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We are a happy couple involved in most aspects of D/s. By that, we mean that while we enjoy the fun of the physical aspects of play (from floggers to canes to whips), we consider the power exchange and the mental aspects to be of paramount importance.

A bit about us:

I am Neptune. I am a relatively experienced and demanding Dom. I am experienced with and enjoy the toys of this lifestyle, but the real depth of the lifestyle lies in the power exchange. The magic of that slight twinge of fear in a girl’s eye when she submits herself, her feeling of vulnerability, her cravings to serve a Dom well. Getting inside a sub’s head to enhance the overall experience… priceless. :)

mermaid is My submissive and a sensual masochist. she enjoys moderately high amounts of pain, but likes being spoiled too. she's equally happy with the sensual touch of another woman and the biting sting of My whip. she's an experienced bisexual (her sexuality is not a daliance or some random experimentation). she's outgoing and bubbly, which can mask a sharp mind and an intolerance of fakes (at work, in the lifestyle, and just generally).

For us as a couple, the lifestyle is a central part of who we are, but it’s not what we do 24/7. Some people get REALLY wrapped up in the lifestyle, spending all of their free time at lifestyle events, searching for that perfect cat o’ nine tails online, gossiping incessantly about who’s sleeping with whom. Such a waste of time. Work, friends, family, outdoor activities – these are the substance of our lives. And they are more interesting topics of conversation than the latest gossip.

A bit about My BDSM philosophy (from an old profile), which infuses our relationship and defines the activities in the House: "I've been around the block, made more than my fair share of mistakes, been hurt and hurt others enough times to know that the “online thing” is treacherous. The drama often overshadows the desire to make a connection. "Slow" and "cautious" are too seldom a part of the bdsm-relationship lexicon. This is unfortunate. A deep and substantial core of respect and friendship must be established for a romantic relationship to take root. There are those who would say that a D/s relationship is not about friendship - that a friendship must be between equals and D/s is not about equality. I am of the opposite opinion. For Me, the sub and Dom both bring something valuable to the relationship. The roles within the relationship may be different, but they have equal value."

What we seek:

The House of Neptune is open to playing with select friends on occassion and possibly adding another sub, but only if the fit is right. Since everyone has a different opinion about "right", here is our definition: Whether for play or more, the sub who would join us would need to be focused mostly on the relationship with mermaid. Both would serve Neptune, but without a strong bond between "the girls," poly relationships simply don't work, in the short or long run.

Our thoughts about submissives: they should be confident in what they bring to the table. If a sub has nothing that she brings to a relationship that is her own (mentally, emotionally), then where is the gift in the power exchange? A woman who knows her own power, and chooses to give that gift, knowing the power she's handing over.... that's the good stuff. :)

On the more superficial side: we would be most interested in a sub who is approximately hwp and living in or willing to travel to the North Texas area. she would have time available for social activities and interests outside of bdsm. she would be stable in her life and especially her career.

We are both professionals. We aren't looking to support anyone, and we don't need a live-in maid (well, ok, it's a great fantasy, but not realistic).

I am a preppy guy in a nerdy profession. mermaid is a girly-girl who is both mature beyond her years and a young, giddy professional football fanatic. In other words, we are in most visible ways your typical white-collar, suburbanite couple.

We seek someone in similar life circumstances. If you're looking for the Harley type, we can't help. If pocket-protectors, the National Geographic channel and British comedies turn you on, you might fit in around here.

This is not to say that either of us are complete bookworms. mermaid loves going off-road with her truck, and I... well, I've broken more than My fair share of bones doing crazy stuff in the great outdoors (My own bones... not bdsm-related...LOL..)

So, to our friends, we send greetings. To potential friends, we offer a hand in friendship. Drop us a line. :)


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Pinkangel4ds
 
 Age: 40
 Jersey Shore, New Jersey