There are those that speak on the matter of a TRUE sub and a TRUE slave, I guess coming from a Submissive's standpoint, is there such a thing as a TRUE Dom??? There are so many on various sites claiming to be, but the real question is, is this something that when you were born from the very first seconds you took your first breathe did you know that is what you were going to be for the rest of your life???? I doubt it. What really makes a true anything when you look at it, for one opinion may vary from the next of what an ideal anything is. I have been asked over and over and time and time again if I was a True Submissive. My response to them is no. I will be the first to admit that I am Not a proper trained sub, so i see myself as unique and strive to be so, I really don't want to be just like everyone else and be a duplicate copy of anyone. When one comes into ownership to another it is a learning process for not only the one being owned but the one owning as well. It takes time to be able to work hand in hand with one another and learn every on and out of each other, the ones claiming to be this already are full of it. If you honestly think that there ever comes a time in which you stop learning or stop wanting to perfect things then you are sadly mistaken. What makes a true anything in this lifestyle is being true to yourself, no faking , no posing, and no pretend. For the ones that this lifestyle is a way of living know exactly what I am talking about. For the ones that think that this is just a game to be played will soon find out that you will not last long in it. Stand up for what you believe in, what makes you and who you really are. |