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Neno

I'm an experienced male Dom, I do not switch and I'm looking for sub women. They can be switch if they wish, they just don't get to switch on me... I'll take others along for them to play with if needs be. First play shall always be with a third person, your friend or mine... I find this much better than 'safe calls' etc and is to increase your comfort and safety as much as mine.

I'm quite well known on the UK scene, not just the local Newcastle one... Previously I've had the pleasure of a harem of women to play with and select from, I've now moved on. I'm focussed on getting to know folk deeper - more looking for a very special someone, quality, not quantity...

This means I'm interested in meeting folk... that does NOT mean I'm a player... I'm very willing to put in all the effort needed to build a relationship, whether play or deeper.

*edit* Any folk that are under 18 years old... Don't need the trouble that you bring and SHALL report your profile... so keep walkin... nothing for you to see here...
2/28/2009 12:53:53 AM
I'm currently speaking with Lew Rubins, worlds best rope master and ex kink.com star, about taking him on a two week tour around the UK (& perhaps Eire). I'm only accepting 5-ish booking... if your event can use him, message me asap.
2/13/2009 9:20:28 AM
Lookin forward to Liester (or is that Leister?) on Sat night ad BBB on Sunday... If you see me - I drink Jack and coke ;-) *lol* joke! Just stop past and say hello :D
2/10/2009 2:06:10 PM
I tried to keep away from play... I REALLY DID! It's just that play didn't keep away from me...

Even with my VERY sore leg, I caved :-(
Whether it was due to her having the six pack or the breasts of a 21 yeaar old I'm actually not quite sure... I do know that today I had my two week post op appointment with my surgeon that did my knee and shin... and it's doing well... very well actually...

So........ to keep in the swing of things, I'm planning another mad few days starting tomorrow... Not sure if I'll do the S'land or York munch, but one shall have me for their troubles :-) A small party in Ncl on Fri followed by a new gig at Leister on Sat, then BBB on Sun afternoon and Unleashed in the evening both in B'ham... and perhaps the fittie that caused me to cave agin on Thu night if I get back from either munch in time... there have been times when one night in York has turned into a two week tour of the UKs fet clubs you see...

I still profes that I am not a play slut, himbo, bimboy or anything of the sort... Way I see it... I'm a Dom that enjoys his hobby! Like a surfer... Surfs up folk :-D
2/5/2009 1:47:19 PM
Just on for a second :-(

Shall reply to messages tomorrow... just escaped the clutches of my evil surgeon that screwed up my leg op... but healing well now and got loads of really interesting pain pills that make me see strange colours etc :-P so apart from attending Tension in Newcastle this Sat night... I'm givin play a miss for now, not safe if I'm off my head... (for once) ;-) damn it ...
1/25/2009 1:55:38 PM
Folk, the good luck messages for tomorrow are wonderful... Thank-you all! Not sure when I'll be back online at all, never mind access to adult content... but I shall be thinking loads about every minute I miss and dirty memoirs about all the messages from here :-)

Speak soon.

Kris ;-)
1/21/2009 4:05:53 PM
Firstly, a special note... glad to see you stop past my profile earlier... Hope you come back again at some point :-) *waves*

Secondly, I've travelled loads for clubnights BBB etc in last few months... not as a midlife crisis as one 'nilla friend thought... (Told her, when that happens MTV & CNN shall both be in tow :-P ) more due to the fact I'm heading for an op on my leg and I was expecting to be stuck in 'my' bed for three months to recover (big op lots of ouchie things, I'm Dom'ly, I don't do pain...).... Turns out I'm prob not even gonna be in my flat... Really big chance now of being stuck in a hospital all the bloody long time... Although desperatly trying to alter that...

Finally got the date today for the op, Monday.

They want me to arrive on Sun AM, sober. Told them that ain't gonna happen... 3 months with no play, begining with a Sat night with no Jack Daniels... dream on... besides, Newcastle Munch is on this Sunday between 4 & 6... Could I check-in afterwards? I could handel not drinkin at munch ;-) (ish)...

& they caved! SCORE! I now have to be there on Monday morning... AND I can eat b'fast!

Soooo, I now have an extra day to sort odds and ends... much needed time! I'm not going to (of course) go out with a bang... No party at mine Sat night... but... if close friends from here wanna come hangout... excellent...

