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Bisexual Female Dominant, 32,  New York
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 Dominant Female

 New York

 5' 4"

 135 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:


 Body Worship



 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control


 Female Supremacy

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Breast Binding/Play






 Masks (On Partner)

 Massage (Getting)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish

 Speech Restrictions





 1950s Household


 Anal Play




 Canes and Crops


 Corner Time


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling



 Masks (Wearing)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Sensory Deprivation







 Goth Lifestyle



UPDATE 10.29.19

I havent used this site recently. No more journals? I edited my profile and now I need to wait until it is approved before I can message other back. Even though there is a verification already.

Sorry if I was chatting with you earlier, Bubblz. I enjoyed the conversation. I will get back to you later.

UPDATE 12.04.17

To answer a few common questions

-My handle is a tongue and cheek joke. I am not interested in being your submissive. Your presumption that I would be interested is cute but misguided. You will be ignored.

-I have two real-time submissives and I am not interested in taking on another. Any time spent on this site is extracurricular.

-Do not solicit me for sessions, pictures, videos, audio, etc.

-I am mostly interested in just browsing around and having casual conversations. Anything beyond that is at my discretion. My time is a luxury, and you are not entitled to it.

-All sincere and polite questions are welcome, but dont be insulted if I dont get back to you right away or at all. I will do my best to respond unless it becomes burdensome to me.

Note pictures reflect interests and practices, most illustrated by sleepymaid

***All Subs, Slaves, and Switches read the following before contact, otherwise you will be ignored***

Rules of DecorumGeneralWhen engaging with the domme the submissive shall always refer to her as, Miss Sara or Maam unless instructed otherwise.Remember to use please, may I, and thank you at all appropriate times.The domme will refer to the submissive as she pleases. Names and terms of endearment will be given and taken away as the domme sees fit.The submissive is expected to always be honest and forthright with the domme, even if this means she will be punished.The submissive is expected to obey all commands and report back promptly.The domme will not order the submissive to do anything that will cause permanent harm (physical or mental), and will not command unlawful activities nor go beyond the bounds of previously discussed or ammended hard limits of the submissive.Do Not request pictures, video, audio, or meet-ups.Do Not solicit time for a session. The Domme will let you know when and if she is available.Do Not whine or beg unless ordered.

Do Not be disrespectful to the Domme or anyone associated with the Domme.Do Not send off-site links unless the Domme has requested.Do Not be afraid to ask questions or respectfully discuss concerns.Do Not solicit requests for a specific trance.Do Not share sessions unless given permission to by the Domme.

Do Not bore or waste the Dommes time.ConsequencesPunishment to be determined by severity and frequency of infraction.OrBanishment from all future interaction.

Lets just relax and have some fun here.

*Profile pictures reflect interests.

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Journal Entries:
3/25/2018 11:43:27 AM
This is a silly site with several silly people.

3/14/2018 2:22:22 AM
Sorry loyal admirers. Life is busy. Busy but wonderful.

2/13/2018 6:53:38 PM
Happy (early) Valentine’s Day one and all. Im in a generous mood, so all that read this message may cum (on all fours) so long as you send me a message of gratitude. If you are chaste then you may edge and still thank me.  Have fun sweeties.

2/10/2018 11:13:33 PM
So many of you male subs talk a big game about worshipping women, but what do you really do? 

If you want to help then donate your time and money to women causes. Scholarships, charities, support those who support women's rights. 

And don't just waste all your money on a bratty little "findom". Actually do something for womankind.  

2/8/2018 6:24:35 PM
nope. I don’t do photos, video, or audio. This is a lifestyle not a business. Otherwise those things would cost you. If you have a problem with that then buzz off.

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