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NeshiiTheKitty

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• Wanting to kik? Message me for it. (Note! I won't send you nudes or play with you over Kik. If I want play, I'll go to a play party. Also, don't spam me with gross pictures of your crusty dick or vagina.) •If you believe in the "One penis policy" with polyamorous relationships, chances are we won't get along. If you're that insecure and jealous about your partner wanting more than one dick on HER terms, polyamory isn't for you. • If you're trolling around on here for "rough", "degrading" sex, click off my profile. You people are a dime a dozen. • Yes, I am a feminist, but feminism doesn't equal female supremacy, it equals gender equality. • I am an odd combination of brat, masochist, and kitten • I am currently Owned and monogamous. However, I am very pro-poly, even after a sour experience that caused my Owner and I to go monogamous for a while.  • I am seeking kinky friends and and possibly a non-sexual play partner. • What I look for in a Top and friends: Someone who is is a bit sadistic but knows when to stop and ask me if I'm okay and gives me cuddles and hugs for aftercare. Someone who has a rad sense of humor. Someone who knows better then to push my past my hard limits (See Below). Someone who knows that they are my play partner not my Dom. Someone who is preferably pro-poly. 420 friendly is welcome (but not during play). Someone who has LOTS of experience in my fetishes and fetishes I'm curious about (See Below). Some who is involved in their BDSM community (attends munches, play parties, classes, workshops, etc.). • Current fetish's: flogging, corsetry, electrical play, pet play, boots, rope bondage, breath play, and tickle torture. • Things I'm curious about: Latex Dollification, Straight Jackets, Fire play, knife play, needle play, interrogation, and cling. • Hard limits: Gender supremacy, financial domination, 1950's household, Gorean Lifestyle, Shit, vomit, piss, children, anything to do with lactation, animals, race play, cannibalism (vore), forced impregnation/Br33ding. • Traits I absolutely despise: Consent violators, moochers (see financial domination in hard limits), people who defend rape culture, misandry, misogyny, race supremacists, homophobes. • I am an introvert. • I love video games, blogging, reading, curling up and cuddling with my Owner in a blanket on a rainy or snowy day, Lolita fashion, Goth subculture, Tattoos, body modification, make up artistry, feminism, and cosmetology. • Have any questions? Feel free to ask. ^^
11/2/2014 12:34:59 PM
How to establish a D/s relationship and own someone Disclaimer: Prepare yourselves, some of you might be in for a HUGE, FANTASTIC, AWE-INSPIRING, ENLIGHTENING, LIFE CHANGING experience with the advice I'm going to give you. Use it well. 1. Talk to them. Get to know them as a... HUMAN BEING. gasp I know, its so weird, huh? Who knew submissives and Dominants wanted you to talk to them as a human being? 2. Don't talk about your scaly- whoops, I mean "magical" genitals. As magical as it maybe, there has to be something more interesting about you as a person, besides your genitalia. If not... Well, that's very tragic. 3. Prove to them that you're not a psycho serial pickaxe murderer/rapist/dead puppy sodomizer. 4.The rest will follow. What to do if they reject as their Dominant or submissive? You write them very angry letters and call them fat and ugly. Tell them that they're not "twue" this or that and that they're time wasters. Thats the ADULT thing to do of course. eyeroll
10/23/2014 9:14:11 PM
Something that makes me snark at half of these Dom's here is the fact that they like to play "Mr. Hardass". They want to throw a couple of "mean" names at you and put their penis in your vagina and maybe your butt, maybe even "loan" their submissive to their friend. That's what they consider to be "sooooooo degrading and humiliating". However they can't handle a few needles and fire. Ha! Come back to me when you have some more substance and experience sweety, any 18 year old boy can call a girl "cunt" and have sex with her. It takes a real sadist to instill fear (in a fun adrenaline pumping sort of way and of course with in limits).
10/22/2014 8:55:33 PM
"So why is someones involvement with their local BDSM community such a big deal for you?"
I do it for safety reasons. It seems like 80% of predators steer clear of munches and play parties and if the manage to make their slimy asses into play parties and munches, the community will quickly take action and ban their asses, usually. I have a hard time trusting people who aren't involved. Typically their is a reason why they avoid them like the plague. If I can't obtain any sort of reference about you, chances are, I'm not going to play with you. Simple as that.
gigi8
 
 Age: 20
 London, United Kingdom