Perhaps Sat AM... I'm gonna do something I've wanted to do for yonks... I'm gonna go visit Penshaw Monument... not biggy really... just wanna see it... perhaps see the Angel at some point... expecting to do this solo, but if anyone fancies it... contact me, don't just park near by and stalk me :-D *lol*

Afterwards or even Sun before Munch, I REALLY wanna go ice skating! Really good if some others joined in... Been told by the surgeon not to walk to far never mind jog or skate... but, what damage can it really do... a day or two before the op *lol* 

Weird that I'm posting this? Not in my opinion. I'm very open... I should actually frequantly shut my mouth about some things... ooopsie. But since starting this profile about a month ago I've made loads of new friends... If I do get sentanced to 3 months @ Freeman and tap the wifi... Theres a firewall to stop me getting on here, I built it! :-P FUCK! Wish I didn't do a good job on it :-) So, if I'm not replying to messages after Sunday... Come add me on Facebook, just look for the Tension Fetish Group in Newcastle... I run the group... easy to find me... Just add CM, collarme or poivert to the add so I know where I know you from...

So, Sat night wanna hangout & Newcastle Munch on Sunday, 4-6 @ Trillians... and inbetween, iceskating... You're invited... Get in touch.

BTW, next Tension is 7th of Feb... I won't be there, but some are crashin at mine to rub salt in the wounds, even if as it seems I'm in Freeman (cunts) :-) afterparty at mine and I miss it :-) 
1/19/2009 9:03:13 AM
:-) Why is it that so many 'sub' put Massage (getting) as a lives for option and if the Dom is luck the Massage (giving) option is the next box down, or even in toleratees as I've seen more than once :-) *lol*

Madness :-) how very sub of you all to jus lay there while the Dom'ly one does all the work... You'll want your windows done next or dog taken for a walk? :-P

But, on the flipside... cudos on being so honest!
1/18/2009 4:20:48 PM
The folk that just write asking for me to tell them stuff about me... better either say something about themselves in the same message or on their profile or at least have an indication of what they're into shown on the likes and dislikes... I'm getting a little miffed at girls/women messaging and no further reply after me spending time writing them just to eventually find out it's because I mention one item I'm into that they are not... I like Ben & Jerry's Ice Cream also, but not had that for two years... like and dislikes are transitory... and a list of kinks for anyone is never set in stone or or a list of must haves with every person I play with... Every sub girl out there expects respect... and in the introduction stage quite rite too... but demand something you are willing to reciprocate... if you ask for no one liners, don't give them... if you exect folk to read your profile at least browse theirs *lol*

If you wanna get to know me keep reading this journal :-) and read my profile too... just take the likes etc with a pinch of salt... discuss them with me... Conversation is a useful tool, usee it and you improve the skill to use it and confidance shall grow (if needs be)... Conversation needs to start somewhere... let it be here...
1/17/2009 4:34:22 PM
Ended up back in Newcastle from B'ham a little earlier... rather good chance I'll be back down again for the BBB tomorrow - not been for seveeral months and actually miss it! Who'd have guessed :-)

I had loads of fun with the equipment stall on the stage and doing the demos etc... but It's defo the discount naughty items I miss more than that... I really enjoy getting new things... The nipple clamps I got from the four months ago have really gone walkies... need to replace them... as evryone knows... I love kink and have tonnes of friends in it but there is nothin' wrong with 'nilla sex it's great also... and simple joys/toys cross-over easily if you can approach the conversation correctly...
1/14/2009 10:55:12 AM
I'm a little miffed about not being able to get to York munch tonight... but Sunderland shall be graced by my presence instead, lucky bastards *lol*

I eventually tried to cancel my party lastnight... just too many hastles... but the message didn't get through to some and they still appeared... so I left them playing in the flat as I headed off to town, had a great night and eventually bumped into a pile of the lasses from facebook that I'd cancelled and we all headed back to join the others at mine and had a fullscale all nighter in the end after all...

Feelin the need for zzzzzzzzleep now like... But no rest for the very wicked >:-)
1/13/2009 11:29:45 AM
Never appologise or regret anything that once made you smile...
1/7/2009 10:33:43 AM
I've spent loads of time on trains this week and due to bordom... restarted to write poetry... Yup, I was really bored! I'd finished reading 'Story of O' and perhaps the torments there in focused my thoughts? Leaving the book around on the table top while on a call certainly started a very interesting conversation with the girl sat diagonally opposite... or perhaps that convo focused my thoughts... but I started to scribble random words and form short stanzas from them like it was a board game... and eventually had some decentish stuff... I've had lots of poems published previously - the first few without me even knowing... an ex had sent them to a friend to view and surprised me... On the final leg of my journey back to Newcastle, after a wonderful afternoon speaking with a previous play partner my focus changed again and I kinda decided that since women put rules on one liners etc on their profiles and seldom give the same in refection via reply... I should perhaps put a spin on my profile... I'm not a mensa person... just normal intelect and tend to enjoy modern tools like spell checkers (shame none here) so forgive the typos and spelling errors and I shall forgive yours... I do think about what I write, but I always also write from the heart... One poem I may stick up here as my main profile text for a fe days and see if any girls reply in proes (or is that pros?) also... 

