Hello, welcome to my profile.

I am not new to this site, however this is obviously a new profile.

I am looking to explore my dominant side, but be warned, I am not a pushover just because I am new to dominating. I am not here for wanky sub men to dictate to me their fantasies, that's not to say I am not here to listen to a subs needs - I am and I do care about what you want as well as what I want.

I am attracted to confident & masculine men, which in the past I have always associated with dominance. Over the years I have realised how wrong that assumption was as I have made friends with many submissive men who possess both those attributes.

I am not looking for a man who wants me to constantly treat him like shit.

I am looking for a man who is a gentleman, who knows how to treat a woman and who enjoys a woman taking control.

Preferably a masochist. I am myself a masochist, but have realised I really do enjoy inflicting pain on others.

Don't worry, I wont be asking for any financial contributions/gifts.

I'm sorry guys, but I'm not looking for anyone over 40 ish, however I am flexible on this if our needs meet.

Talk to me as a human rather than some dominant fantasy woman and you will be in my favour.

As for ladies, I have no upper age limit, I am preferably looking for a submissive woman as a friend/lover and if she happens to enjoy me hurting her well that's a bonus.