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Come sacrifice yourself to my pleasure. It will be worth it, I promise... x
I'm a sadistic Domme who enjoys intelligent submissives across the gender spectrum, and I'm here in search of a truly special submissive partner for a relationship. I am not interested in playing with strangers.
Before I even consider the possibility of making someone mine, I prefer to know them as a person first. I like people who are bright, engaging, and intelligent, and whose submission is a gift they offer only to someone they know, trust and respect.
I'm definitely open to friendships online, so feel free to message me regardless of your location or orientation. I do reserve the right to reply only to messages that interest me. You are most likely to receive my interest if you send a conversation-starter that is intelligent, friendly, and well-typed. I value communication skills very highly.
A little about me: I am a writer who works from home. I currently live in NE Nebraska but may find myself in a different part of the country over the next year depending on family needs. I'm not currently in any relationships and have no children.
I have many sexual interests, but at a minimum, a potential partner should enjoy frequent sexual use (I've a high sex drive), rough sex, pleasing me orally, pain, bondage, orgasm control, obedience, and being praised for obedience. An ideal partner would also be interested in exploring consensual roleplays involving nonconsent scenarios, and be open to strapon play.
I prefer to decide if and when my partner orgasms - this is not the same as permanent orgasm denial. I do not allow foot worship. Gender expression is fun to play with, but using feminine clothing as a form of humiliation play is not acceptable to me.
The amount of control I would have in an ideal relationship would include, at a minimum, relationship matters including how my partner and I interact and if/when/how we engage in sex or BDSM activities. Constant micromanaging does not appeal to me.
If you think we may be a good fit, please feel free to reach out. Do note that I am not currently your Domme, and while respect is essential, it is presumptuous to behave as though I already own you. Just converse with me as two human beings, and let's see what evolves.
5/11/2014 7:49:06 AM

I'm really not into female supremacy. It's not because I don't want to dominate the absolute fuck out of people I find attractive; there's just something seriously wrong with acting like EVERYONE should subscribe to that dynamic. It works for me and that's fantastic, but when you start acting like your sexual tastes point the way to a deeper truth, I suspect you're delusional.

I dominate others because I enjoy it, because it fulfils me. Some women prefer not to, and actually, that's fantastic, because I've dated some of those submissive women, and I am glad to have had those relationships. Some men are dominant. Oodles of people the world over aren't even into D/s.

There is absolutely not a single fucking good reason why women are better than men, why women should always be in charge. It's a deeply problematic belief, and as a feminist, as a Domme, and as a human being it disturbs me nearly* as much as the male supremacists.

Your kinks are your kinks. It just creeps the fuck out of me when people act like they're a good basis for a life philosophy.


*Only "nearly" because women have actually been deprived of rights in our past and still have societal disadvantages as a result of sexism, whereas I don't think the female supremacists will ever get that far.

5/10/2014 4:44:34 PM

What I really crave is someone intelligent and fun who can engage with me on an intellectual level as well as enjoy compatible interests on a sexual level. I don't give a fuck about sex/gender, body type, race, job or income level, experience level, any of that. Despite that, I begin to suspect I'm one of the most selective people on this site.

If you're intelligent and love conversation, if you can type like an educated adult, if you're between the ages of 20 and 40, if you've read my entire profile and think we may be compatible... please message me. I really would love to hear from you.

5/10/2014 4:41:34 PM

I briefly had an account here in April, but others weren't able to view my profile for some reason and CM tech support didn't reply to me, so I've made a new one. If my profile looks familiar to you, yes, I'm FatGoddess under a new name.

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 Age: 23
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