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NerdyJoss

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I'm turned on by service-oriented mentality, service work, social work, formality, excellent manners, politeness, physical cruelty (with consent only!), all types of skin play, discipline, and everything sensitive people do to support and inspire each other. I expect integrity about respecting boundaries under all circumstances. What I love most is to be asked permission!

I especially love masculinity in women! I respond to it with my whole body-mind! I am open to private play (I love knives and chains) but I'm really seeking some meaningful and thoughtful relationships.

I LOVE to talk and correspond through email when it's provocative discussion and deep sharing. Cyber scenes or naughty chat doesn't interest me AT ALL. If you ask, you'll be ignored!

As far as men, I prefer effeminate men and gay or bisexual men as subs, only trans-men as doms, and I will not respond to anyone who doesn't have a picture on her/his profile (unless you send one with your message).

*******If you're reading this carefully, and have made it to the end, please respect that I am not interested in masculine straight men at all, unless they are transgendered men.********
4/18/2013 7:35:40 AM

Ready to jump in.  I have confidence that I can take care of myself, and I've never been one to hold back.  

4/17/2013 2:03:09 PM

Interested in a mail-package romance?  I made it up just now.  We can send each other packages in the mail, like poems comprised of small objects and strange impressions.  Nothing unlawful, or disgusting, nothing troublesome for the mail carriers...just playful little gifts.  

 

Any takers?

4/13/2013 12:51:55 PM

Haven't made a journey entry in far too long.  Thought I might try the audio journal entry, but I'm not keen on doing things haphazardly or imperfectly.  I like to feel prepared, grounded, and in control--then to act.  

 

I'm in Houston, unwilling to travel more than half an hour, and wishing for someone out there to engage.  I want to see some muscles sweating with effort.  I want to see someone blushing and grunting.  I want to hear apologies, begging for permission, looking away from eye contact, only to burn me with a confident gaze when finally allowed to do so.  I find myself missing some of those who are gone, in a melancholy mood, and just open enough to consider meeting someone for something informal but meaningful to both of us...

6/7/2009 3:31:02 PM
What are the differences among the following terms:  boundary, limit, restriction, responsibility.  How do you express these?  How do you communicate your own needs, wants, lines to cross?  I want to know how you do it.  Tell me.
6/2/2009 1:39:45 PM
I'm ready to go on some dates.  Casual - coffee dates or light meals.  No sex or play right up front -- I'm not wired like that.  I just want to experience getting to know another person.  Not ready for serious or long term romance (or really much of any romance) right now. 

I'm interested in dating women, transgendered men or women, bisexual men or women.  I respond to masculinity in women, and femininity in men.  Very manly men best leave me alone completely.  (Friendly warning!)
5/29/2009 5:40:42 AM
I'm willing to train a submissive again.  I'm willing to take into special trust, a person who defines herself/himself by how they serve, how they please.  I'm willing to respond to someone seeking my approval.  I'm willing to be thoughtful, to provoke, to push and challenge, to make arrangements, to direct and organize, to give explicit instructions, to discipline, and to punish when necessary, always with love and respect.


5/27/2009 1:29:26 AM
I'm still grieving the relationship that ended last year.  Several cities, camping, road trips, sex in public, so much willing experimentation.  I idealize what I had, especially in those moments before sleep.  I was so drawn to her, as if by a force beyond myself.  Was it addictive?  Hell, yes.  Was it unhealthy?  Well, it has been sacred to my training.  And to hers. 


I am hungry for some skin, some sweat, some body fluids!  I want to smell a woman's smells.  I want to discover and remember myself.  I want the rush and the deep, knowing satisfaction of trust and pain and pleasure and exhaustion.  Give it to me.

MsAboveNBeyond
 
 Age: 22
 Boston, Massachusetts