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OldManHayward

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Just a hint for those who have not caught the clue. Being submissive does not mean you have control. If you want to use your submission to control then it is called topping from the bottom.

Retired home owner with a couple of empty rooms available. No real hobbies and almost always have time to talk with people. However Ive little capacity for users, abusers and people running scams.

If you dont live in California do not bother trying to play net sex games since I will not be interested. If all you want to do is play online games do not bother trying since I will not be interested. And if you are a scammer from some 3rd world country do not waste your time (or MY time!).

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5/24/2022 10:35:06 AM

Well I am back to searching for a live-in maid/slave. 

 

Note that if you are not local then I can not interview you for the position. And without an interview I am not about to accept you for the position. In other words "not local?" then "no thanks".


3/25/2018 5:26:47 PM
New event so thought I'd add an entry about it and share it. I was browsing around Amazon the other day and discovered the Amazon Cloud Cam. It is a security cam and not a webcam. Also it does not connect to a PC and instead stores images on the Amazon cloud Drive service. Anyway you can then either use your phone or a regular PC browser to monitor a live picture from the cam. Also whenever there is 'motion' detected it stores the video in 5 minute snippets which you can then view later. Naturally I just had to buy one and then I decided to tell the live-in maid to install it in her room so I could monitor her bed and the front of her closet. In addition to monitoring it also allows two-way audio so I can hear what goes on in her room as well as being able to talk to her when she is in her room. A most excellent tool for the voyeur! If you would like a cam watching you, be sure to let me know soon!  :)

2/15/2018 1:19:32 PM
Well it has been about a month since my new live-in maid came onboard and it's been quite an interesting month indeed! While my slave-girl still comes to visit once a week having a live-in sub service maid has improved things dramatically. I've done quite a bit of Amazon shopping since she came onboard to pick up some new things. She now has several sets of cosplay type maid uniforms, some restraints and a few toys. She is only allowed her cosplay maid outfits while in the house and it does make it quite interesting watching her cleaning with so much skin showing. Now I'm wondering why I didn't try a sub maid long ago instead of going with half assed "professional" housekeepers. It makes it so much easier to manage her when I can simply pull her over my knees when she doesn't clean to my satisfaction! I highly recommend the same to anyone needing a maid or housekeeper!

1/12/2018 5:40:10 PM
Do you know how to check to see if a picture is on the Internet? Bring up the Google homepage. At the top-right is a link to Images. Once you click on it go down and click on the camera icon. Now you can either paste a URL into the window or you can browse to a picture you have on your computer. Google will then search to see if it can find a matching picture somewhere on the Internet.

I just did that for a Collerspace member's profile picture and Google found the same picture on more than 300 porn websites. Obviously that user is a fraud using a picture stolen from one of those porn sites. Should you trust someone who pretends to be someone who is on numerous websites, especially porn websites?

People beware, be careful and be warned. Not only is the world full of scammers, but the Internet has them also. And needless to say, this website has more than a few of those scammers sitting here among us!

12/16/2017 6:51:03 PM
So I had a sub from out of state contact me and make overtures about wanting to 'play'. I explained that I don't do the online fantasy games and wished her luck in finding a playmate. She ignored that and tried to entice me with her normal methods of online play. I thanked her again and suggested she not try any further. Odd how so many people only want the safety of online virtual fantasy play and are afraid of actually reality...

12/11/2017 5:48:03 PM
I've noticed that as I get older I have more and more single ladies eyeing me as a catch and attempting to woo me. Due to my history I really do not care for a vanilla relationship with a woman who wants to control me. I've tried any number of ways to gently push them out of the "husband hunting" mode they fall into, but have never found a way that really works. Recently though I've discovered an excellent method that seems to work every time. I simply explain that I have a slave who does what I want and what will they offer to interest me? Wow, but they surely do leave quickly at that point and I never hear from them again!

I need to remember to thank my slave for helping shield me from the hungry hunters wanting me to become their controlled hubby!

12/7/2017 9:51:52 AM
Having a vanilla live-in housekeeper is quite different for me. When I have a slave visit for training I make no effort to hide things from the housekeeper and she makes no effort to hide from it - though I know she has no interest in any of it. Recently I had a slave trussed up and was paddling her ass when the housekeeper asked if I wanted a fresh cup of coffee...

"Huh? What? Oh, right. Sure pour me a fresh cup and set it over out of the way."

And she knew better than to ask the slave whether she wanted anything. Of course her having a gag in her mouth at the time may have clued in the housekeeper.  

But it certainly makes it difficult for me, trying to remember not to treat the housekeeper as a slave!

11/27/2017 8:49:14 PM
I just realized something about getting older - and no it's not the hair growing in my ears. Rather it is the fact that some of the women my age remind me of my mother and that scares the P out of me!

11/18/2017 9:43:11 PM
Lordie but the Winters get to be cold when you get older! I remember not that many years ago when I would ride a motorcycle year round, rain or shine. Now the sun goes down, the temp goes down and I turn the thermostat up! Winter chills and Summer passes too quickly. November has nearly passed, Xmas is fast approaching and the Winter Solstice will be here soon (December 21st).

Stay warm people, cuddle close if you've someone to hold.

11/10/2017 4:06:54 PM
This is just plain difficult as hell! So I found someone for the spare bedroom, a live-in housekeeper. It was hard to find someone since they needed to be okay with me owning a slave who visits each week, but finally managed to find someone that fit it okay. Today she was doing some chores and was in a sports bra and panties, pushing the vacuum around and ignoring me. But man oh man, I wasn't ignoring her! I kept wanting to order her to take off the sports bra, while at the same time doing my best to ignore her... I wonder how long it'll be before I start trying to give her orders?! <sigh>

11/8/2017 8:36:37 AM
Lordie, but the scammers are working the site heavily! Yesterday I got 2 scammers mailing me at the same time!

So how do you know whether it is a scammer? If their first mail to you tells you to mail them at their email address, it is a scammer. If their first mail to you tells you to call them, it is a scam. If their first mail to you shows that they live out of state, it is a scam. If their first mail to you shows no relationship to your profile or journal, it is a scam. If their first mail to you tells you they want to be your slave, it is a scam.

Oh well, there is always someone wanting to be scammed. Until people wise up and stop feeding the scammers, there will always be another scammer coming along any moment!

10/26/2017 2:49:15 PM
Being a home owner I occasionally have a room available. Rather than renting it to a vanilla person I prefer having a live-in subby to exchange room/board for a bit of house cleaning. If you have an interest in it, drop a note to see if I have a room available. At the moment I do have a room open.

10/7/2017 4:02:29 PM
I have a new slave who has made a long term commitment. At this time I would be willing to discuss having a second slave, but have absolutely no interest in an occasional sub.

9/9/2017 10:49:23 PM
So I got to thinking... (oh oh!)  I noticed a new sub fem member who commented in her profile that she had over 750 emails from people within the first day. Then I thought about how I get 5-10 emails a week from unknown people. Of course all of hers are from guys wanting to hit on her and all of mine are from Nigeria wanting me to send them money. 

Odd how that works...

8/13/2017 9:38:02 AM
Thought of the day...

When a Dom tells a sub that s/he wants to 'train' the sub, I have to ask myself "Who trained the Dom?"

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Breeanna
 
 Age: 21
 Manila, Philippines