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I can honestly say that I've never put an ad on a site like this before. This leads me to my dilema of not knowing what to actually write. I mean at best I can only write a couple of paragraphs and give you a vague description of myself, but I can atleast make an attempt.
Starting with the basics, if the name didn't tip you off already, I'm a rather nerdy individual. I work as a software developer and own my own company. On top of this I play video games, watch rather nerdy TV (Big Bang Theory, Venture Brothers, Doctor Who, anime, etc.), and pretty much love any movie with a decent storyline (classics, foreign films, etc. are all fine with me). And yes, if we're together I will probably drag you to any superhero/fantasy movie that comes out (Iron Man movies, etc).
However I'm not completely nerdy, I do enjoy going outdoors. I hike quite a bit and run daily, I like to swim, etc. I also enjoy going to plays and going to the opera (La Boheme is probably my favorite). In terms of music, I've been told by my 10 year old nephew that my taste in music is "uncool". Personally I have no idea if it is or not, but I love bands like The Black Keys, Jimi Hendrix, The White Stripes, Spoon, Cream, etc.
All of that being said, if what you are looking for is a "man's man", I'm not the person for you. To be honest, I don't even know what being a man's man would entail. I have a mental image of a guy who randomly decides that he doesn't like the way people are looking at him and thus goes into a rage. He breaks a bottle on the bar and proceeds to beat up everyone that he can find, including the small child that was passing by the front door. He then grabs the nearest woman by the hair and drags her back to his place... I'm not that man.
I try to be a gentleman whenever possible. I hold open doors, say please and thank you, offer my coat to my date if she looks cold, etc. So, once again, if you're looking for someone to simply degrade you and treat you as property instead of a person, I am not what you are looking for either.
For me a relationship is about trust and treating the other person with respect. My wish is to find someone who I can honestly say is my best friend. Someone who will be there when I need them to be, just as I will be there for them. That of course doesn't mean that I wont tie you up and have my way with you, it just means that I will tie you up and have my way with you because it's what we both want. For me the D/s part of the relationship is more mental than physical. The fact that someone trusts me that much makes me feel very close to them.
That brings me to my sexual preferences I guess. In the bedroom, and out of it, I do have a dominant side. I'm very much the type of guy to tear your clothes off, throw you on the bed, and have his way with you. I've been a Dom for about nine years now and have had a chance to try most of the things that this site has listed. I have only a couple limits (children, animals, etc.) and tend to push the limits of those that I'm with. I don't really have any fetishes (nothing that I completely require to enjoy sex) and don't really have any fantasies that require fulfilling (I've already done all the ones that I've had). I do love making a woman orgasm and if you're a moaner/screamer, that is a big plus.
As far as the woman that I'm looking for, I'm attracted to women who are intelligent, can carry on a conversation, and are generally nice. Of course someone who has a submissive side. In terms of looks, to be completely honest, I will say that I'm more a breast man than anything else. Actually that's not completely true, I'm more attracted to women with a pretty face but saying I'm a "face man" just sounds sort of wrong. So basically if you have some curves and a pretty face, I'm probably interested. Oh and like I said, if you're a screamer/moaner, you definitely get bonus points...
Anyway, I've talked enough. I do have pictures that I can send to you if you're interested in getting to know one another (considering my work, I can't post them here). And if you're not interested, then I have no idea why you kept reading up until this point. Anyway, I look forward to hearing from you.
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