I am curious who is out there. I read on here about a woman and a man in a relationship and how hot it is for the woman to beat and or whip him for her pleasure. Maybe I am not getting the whole story but it seems to me that  lot of the Dominant woman on CM just want a whipping boy. Maybe this life isn't for me after all. I am nobodies doormat. Even if I were in a part time relationship, I would want it to be a relationship, not be a whipping post for a woman. While I understand that punishment is part of a D/s relationship, I don't believe that is the only part of it. I have my own list of fantasies and fetishes that I like yet most women on here seem to want no part of a submissive/slaves wants or needs. I read a story a while back that pretty much hit home for me. His job as a sumbissive/slave was to attend to her every need, whether expressed or not. Her job was to take care of him and make herself more attractive and make him want her more every time he saw her. I guess I have ranted enough here. I am just frustrated with some on here. that may go back to my problem with people who can't even give you a ty or a ok for a responce. I must be asking for too much.