I'm told this is a wrong spelling there... big deal... content is more important than the spelling, so I'm leaving it in. I write openly and honestly... others that have perfect text... Well done! I tend to not feel the need to over think things and am quite happy with my account here and the attention I get.. Don't we all? *lol* Anyone that wishes to try and fine me sending a one liner or copy/paste message... that's a critisism that I'd be ashamed of.
1/6/2009 2:47:11 PM
What have I been up to??? :-D I jump away for a few days and my messages go wild, I enjoy messaging some of you, and have had some really long chats... but, don't get addicted to the virtual chatter ladies :-) Real life, whether 'nilla or scene always take first place, virtual like this always needs to take a distant second... Just back in Newcastle today after being away in Wakefield for Kinkdom and York to visit a previous play friend followed by visits to Leeds and Edinburgh to visit new friends... Those that get my attention in messages, I like to visit real quick...

I always enjoy being in Leeds, love the city heaps, sadly it was only a couple of hours I was there for this time, but I'm planning a visit there agin in a few days... not just for play... I wanna night out in town, one girl already up for it :-) would be nice to have another or more to keep momentum up, don't worry about clubs and queues... got them all sorted already... I 'may' even stretch to buying a drink or ten :-)

Edinburgh... I've always had a softspot for Edinburgh... and the chance call from someone (I'd been chatting to by email lots previously here) while on a train returning to Newcastle caused me to take a chance and stay on the train... bit of a risk since my ticket was only to Newcastle... This alone made me excited and I have to say that I travel lots... and I love having someone waiting to collect me on the platform, esp when there are no ticket barriers on it *lol* It's only a small risk, but a very memorable one... I've contracted in Edinburgh lots in the near past and was gutted to not be there for New Year, but evrything is now made up for, nothing missed - my new friend made surethat my softspot wasn't soft for long at all :-)

Still looking to make friends and meet folk... Perhaps something deeper shall happen with either of the two pretty ones from the last few days... but my plan is as always... try to find the perfect one... and to have as much fun on the road to meeting her as I can... and yes, I admit it, sometimes the one perfect for me... I'm not the one they're looking for... we all make deeper friends that way also though.

btw... I shall accept the friends requests... just not yet... Things are hard enough here with the search being so 'put folk in a box' type thingy... My likes and dislikes are VAST, and just because I like something don't mean I need it at all... I like laying on Kuta Beach in Bali, as long as the bombs stay away... but if I chose that as a tick box and you didn't like it, it would keep you from seeing me... and I get the feeling that adding friends here would make your choice to message me more hard... so for now, to help make things easier for all... If folk want to see my friends etc, look at my facebook... I'm easy to find, look for my play name (Neno) and real name (Kris) in Newcastle... I'm the only one here :-) and they even allowed the partial nude pic I wanted to add here!
12/26/2008 3:31:19 PM
Journal? = blog of sorts? kinda diary perhaps?

Well, here goes...

Xmas just passed, spent most of it voluntering etc as most other weeks, just cause it's Xmas shouldn't make any diff... just my opinion... perhaps you can tell I'm not overy religious from that, your not very wrong... but if we do a bday for one persons god, then all folks special ones should make a diff to stuff... so that makes the big xmas thingy a little smaller... not a bad thing...

I'm a very (even though it may not sound it from the above) possitive person... I've had really big knocks and whether it's because I'm a Scot that's 1/2 Irish, an Aries, or a red(ish) head... I have my own mind and kick back, but I get loads of enjoyment from helping folk and mentoring them back on to their feet.

I'm REALLY looking forward to the local fet club, Tension... it's tomorrow :-) and the standard routine of drink and play then folowed by loads of more personal deeper play at my afterparty makes the anticippppp.... pation even greater...

Funny things clubs, I used to run my own, I know the troubles and the fun... but I'm enjoying private off scene relationships lots currently... soooooo many folk are kinky that wanna keep it private... excellent :-)

Still lookin for my special 'one' though... *admits a fault here* I spoke with a really nice girl on Xmas day... that's not the 'fault' *lol* my fault, mia culpa, was that I noticed the spark that us interesting folk have, in her, and stupidly forgot her bloody name! Amazed at my own stupidity there... First time ever I've been turned on by blue hair... and no, she was certainly not an OAP :-)

No idea what New Years Eve holds for me yet, prob still in Newcastle, kinda stuck here waiting for a leg op... can still go to gym and play basketball etc, just can't go very far... in case they get a cancellation and bump me up the list... No fookin ideawhy I'm saying this shit to you... Who are you anyway? :-)
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 Age: 50
 Hartford, Connecticut