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| I have been involved in the lifestyle for the better part of 16 years. Since the beginning, I have grown and developed my tastes and skills. I have discovered that I am not simply a Dom, but also a Sadist as well.
However, for as much as I enjoy the giving pain and the art of mixing pain and pleasure, it is not the live all end all of my enjoyment of this lifestyle. I find it important to learn about my partner and to find out what it is that they need and see to it that we both are satisfied.
BDSM is not about just one person finding pleasure in this, but all parties involved. Anyone trying to say any different is full of it. This experience is built on trust and respect. A submissive must be able to trust a Dom in order to give herself up to Him, and a Dom must respect his sub in order to fully understand the gift that her submission truly is.
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