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OntheBarbibitch
Hetero Male Dominant, 46,  Youngstown, Ohio
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 OntheBarbibitch

 Dominant Male

 Youngstown 

 Ohio

 5' 8"

 205 lbs

 46

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 04/07/10

 now

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Begging  (Expert)

 Bondage  (Expert)

 Canes and Crops  (Expert)

 Collars  (Expert)

 Electrical Play  (Expert)

 Eye Contact Restrictions  (Expert)

 Knife Play  (Expert)

 Leashes  (Expert)

 Massage (Getting)

 Mental Bondage  (Expert)

 Obedience Training  (Expert)

 Objectification  (Expert)

 Orgasm Control  (Expert)

 Shibari  (Expert)

 Spanking  (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions  (Expert)

 Suspension  (Expert)

 Whips  (Expert)

 Polyamory  (Expert)

 Loves:

 Anal Play  (Expert)

 Blindfolds  (Expert)

 Body Worship  (Expert)

 Breast Binding/Play  (Expert)

 Cages  (Expert)

 Corsets  (Expert)

 Enemas

 Exhibitionism

 Local BDSM Community  (Expert)

 Fire Play

 Foot Worship

 Gags  (Expert)

 Hair Pulling  (Expert)

 Humiliation  (Expert)

 Medical Play  (Expert)

 Needle Play  (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage  (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay  (Expert)

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Role Playing  (Expert)

 Sensory Deprivation

 Vibrators  (Expert)

 Watersports  (Expert)

 Wax play  (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Likes:

 CBT  (Expert)

 Chastity

 Corner Time

 Dilation

 Fisting

 Hoods

 Rubber Fetish

 Theatrical Scenes

 Dislikes:

 Diapers

 Pantyhose Fetish

I seek a slave. Pure and simple.

Im not here for casual encounters. I dont have time. Im not interested in finding a love interest. Not only has that ship sailed, but it has been torpedoed. Not that I will reject your love. Just you should not expect it in return beyond what a master feels for his prized livestock. Your likes and desires, beyond how they are useful for me, are of no interest. Your actual needs will be my only concern.

Actually, as to your desires and what you state you like or dislike right now, it comes down to this. I dont care. I will take you from step one, as if you have never even been touched before. And I will test you and try on you a myriad of different things. Cataloging your reactions. And that will give me a baseline as to where you are in your training. In the end, your desires will match mine. Your very existence with revolved around my word.

This isnt a game. This isnt some power play. This is reality. If you dont agree, I dont care. Your thoughts on the matter are of zero consequence to the world. Unless they amuse me.

You better bring something that catches my attention. In a good way. Bonus points if youre an artist or can sing. I am looking for someone or someones to retire to a boat in the Bahamas with. I dont need model looks. Just pleasing. And I do have a soft spot for geeks.

Couples that are femalefemale get first attention. And the reason isnt what you think. I am generally very busy. I would prefer that when I am preoccupied with providing for my House, that my girl isnt without companionship. Slaves need that. If she already has a committed relationship with another girl, it makes it easier all around. They serve me as I need it. Then when Im forced to be away, shethey are not lonely or un-cared for. Yes. I recognize that as a need for a slave, not a want or desire.

If youre over 40, unless youre bringing your of age daughter, Im sorry. I have spent my life providing for others. I am now only focused on myself. If you are bringing your daughter, we can talk. I would be interested in having a motherdaughter set of slaves.
I am not opposed to outstanding couples. The female must be acceptable though. And both will be slaves.

If you are a fat pig, I have less than zero interest in you. You disgust me. You are crawling around with no ability or even desire to care for yourself. And yet you pretend you would care for me and my house? You are a liar. You want someone who will let you wallow in your stye and care for you as youre sick. Waddle on.

In short, no one on this site has anything I need. I have a great deal that many on this site need. This is a meat market. Im in the mood for some meat. Sell yourself to me. Or wallow in failure. Your choice. I dont care which.

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5/5/2015 8:29:11 AM

 A number of people have commented about my weight and  height.  I blame the media for concentrating  on numbers, not reality.  In my youth when I was in the military and had almost dangerously low levels of body fat, I weighed in at around 190#.  This is due to my extremely dense bones.  How dense?  Well a full sized pickup truck doing 60 mph turned me into a hook ornament.  I wish I had the pictures of his hood with a perfect impression of my back, head and neck in his steel hood.  Besides rattling my brain, I walked away with road-rash from being launched over the 30' median into on-coming traffic.  I was awake the whole time, never losing consciousness until they gave me drugs in the hospital.  I've put on some weight since then.  But I'm working on taking it back off.  The latest picture is accurate.   I'll never get back down to my six-pack 190#, but I think I can _safely_ get below 200#  My puppy is certainly working to make that happen!


7/23/2013 1:45:32 PM

If I look at your profile, something in it caught my interest.  If I don't drop you an email after that, something I saw there indicated to me that you are not really looking for the level I wish to take someone.  Obviously I'm making a snap decision and could be wrong.  If you read mine and think differently, do not hesitate to drop me a message.

 

If I put you on my "Favorites" list, it means you have caught my interest.  Usually that means I will send you a message right away, but sometimes I see a profile that interests me on my way out the door so to speak and so will mark it that way.  Or that I see potential in the profile and wish to see how it grows.  Again, feel free to message if you have any questions on that.


7/8/2013 1:01:55 PM

I have long described myself as a sadist. But like almost all terms used, it has always felt too broad and not exactly what I am. Specifically, the definition of a sadist is:

 

1: a sexual perversion in which gratification is obtained by the infliction of physical or mental pain on others (as on a love object) — compare masochism

 

2 a : delight in cruelty

b : excessive cruelty

 

While I enjoy inflicting pain, it is more than that. I enjoy inflicting pain in a studied manner in order to produce my desired response. In other words, the inflicting of pain is only half the equation. Where a true sadist will care little about the response other than to use it as confirmation that they are inflicting the level of pain they want to, I desire a great deal more. The expression of pain are not enough. In my mind anyone with a stick can elicit those. I strive to control their entire body and mind. Bending it to my will so I can force them to experience the whole spectrum from extreme pain to extreme pleasure. When I slide that needle through their nipple, I want their brain so scrambled that while they watch the tip disappear into their flesh, knowing that I am painfully piercing their body, that they also experience a rush of pleasure that is completely at odds to what they see and feel happening to their body. I use all the tricks in my book to control them. To make their body and mind dance the way I choose for them to do without them being able to exert any control.

 

Or to put it another way, I wish to turn them into a pain marionette. And I the torture manipulator, mostly hidden in the shadows. Forcing them to dance on a stage of my construction, to music only I can hear, never knowing what string or which direction will convey my desire. Them not even knowing the “play”. Being only able to hang there and experience the dance anew each time. At once both fearful of what might becoming next, and comforted in the knowledge that a steady hand holds the strings and will not let the puppet fail and fall.

 

So that's what I think I will refer to myself from now on instead of a sadist. A torture manipulator.


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