So it was an interesting first day on this service. I've met a very pleasant sub overseas who seems like she will be a good friend. A few general folks, and some very odd ones as well. Let me run this past you all and let me know what you think.
My intent on finding a sub up here was to meet online, chat or text a bit here, then go on a few 'dates' to get to know each other. Each conversation showing each other a bit more about the other, gradually implementing a training plan for the sub that will eventually lead to collaring and hopefully a locking ceremony beyond that. in short, build trust while discovering goals and limits.
However, it seems like a lot of these subs want their first visit to involve hog tying them into makeshift candelabras in my dining room, candle ablaze in their ass, while half a dozen people try and have sex with any orifice not providing illumination. Is it me? Am I old fashioned to think one builds up to electro-flogging and high pressure enemas? Or have I just gone mild in my late 30's.
I'm looking forward to your polite intelligent feedback. Thanks all. |