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Please note that I do not answer requests to meet people alone, have sex, or need a daddy to take care of me.
I would definitely describe myself as evolving, at the moment. I'm still learning what I want and like... And what I absolutely love.
So far, I love rope and bondage. I love being tied up to the point where I can't move...if I can move, I'm usually plotting ways that I could possibly untie myself =) I privately practice tying but it is a work in progress.
I love impact play, not so much thuddy as stingy. I have been whipped once and I see some possibility there. There's the anticipation and that sound and I really think that it is something that I would like to learn as well as bottom. I know that I said I don't like thuddy but I mean thuddy as in hard paddles not floggers, I love a good flogging... And I may or may not have a naughty streak when I get my hands on one. All in good fun, I just hope to get spanked for it.
Fire play is a current fear that I am working through. One should be cautious of fire when they use a can of hairspray =) I do have some pretty cool things in the works but I'm not pulling it out just yet.
I'm into pushing boundaries for the thrill of it. I see no point in living like everyone else. We live once and then we're just gone; I don't want my life to be carbon copy of any other. In the words of Lewis Carroll "I try and believe in at least six impossible things before breakfast".
I am hedonistic. I like to see a persons eyes roll back in their head when I make them happy...and skin, my god, just to touch it, feel it, run my nails across it; it is an absolute fetish of mine. Hair is a close second, I like running my fingers through it, smoothing it, messing it up...mmm mm mm. I'm into kissing, biting, licking...what ever feels right at the moment. I'm into finding that one place that gets to someone and exploiting the hell out of it.
I think that I am ultimately submissive but cautious. I also think that I could switch given the right mood/person. When it comes to non-play activities, I can be quite traditional and polite. I don't push for more than what is offered and I wait and plan my moves accordingly. At the end of the day, my goal is to do no harm. I like to make people happy.
I love the community that I am finding here in Oklahoma you can find some amazing people right under your nose if you look in the right places.
Current Blog: http://intothedungeon.wordpress.com/
Take note of the following;
My ideal relationship is monogamous (outside of straight power exchange play where it is beneficial to experience and learn from others). I respect others decisions to be poly but it is not for me, personally. I am stingy with a significant other, I want someone to be mine. I am bi-sexual, I can happily be with a man or a woman but not both.
I am not looking for a wham-bam-thank-you-mam collar. I think that collars are earned and the decision that someone is worthy of submitting to is something that happens over time.
I will never blindly follow anyone; that is not a criteria as much as a personal statement. Just because someone calls themself a dom/domme or master/mistress does not mean that I will not consider my own health, safety, and personal values when deciding if I will go along with something. I'm a big girl; I run my house, excel in school, and go to work and manage money all on my own.
Outside of the above, I am someone who wants protocol (at the appropriate times). There is this whole dimension of funishment and discipline that I love. There is a time and a place for this though.
There are some people who you know, know you. When you play with someone who you have chemistry with and you know that they would never hurt you (take you to red... duh, I know that pain is part of it; I'm talking like, slice your neck open) it can be an amazing thing. I want that, forever.
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