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I'm looking for an intelligent partner who is confident and has good self-esteem. It's creepy having a sub who really is a doormat. Age is less important than brains, but I can't see myself with someone under 40. Ideally, a relationship would be in the cards but that's something we can't predict. Physically, I have a weak spot for rubinesque women. I'm sane, and have a full life. The kink world is just one side of me. I'm not into abusing a woman, I adore women. For me, BDSM is more in the mind than the flesh. I suggest we not have endless emails. A few messages to feel each other out, a few phone conversations perhaps, followed by a face to face chat.