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So you like my pictures and you are interested in me. If you are truly interested then you will at least spend the time to read this profile in full. If I sense that you have not then don't expect a reply from me - there's too many lurkers and game players on this site - and I am sincerely looking for real people. Note: I am a switch and although this profile is geared as me as a dominant. If you are looking for a submissive then let me know what your expectations are. I'm most likely not interested in trans girls in any capacity. About Me: I was born male I live 24/7 as a female. I have gone to great lengths and expense to be female. From breast augmentation to facial surgery, complete electrolysis and hormones for years. I live and work as a female and pass 100%. I do every day things as a female from going to my girlfriends kids bday parties, football games, shopping, work etc. I've lived as a female since 1989 and for all practical purposes I am female. I am single. I'm confident, I know what I want, I know what i am and I have both an exciting and demanding personality. I'm in control without being controlling, I'm demanding and require excellence but always show appreciation. I have very high expectations but I always say thank you. I'm harsh but fair and I protect those that are in my circle. I'm looking to make you better not tear you down. What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a select few sub-missives in my life but you must meet the following criteria at a minimum. If you think you can be what I need you to be then please contact me. 1. You must be local (within 50 miles or so)- just not interested in people popping in from out of town unless you're willing to pay a tribute for my time. I only ask for this for people that are out of town because there's a lot of time and effort and coordination and then to never see that person again is just a waste of time - does nothing for me. 2. Willing to do things my way. If you are truly submissive then you'll do things my way - you won't ask me what I'll do to you or what to expect or anything. We do things the way and the pace I want. I don't ask people to drop life and everything because i'm not looking for that 24/7. We can plan things together and do things when it's convenient. But once we decide to meet etc. then we do what I decide and how I decide. You have to be willing to please me in this way. 3. Must be financially secure. You don't have to be rich or buy me expensive gifts or trips but you must be able to sustain yourself financially and afford to pamper me. I have no issue paying my own way - but I'm not going to pay yours. However, paying my way is a nice gesture and it's always appreciated. 4. Must be emotionally stable. You have to be mature enough to know that I'm not exclusive with anyone and I'm not looking for that. Not saying it won't happen but really - if that's what you're hoping for you need to leave the u-haul at home and find someone else. As a submissive you should value the time you have with me but without expectations. 5. Surrender. You must be willing to surrender your body to me for my amusement. I'm not into anything extreme - i'm safe but never ask for what you want because if you do you'll ruin it for me. No topping from the bottom that hard rule and if it happens then it's over for me. 6. Protocol. I don't have protocol but i totally expect to be treated and pampered as a woman that you worship and appreciate. I will certainly return appreciation and respect as well. My submissive are NOT my door mat but rather beings that I have a lot of feelings of respect and adoration for their servitude. It always flatters me that someone would trust me with that gift. But I'm not big on being called goddess, Mistress etc. We can work out some minor things and figure it out as we go what works for us both. 7. Sex. Not interested in sex with my submissives - male or female. That doesn't mean I won't do genetelia play/torture - just means i don't want to have sex with my submissive. So if BDSM is just code for you to be dominated in the bedroom - probably need to move on because it's not going to happen. 8. Relationship. I don't care if you are married, have a partner etc. First I want to know, and second your significant other must know everything that's going on. I'm not a home wrecker, I don't play with cheaters. BDSM does have intimacy even if there's no sex - so to me it is cheating if the other partner doesn't know. 9. Schedule. You have to be able to make time for me - I don't need you to come running at the drop of a hat but you have to be able to see me during the day or evenings. I know everyone has to work so we can work around that - but you have to make time and if you are too busy and I'm not a priority then it just doesn't work for me. What to Expect: My expectations are few in number but very complex in execution. I can be a lot of work but a guarantee it's worth it. 1. Maybe to take me somewhere I want to go 2. Treat me like a princes 3. Travel with me and cater to my needs / anticipate my needs 4. Body worship - i love my body sensually carressed and massaged all over 5. Bondage - I do like to tie up my submissive and tease them 6. Cuckold - I might want to have you watch while I'm with someone else 7. Chastity - i like my submissive in Chastity 8. Crossdress - Never - i don't like my submissive men crossdressing - I think being a woman is powerful and to say I'm humiliating someone by dressing them up is to me an insult to women. I know many may disagree with me - but I take great pride in being a powerful woman and I firmly believe the way i dress commands social power so how in the world would that be humiliating to anyone - if i were to dress you up in girls clothes it would be because I was going to honor you. 9. Discipline - I usually spank, flog, cane etc. as a reward not as a punishment 10. Punishment - This usually comes in the form of separating you from me. Me leaving you alone or ignoring you for some time until I'm convinced you won't do whatever you did again - and 2nd and 3rd time it's usually over. Because I don't play games with this - i have very strict and high expectations. Do You Still Want to Contact Me? Did I scare you away? If not maybe I need to write something more harsh next time. I don't want a lot of emails on here - but the ones I get I want to be worth my time. But if you decide you want to truly submit then send me a note. If you send me a note then here's a tip. Send me something meaningful. Tell me what you would do to impress me - would you take me somewhere what would you do? What type of relationship are you looking for. How free are you to be with me? Give me something. Remember I get a lot of emails - so if you want me to notice you need to stand out. Finally I love life - i celebrate life - I find pleasure in developing lasting friendships - and you should too. And I'm always looking for the next adventure! So if you have a great idea let me know - who knows what will happen! I have a very happy, content and full life. If i never found anyone else I would be happy and content.
I'm worth it, I have a strong self esteem and sense of self-value. I don't need BDSM to fulfill my life - I just find it extremely exciting and love the people I've encountered so far. I hope you can become one of them. If you think so.. too send me a note. I'm one hot CHIC that loves to get out and take on the world, would love for you to be a part of it!

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monalisa02
 
 Age: 31
 Brussel, Belgium