submit to give over or yield to the power or authority of another. devote to give up or appropriate to or concentrate on a particular pursuit, occupation, purpose, cause, etc. I want a boi who understands the true meaning of the definitions above. Now, for my interpretation. There are far too many people on here who use the above words, and then follow them with a list of conditions (I am a submissive who wants you to do a, b and c to me, but my limits are x, y and z). Submission is so much more than bound up, humiliated, or the receiver of pain. It is more than just sex. It is more than being a simple "house wife". It more than being a slave. Submission is about dedicating ones life to another. To be 100% focused on the other's happiness, comfort, and well being. This is not to say that you do not have your own set of interests, it just means that you are willing to place them behind the needs and wants of your dominant. If you are a part time submissive, thats fine, but we are not going to be a good match. If you feel your life is incomplete without someone to whom you completely devote you full attention, then I am definitely interested in hearing from you. Dominance is about accepting the power over another individual, and all of the responsibilities that come with it. For me, its more than just having a boi around to get off whenever I want. I enjoy the act of molding and controlling a boi. I also know, and am willing to accept (and have accepted in the past) the responsibility that comes with having a boi. I am not going to go into a full list of likes and dislikes here, for I think it is not appropriate. It should be enough to say that I have a heavy interest in the BDSM lifestyle and would expect my submissive to have the same. I have found over the years, that things that once completely disgusted me have developed into a full and active interest, and I would expect that I would continue to grow even more over time. I should also note that I am hiv+, and any potential submissive must be okay with this. ---------- I am not looking for a slave. I will not hide you away from society, keeping you locked or caged when not in use . You will be expected to interact with others outside the BDSM scene, to include shopping and being around my friends and family. I am not looking for a son. You will have no rights outside the relationship. I will decide things such as what you wear, who you are allowed to spend time with, what you eat, etc. I will not permanently harm or disfigure you. A boi is no good to me with broken bones, missing limbs, or castrated. That is not to say we won't be delving into the world of pain, it just won't be anything long lasting. The only exceptions to this rule are tattoos and piercings, which will very likely happen over time. I will not torture you. I will defiantly seek to find your limits and push them. You will have the right leave at any time. I am not looking to break any laws by forcing you to stay with me. I am also not interested in having a boi who does not want to be with me. Submission is a gift that should be cherished. If for whatever reason you decide we are not a good match, I will do my best to ensure a smooth transition to whatever you are seeking. You will not be thrown to the curb, nor will I just sell or give you away to another. You will be expected to follow all my orders. There should be no whining or complaining, and they should be done to the best of your ability. You should be able to put your trust in me in knowing what I ask is best for the relationship. I will not ask you to do something illegal. I am not looking for a long, drawn out internet relationship. In a relatively short period of time, I expect that you should be able to decide that our interests match enough to give it a shot. It should not take weeks or months before you will be comfortable enough to meet me. There is only so much we are going to learn about each other over the internet. There will be a trial period. During this time, I can agree to certain limits. Once this period is over though, I expect all limits to be dropped, and we both feel that we are in a long-term relationship. ---------- If what I have stated above seems to interest you, than please message me. I look forward to hearing from you.