not respond well to angry, humiliating punishment. I understand and agree that training is expected to produce a specific pattern of behavior, especially training that produces moral or mental improvement. It should never be used for the Trainer to gain an ego trip simply to see that he/she can mold that individual into their ideals. I would hope that my partner would want me to be the best version of who I can and will become.
I do not need micro-managed. I do not need strict rules. I crave leadership and a strong man. And strength of a man includes showing his own human weaknesses.
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R-E-S-P-E-C-T
I think Aretha can sing it best (except the part about me giving you all of my money, lol)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1OncKtzZ2Nc
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HUMOR!
I love sign language, even though I only know the alphabet. This one is pretty funny though :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqNl6Tc70M0
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QUOTES, MUSIC and POEMS I LIKE:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gpNqB4dnT4
(CRAZY ON YOU by Heart)
We do not have to spend our life reacting to others and to the course they would prefer we took with our life. We can set boundaries, firm limits on how far we shall go with others. We can trust and listen to ourselves. We can set goals and direction for our life. We can place value on ourselves. We can own our power with people.
Melody Beattie
PASSION:
Power contained but not controlled.
Arousing dark thoughts, such a distraction.
Smothering logic with hard deep kisses.
Straining for frantic carnal action.
Imagining flesh with a sweaty sheen.
On rumpled sheets, limbs held by rope.
Never set free, a nightmare or hope.
(words by mtc)
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Trust
We feel trust. Emotions associated with trust include companionship, friendship love, agreement, relaxation, comfort and the ability to keep your mouth shut if I confide in you. :)
In my opinion, there is a level of predictability and that is I believe a normal part of the human condition, to be constantly forecasting ahead. We base our internal understanding of the world based on our experiences and what others tell us, and then use these to guess what will happen next. This allows us to spot and prepare for threats and make plans to achieve our longer-term goals.
You might be reading this to think I am suspicious by nature, but I believe that trust means being able to predict what other people will do and what situations will occur. If we surround ourselves with people we trust, then we create a safe present and even better future. |
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Do we find love, or does it find us? I guess if we have put ourselves on a dating site we are at least looking. Or maybe we are hoping someone may be looking for us. It is so human to want to be loved by someone and to love someone. Some may look longer than others. I think to answer my own question would be a little bit of both. First of all we have to be looking in order to find anything. But then again we can just stumble upon love.
Some people say that you can find love in the strangest of places. Some of us put little things about ourselves on our profiles. Others put themselves on private and are not looking. They just like to look at others. Really when you think about it. We put our little adds out there saying this or that with the hopes of someone taking an interest in us. Some people may be a little guarded because of past relationships and the broken hearts from those relationships.
I think its safe to say that most of us have been lucky enough to be able to experience loving someone, and having someone love us back. I think what's difficult is being able to put yourself out there again wanting to find love, but affraid to have our hearts broken again. I think it's worth the journey though. |
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| Age: 24 |
| Tempe,
Arizona |
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